Hi all,
I was curious how many of you guys (and mistresses?) are into being submissive versus dominant versus switch. It seems to me that places out there mostly advertise to the submissive guy, which makes me suspect that that's what's mostly been looked for. Of course, this is also safer and easier on the mistress.
My own fantasies have always been around being with a submissive girl, tying her up, spanking her, and such. So when I for the first time actually "went for it", I naturally went for a submissive (in London, actually - they are very much into the "schoolgirl-who-needs-to-be-spanked" kink over there ). Before I went for the second time, I noticed on her web page that she did "two-ways", and thought I'd try that, too.
I was rather surprised then to find that I enjoyed being the sub just as much.
Ever since (i.e. since my second time), I've almost exclusively done switch sessions, i.e. sessions during I would be the dominant for some part of the session, and the sub for the other part. And occasionally both at the same time in the session.
I guess I'm really a natural switch. I feel I miss something if I don't also experience the other side.
Oh yes, at Fetish Fortress, I have had various great switch sessions with Jung, Zhao and Choi, sometimes with one of them at a time, and sometimes with two of them. I have enjoyed these enormously - but maybe later more of that. For now, just a quick thank you to you, Jung, Zhao and Choi!
In my next session, I'll try a "pure sub-girl" session, i.e. I'll only be the dominant (yes, Zhao, that's what's in store for you!). But I'm not sure yet if that'll really work for me - it has to be followed by a session where Zhao is the Mistress for the entire session, I think. Well, we'll see.
OK, so now get to work with the poll, and let us know where you stand. Or bend over, or whatever.
Best,
Virgil Hyde