I actually had this discussion with Mina Jung in the year of my major accident. There was this waitress in an Indian restaurant who was from Bangladesh. She became friends with my ex while we were still together. On occasion I came home to find her sleeping on my bed between shifts. I always wanted her to be my back street girl. My fantasy was that she would be secreted in a corner while I told Mina how I would ravish her and force her to submit to my nastiest sexual desires.
At that point she would pop out totally naked with a cane in her hand with 100% freedom to do to me and demand of me anything she wished,
Mistress Lahiri was from Bangladesh.
Dannyboy