Danny

Jessy, I transcribed the questions and your answers below. Hopefully this makes it a quicker read for everyone. Thank you for taking the test. More accurately, a survey. I'm certain it barely scratched the surface of everything a submissive should strive to know about your interests. If other dominas, are interested in taking the test/survey, it's never too late. #1 Your school/college/university is having a charity slave auction. You: Answer: Sign up to bid on someone. Sounds like fun! #2 You buy a man in the aforementioned charity slave auction. You know him and find him attractive. He has to do as you wish for 24 hours. You: A. Make him do chores around your house/apartment B. Make him do humiliating things C. Make him do sexual things D. Some combination of two or more of the above #3 While at your house/apartment, you make your recently-purchased slave wear: Answer: Some humiliating outfit. (just a bow tie ) #4 While at your house/apartment *you* would feel most comfortable wearing: Answer: Casual clothes #5: You address your slave as: Answer: Replaceable #7 If walking a man on a leash, you would make him: Answer: Crawl beside you #8. If you were to tie your slave to the bed, you would proceed to: Answer: Dish out various forms of mild pain and humiliation #9 If you had a strap-on available while your slave was tied up, you would: Answer: Sucking first, penetration second #10 Nipple clamps are something you would use for: Answer: Something you would use for punishment #11 You would like to whip or spank a slave until: Answer: He begged you to stop #12 When it comes to your slave talking to you, the deal is: Answer: He can talk as long as it's protesting, pleading et cetera #13 As for you talking to your slave, it would be primarily to: Answer: Gloat/remind him of the situation #14 Your views on eye contact with your slave are as follows: Answer: He can look wherever. Additional note: I'm all about eye freedom, "give us a eye free" #15 Your favorite position for receiving ("taking" is more appropriate) oral is: (this question was poorly phrased, is in bad taste, and has been thrown out.) Answer: Oral sex? Ewwwwww! #16 You're wearing boots that go to the knee or higher. You would derive the most enjoyment from making your slave Answer: Start by lacing/buckling them, then kissing them, then lick them, and repeating #17 Given the following options, you would prefer to tie your slave: Answer: To a medieval rack, uncomfortably stretched out #18 You invite friends over. Your slave: Answer: Would be made to wait on your friends; loaned/rented to friends (if they wanted to); degraded for amusement (when warranted); locked in a room (as punishment). #19 Your slave would reach orgasm by the following methods: Answer: He wouldn't have an orgasm until he begs to eat it, then he would masturbate while you watched #20 The idea of telephoning a man, describing to him how you'd dominate him, and make him beg you for things or otherwise degrade himself: Answer: Sounds like a complete waste of time. Explanation: In the words of the forgotten drug addled patricidal cross dresser: "ain't nothing like the real thing baby"

Ladies at The Fortress. Each of you is without question a great Domina. For the purpose of having a little fun, and only if you're interested; would you please answer the 20 question test titled: Could You Be A Good Dominatrix. http://www.okcupid.com/tests/the-could-you-be-a-good-dominatrix-test The test takes 5 minutes and there are no wrong answers. Each of you gets an A+ (I'm getting in hot water with Jessy by giving a lesser grade) just for considering the test even if you opt out. Please turn in your answer sheet by listing your reply in a similar way to what you see below. Since you all ace the test by default, you also have the option of replying to questions with "E" which would ideally be accompanied by a fill-in-the blank response. Extra credit for essay style answers.... because there's always room for an A+++. Test Answer Sheet 01-C 02-C 03-A 04-D 05-B 06 ... ... ... 19-B 20-C All others, it's up to you to open the test, compare each response to the test questions, and figure out why each Domina's answer is undoubtedly correct, even if the Dominas have different answers.

I normally use the "search this topic" function in the top right corner of this web page to see if an existing thread for a general topic already exists in this forum before starting a new thread. Posting in an existing thread seems to cut down on the number of threads AND consolidates information with previously posted information for a one-stop thread with loads of information on certain topics. In this case, kinky movies. Recently I saw a movie trailer for R100. A foreign film centered on BDSM. Interesting story line. Apparently the lead character is a submissive that enters into a year long contract where he agrees to subject himself to random & spontaneous acts of BDSM. Looks like a no holds barred agreement that he's not allowed to terminate once it begins. The guy gets beaten down and humiliated in a lot of different ways, by Dominas, strangers, possibly even people he knows. Imagine how on edge this guy must have felt for a whole year while live a vanilla life that involves white collar work and a family life. If anyone has seen this movie or maybe only seen the trailer but has some thoughts on it, I'd hope to read about it here. I'm especially interested in hearing what the Mistresses here think about it.

