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The first impression can really set a tone. Most greet their mistress naked and on their knees then allow the Mistress to initiate. You'll find that the Mistresses are super easy to talk to and will lead you through everything. Personally, I like to greet my Mistress on my hands and knees for a kick in the balls. It seems to amuse the mistresses.

Feet come in handy around the water. I have used my feet to: 1) Dig into the sand to find clams, and use my toes to pull them out of the sand. 2) Hold onto a towrope while waterskiilng; You can either put the handle behind your heel (don't fall forward) or use the top of your foot (which hurts) 3) Used a foot wrap around a line to keep from drifting away.

I know that laugh, and that kick. Happy memory. Of course you did it again.

I know that laugh, and that kick. Happy memory. Of course you did it again.

Same for me. It's partly why I started the thread. I couldn't agree more!

I tend to negotiate scenes mostly in person. When I’m emailing, I don’t want to make the mistress read pages of detail. In practice, keep it short and simple, just limits, areas of play, and anything that might need prep. In person I sort of introduce myself as a submissive and cover a few details. What do my fellow subbies prefer: Communicate as much as possible by email ahead of time, or communicate face to face? Also, are some subjects best covered by one method or the other? How much do the Fortress Mistresses want to know before they walk in that door to start kicking my ass? Do you prefer a detailed email, or does verbal negotiation give you a better feel for things?

Looking at Brad's recent haircut and decent shoes/pants, I'd say he is a recent addition to the homeless population. The cap and gown actually fit, so they may be his. A few possibilities: After graduation, his parents broke the news: You're an adult now;Get out! So he packed his things and stole the shopping cart. Now he is wandering Chinatown, hoping to shame his parents into taking him back. OR He is making an existential statement about graduating from college with no job and $100K in student loans and a $50K judgement against him for illegally downloading songs and movies, The homelessness is just a way to avoid bill collectors. OR He has been a bum for a while, but went to the barber's college and got the cut. The pants and shoes came from a mugging. With his new disguise, he is crashing graduation parties for the free buffets, and plans to invade college dorms for both a place to sleep and things he can sell to feed his drug habit. The freaky Asian-french maid of times square seems more like a public humiliation thing (how did a mistress avoid that possiblity?). It could be that she is just stopping by a toy store on her way to work (at one of the nearby shows), but the face art you described seems to rule that out. What do you think?

When you get kicked in the head by a jackass, you have to consider the source.

I'd say the BDSM examples in mainstream media as I was sexually awakening were more indirect than mild. It's hard to appreciate now, but Wonderwoman (with her golden noose, and getting tied to a chair every other episode) and Catwoman (tied by some villan to a machine that would slowly kill her), et al in their revealing costumes were as close to sexual situations as TV got at that time.You could say that Linda Carter was my first love, and she never even knew it;) Slasher films were all the rage, featuring young teens sexual explorations interrupted by some guy with a knife. Sex as powerplay was a real theme in both mainstream media and real life. Universally, a woman held power and respect by not having sex (or witholding sex). Things reversed if she gave in. For me, it wasn't so much a matter of discovering that my BDSM urges existed, it was a matter of integrating the power exchange and sensation play that everybody was doing anyway. At the same time, sexuality wasn't discussed openly, except that deviation from the norm was truly considered mental illness: Doggie style was Kinky and BDSM was completely taboo. I brought rope along the night I had sex the first time, just in case my girlfriend was "kinky". She wasn't kinky at all, and suggesting she might be risked her taking grave insult and breaking up with me, so the subject really never came up until my 20's. Once we started, it all flowed from there, and the exploration continues.

I have always been an admirer of the way you do business. The article is 100% consistent with my experiences with the FF, and you should be proud of how well you and the ladies at the FF deliver on those promises. Is it OK if I love you for your mind?