I have been doing non-consensual scenes for quite a while. Of course, nothing is really completely non-consensual, but one gets as close as one can.
First you have to agree to some sort of scenario. A basis for why someone who looks, say, like Mistress Ahn, would ever have to abduct anyone. Least of all the desk-shackled souls that many of us are when not in dungeons. Why not just snap her fingers instead and say 'get in the dungeon on 3 ... 2 ... 1'. And how often would she even get to 1? Honestly...
This disparity of beauty between captor and captive - coupled with, sorry to say, a lack of imagination on all sides - has led to a preference for kidnapping scenarios that are dreary if not altogether depressing.
With few exceptions the answer to the question 'why would she do it' is answered by one word - revenge. Which would be ok if it were some kind of hot revenge. Instead it will be:
-The employee of a sexist boss.
-Someone turning the tables on a grabby lounge lizard.
Right off the bat we are in creepy territory. In order to give the session impetus I need to be someone that neither of us can stand (and I would fire in a heart-beat in my professional life). And I would be infinitely more likely to be too shy to speak to one of these divas in public than to *gasp* grab her.
But I have been made to do this more than once, wallowing in the negative energy of my 'character' so the domina could find her inner abductress.
Well I am here to protest this fetish for kidnapping the creepy. Gentleman need to be imprisoned against their will to, ya know. I'm not sure how to put this into a class action suit, but watch out when I do...
In my profile I have compared it to shop-lifting something you don't want. Fetish aside you will never turn one of these a-holes into a worthwhile human being. Best hope is that human resources or a really big bouncer takes care of them.
On the other hand what about that guy who looks away the moment you discover he was drawn to you like a moth? Now he is pretending to read his paper. Is he even holding it the right way? The newsprint is coming off on his fingertips. That's your latex dress interacting with his physiology. He does not understand his desire for the danger you represent. He struggles not to want it. He struggles in vain.
He will never embarrass you with his public behavior toward women. You can see that he is a little too easy to seduce - especially for a dominatrix. That will have to be dealt with rather emphatically.
But he is fixable. And so innocent. Imagine the look on his face when tell him he must learn to suck your .... He tries again to twist the ropes holding him down. He only makes them tighter. Every 'please don't do this' 'please stop' is a shot of aphrodisiac. You tell him "Don't worry, darling. I'll touch up your lipstick first." That's not what I meant, he protests. You smile. "I don't care what you meant, dear. I thought that was understood..."
Kidnapping and corrupting the innocent - isn't that a tiny bit more interesting than avenging your self on the dregs of society? One other possible benefit. The kidnapped creep probably gets let go once you believe he has learned his lesson. You don't want him around anyway. But the kidnapped innocent may never be free again. The thought has been seeping into his brain during his hours in captivity: this is what you are now, a possessed object.
As the others finished forcing him against the ladder and tying him strenuously, he knew that he was physically over-matched in addition to helpless. His last words as you forced panties into his mouth and sealed it with 6 rows of duct tape were, why are you doing this to me? I'm innocent. "You won't be innocent when I am done with you, sweetie." You fasten a collar around his neck, kiss the tape on his mouth to confuse him further, and leave him to wonder what happens next...
Could be a nice way to spend an afternoon or 6, no?
PS. I can think of some pretty zesty scenarios that use revenge, but with much less of a negative stereotype sucking the life out of the room if anyone is interested.