Great discussion topic. Here's an entertaining response from actress Jennifer Beals' in the movie "Four Rooms". I'll set up the scene. Jennifer is tied in rope bondage to a chair in a hotel room. A bell hop (Tim Roth) mistakenly enters a split second before her husband comes out of the bathroom. She starts talking to her jealous husband about how she's been having an affair with the bell hop. The bell hop is caught off guard, has no idea what's going on, and feels threatened by the jealous husband and denies the whole thing. Jennifer throws gas on the fire by calling the bell hop a liar and then ranting on and on to her husband about the bell hop's huge cock. What's really hot is that even though she's the one in bondage, she's mind fucking the shit out of her husband while humiliating him in front of a bell hop. Very hot. Very funny. Ms Kang, I'd love to know what you think about the scene and if you enjoy similar word play like this in session.

Take me to Thailand. I'd love it if you were my beautiful tour guide. Everything I see or read about Thailand on the internet makes me want to visit. The beach resorts and beaches look amazing, I already know I like Thai food, and the dollar goes a long way. Seems like a great vacation spot. I just don't want to go alone.

I never had a wet dream. I wonder if prolonged abstinence would cause one. Might be worthy of a whole separate blog discussion.

Thanks a lot! Now I'm going to have dreams about it.

Eyelashes. They've been used to tickle me. Now that's creative!

Ask these people about corks. They seem to have all the answers.

Mistress Haru, Great analogy. Ripping a gift open feeds lustful hunger for immediate gratification in a pretty hot way! Slowly and teasing causing rips here and there gives an opportunity to savor the moment for a longer period. So, with that in mind, a follow up question. Would the Mistresses get more pleasure from aggressively ripping clothes off a person and transitioning to other play, or would you prefer to slowly and teasingly tear the clothes off while incorporating other play at the same time? I see the allure to both and many possibilities in between. Mistress Tran, The post must have gotten you a little hot and bothered. I see that you accidentally posted the same replied twice. I'm flattered. Wish I was there to see the condition you were in when you clicked send. Okay, okay, I deserved to be punished for thinking that way... I can't help it. You do it to me. As for "cutting useful holes to gain access", don't worry about that, I intentionally took a pair of older jeans and weakened the seams in several key spot (imagine where), and also rubbed the blade of a knife side-to-side over the denim to the point where the cotton started to fray but remained intact. You can very easily start a tear with just your fingers, and once it's started, keep on ripping even through the more durable parts. The jeans are in my closet. Maybe before a session I should take a picture of just the jeans and point out the weak areas. You mentioned adding your own surprises to this kind of scenario. I would love being caught off guard by you. I want to ask what you have in mind but don't want to spoil the surprise. If you're thinking what I was thinking in the last post of mine your replied to above, yes, that would absolutely be very hot and it's part of my fantasy. Mistress Sunya, I'm not a psychologist but think that ripping clothes probably allows a person to reflect on their early years and relive fun moments when they might have torn apart their toys. Admit it, you did that with at least one of your toys... probably your Ken doll. You would have a blast with this scenario. You're already thinking of ways to use the fabric as bondage devices. I'm glad you haven't thought about how to turn the torn jeans into a flogger... wait, did I just say that out loud? I'd love to play out this scenario with any one of you. My problem continues to be that I'm rarely on the east coast. If any Mistress from The Fortress is ever on the west coast, please let me know.

If that's what golf lessons are like, I don't want to think about ping pong lessons.

Mistress Haru, If were talking about specific videos, I'd gladly send my top few hits in a private message if that was possible but doubt you or Mistress Kang would want the links posted here. It makes me wonder what your top 3 videos would be, or any other Mistress' top 3.

Memorizing. Reminds me of what I would sometimes do to prepare for test in grade school. The teachers would include trick questions to get me to focus and study the subject matter. Please tell me that you and M Haru would never try to trick me by adding a third Mistress (like Mistress Kang, hint hint) to my test.

Faye, did you find it odd that the German version of this scene is the only one you can find on youtube, or is it really no surprise.... those kinky kinky Germans. Such pervs! Have to admit, it was hot to see Pearl in action. There's just no way I could survive even 1 minute with her.

Mistress Tran, I like your description. I'd add that it's powerful animalistic in an erotic and even seductive way. Imagine a session where I arrive at The Fortress and Ms Anna kindly asks me to go to a specific room, take my clothes off, fold them nicely, place them on a chair and wait patiently on my knees. I enter. My attention is quickly drawn to the wide array of toys and implements you've probably used a hundred times before. I look at several, wondering how they were used and which might be used on me today. I lose track of time when suddenly the door opens and Mistress enters. She's cool and calm despite my clear failure to prepare as asked. She exudes confidence with her beautiful piercing eyes and stance as she walks to me, stopping only once she's in my personal space and looking me directly in the eyes with an indifferent look on her face which really screws with my head since I don't know what she's thinking. I begin to utter an apology when she cuts me off by placing her index finger over my lips and gently saying "Shush, let me have a look at you. She takes a moment to size me up while simultaneously making me feel awkward and uncomfortable for not having my clothes off already. In a warm but mildly condescending tone, she says "you're going to be my special project today, aren't you, danny. It appears that you have trouble following simple directions. You've been here for 2 minutes and already you're f^*@ing up. Turn around. Place your hands on the wall... spread them wider" I quickly do as directed, wishing I could take back time and already have my clothes off. Before I finish the thought, Mistress runs her fingers through my hair and with a slowly tightening grip, pulls my head back and and whispers in my ear "be a good boy and spread your legs, danny. Do I really have to tell you everything, f^*@-up" as she nudges my feet apart with just the tap of her high heels on the inner part of my shoes. I'm spread against the wall like someone about to be searched by a police officer. The Mistress seductively leans her body weight into my back while her hands reach around to my chest and the fabric between the buttons. Her hands feel wonderful. So does her body pressed against my back, even the feel of her foot nudging my feet apart. Her closeness is intoxicating. Then, without warning, she pulls my shirt apart and rip the buttons right off, exposing my chest to the cool air. She giggles as she thrusts her hips hard into my butt to push herself off my body. A dirty thought to runs through my head about that thrust but I keep it to myself. Her hands now teasingly scratch up and down my toned v-shaped back and one hand comes to rest on my collar, griping it tight while her other reaches for the fabric just beneath the seam running across my shoulder blades. In an instant, her hands rip apart, stripping my back of the the fabric with just a couple tugs. Only tattered pieces of fabric remain hanging from my arms. She reaches for her flogger and begins using it on me. Reminding me and talking to me the whole time about how I'll learn to follow directions and anticipate her needs and desires. This goes on for a while before she puts down the flogger and softly leans into me again for a gentle lingering hug. My heart is racing. In a consoling way, her lips pucker and she softly blows soothing cool air on a heated area of my back. It feels good and I'm grateful but hesitant to say a word. She let's me know "I wouldn't have to do these things to you if you only did as you were told. I'm doing this for your own good, danny. You understand, right?". I nod and answer, "yes Mistress, I do". Her fingernails begin running softly across my jeans from just above my kneecaps, up to the front pockets and both hands settle half way into the pockets with thumbs resting on the outside. What happens next? You guessed it, the pants come off. But do they come off aggressively and are ruined in the process? Does Mistress rip a hole in the back side for easy access? Does she write dirty things on them with a sharpie first? This can all go so many ways. What I described above is too scripted and just something I thought about after reading Mistress Tran's reply. I truly imagine a session being much more free flowing. There could even be an element of hesitation or resistance on a sub's part to create the friction that fuels Mistress's aggressive determination. Breaking a sub down and making him submit.

Before scheduling an appointment, take time to think about your true interests. Think about what you hope to get out of the experience and be ready to communicate that with the Mistress you select. Be open about your kinks, fetishes, desires, and I guess you've already made your experience level known, but that's an important piece of information. Think about all of this well before a session because as the time gets closer, you might naturally become a little nervous, anxious, excited, etc. All of which causes people to lose focus and forget about the things they want a Mistress in order to achieve what you hope to experience. Effective communication can't be emphasized enough. Also, be well groomed, clean, dressed nicely, polite and courteous. I believe it will be appreciated.

Is there a name for a fetish that would involve ripping clothes off a person's body? Does anyone have experience or fantasies about it? We've all seen people wear jeans with a hole in the knee or possibly a ragged-out back pocket. Maybe a t-shirt with holes just big enough for a fingernail to fit through. Ever felt like you had to restrain yourself from gripping-and-ripping those imperfections to the point where the clothing can't be worn anymore? What is it that excite you about either ripping the clothes off a person's body or being the one whose clothes are being torn off? My excitement comes from being the one whose clothes are ripped off or in the end, barely left draping my body when a woman's done with me. I imagine the excitement for her is to erotically humiliating me by doing it to me as it results in a CFNM situations. Although my preference would be for this to happen behind closed doors, I'll give an example of how it might happen in public.... You're in a hurry to catch the subway. You make it just before the doors close and reach for an overhead rail to brace yourself. The train accelerates and you notice a beautiful woman steps away holding the same rail. She's dressed well with perfect hair and makeup. The two of you casually exchange warm smiles and a few flirtatiously words as you catch your breath and move a little closer, acting like you're just making space for people already seated. The rail car hits a few bumps along the way, causing the two of you to brush against one another while chatting. She's confident and bold flirt, and after a while, teasingly slideing three fingers into a 2 inch horizontal-tear just below a pocket on the front of your jeans. The train arrives at the next stop and you turn your head to see a crowd funnel in. Meanwhile, her fingertips lightly scratch your skin just beneath the tear as you exchange phone numbers. Her fingers get dangerously close to your crotch and she seemingly thinks nothing of it. You're quickly aroused and she knows it as you inch closer to her in an effort to prevent others from seeing the effect she's having on you. You think to yourself; she really likes me! Then, without warning, her hand jerks downward, HARD, and rips the denim almost to your knee while she simultaneously walks off the subway as the doors slam shut behind her. In a split second, she's standing on the boarding platform looking back at you through the window with a bigger grin than before and giggling while blowing a kiss and mouthing the words "call me" as you grip yourself to try and cover up while trying to maintain balance as the train moves on. You're turned on by the whole experience and can't help but wonder... did she give me her real number? How do the MIstresses at The Fortress feel about ripping clothes off a person during a session? To make the ripping easy on you, the stitching in the seams could be weakened. Holes could be worn into the fabric to the point where it's much easier but still fun to rip the the fabric apart. The ripped or worn parts could be subtle but obvious enough for you to grip-and-rip in multiple locations. Looking forward to everyone's feedback. If you quote this post in your response, I recommend cutting quoting the very specific thing that might have caught your attention rather than the whole post.

Apparently the sky is the limit. Look at what arrived in LA a couple days ago. http://www.usatoday....at-lax/2833613/

Choke (2008). The previews look kinky, dirty and funny. Has anyone seen it? I'll watch it this weekend.

Payback (1999). Lucy Liu plays a supporting role as Pearl, a kick ass Dominatrix into corporal punishment. She gives some harsh punishment to her subs who at times, seems to forget who's in charge. At one point, she beats the crap out of him while he's held at gun point during a break in. It doesn't sound funny but Lucy makes it funny.

Royals, a song by Lorde. My impression is that the lyrics are about being content with what you have and about D/s. Any thoughts by others on the song?

If staring at the gallery for this forum counts, I might have surpassed 12 hours. Just sayin'.

More clowns? This implies there was a first. Would love to hear more.

The body builder seemed naive. I haven't been to Thailand (would love to go sometime) but can imagine what's up when obvious hints are given by the hotel receptionist and every girl he walked past on the street. Things work out well though, at least partly. I enjoyed watching it. Honestly, what hooked me was that you described it as "like watching porn with an elongated backstory". I enjoy reading/seeing things you enjoy and understanding what it is that you like about them. I watched and enjoyed 'My Normal' for the same reason when you mentioned it in a different blog. By the way, thanks for mentioning that movie... I never heard of it before you mentioned it. So, Jessy, now I'm really wondering; if you do watch porn, do you have a favorite type? Is there a particular link to a particular video that you really enjoy? I'm also glad to understand your kink. Trust me, I'm relentlessly working on it at the gym! My hope is that my effort will be worthy. Nothing good comes easy and you're a great source of motivation.

I imagine a scenario where my 5th Amendment right against self-incrimination is revoked. I'm forced to take the bench and be examined cross-examinded. The questions would be rather humiliating (especially in front of the jury), highlighting the porn I have watched, my unruly lack of abstinence, what I have done while watching it etc. All the shock and dismay of the jury. At times, I might even wonder if my own attorney is on my side, even though she assures me that I should relax and that she knows what she's doing and has my bests interests in mind. Of course the trial attorneys would use the utmost professionalism while necessarily having to use certain vulgar language (despite their delicate nature) to describe me to the jury or when referring to me, as these would unfortunately be the most appropriate terms to use. I would be expected to answer questions clearly and succinctly to the court's satisfaction or risk prompt CBT, spitting and face slapping consequences. My testimony may possibly be discredited simply because I'm a male. Additionally, judge, counselors, jury and even the court reporter, might read into the facts and come to their own conclusion. Of course, once the jury decides and the judge makes her decision, the benevolent court will still allow me to appeal to a higher authority... perhaps Ms Kang's Supreme Court? There's always a chance that she might side with me. However, the down side is that if she upholds the lower court's ruling, she might also impose a harsher sentence merely for elevating it to her level. Thoughts?