Dannyboy

I think they have relationship problems. Anyway that never worked with me. When I woke up in the middle of the night in great pain at saw a mouse trap on my erect penis it was time to leave. Dannyboy

Congratulations on your first ever which took place at the most accomodating dungeon for those who are just beginning. When I started in ancient history there was no place like the Fortress and few who truly knew what they were doing. It was pot luck and one bad experience could turn a newbie away for months or years. Enjoy. Dannyboy

Ah. Once upon a time "What's New Pussycat" was the theme song of the Forums. Dannyboy

Cool.

Let me just put it this way. Relying on my ever decreasing mental capacity I know of 3 Mistresses who attended: Asia, Dante Posh and Senju. If that was the party I'm thinking of and if Senju showed me a photo of "her slave" who attended with her, the identity of that individual in costume would not be apparent to me and Senju was fiercely discrete in such matters. The event as you place it chronologically seems to fit. Dannyboy

First ever session and at the Fortress too. Can't top that. Dannyboy

Around that time a certain Mistress who was in London for that event showed me some pictures of the event. Was that you? Dannyboy

It's been ages since I visited London and other parts. I'm sure the world there is totally different now. Dannyboy

But did he ever session with a Mistress who was a "Bat Out of Hell?' Dannyboy

Can't watch the video now but I'm sure this did not happen at the restaurant. Dannyboy

A natural imperative for a Fortress Mistress to return home. Welcome. Dannyboy

Actually my first session didn't go well either. That was ancient history. My first session at the Fortress took place after I had a good number of sessions with Ms. Kang prior to the opening of the Fortress. Dannyboy

We all remember our first. Above all we all remember our Fortress first even if we had many non-Fortress sessions prior to that. I'm sure there will be many more for you. Dannyboy

Through the years so much has changed. It started with swingers magazines, then with Screw and similar fetish magazines. Then with Craigslist and then Backpage. I could log onto dungeon websites and Eros.com clicking on BDSM. Dungeon or personal websites often have links to other sites. There is still so much out there to find but it is more difficult now. So many of my earlier Ladies have left the business and some are deceased. Dannyboy

In the year I first sessioned with Ms. Kang I expected to be free on Election Day but she would not be free. I asked her to recommend me to another Mistress for that day. She recommended Ms. Yin and wrote a letter of introduction. Ms. Yin was stellar as a Mistress and I never forgot that session. At one time I listed the three most intelligent Mistresses I ever met, Ms. Yin, Jade Vixen and Kat9 not necessarily in that order. At another time Nurse Noelle was seriously injured in a freak accident at the sMack party that year. Ms. Yin held a fund raiser to help with her medical bills at her place in lower Manhattan. I escorted Ms. Tigra to that event which was attended by all the top Mistresses in NY except our Headmistress. Even later I sessioned with Ms. Amiko at Yin's place. I am proud to have known her. Dannyboy

Unsexy? Hmmmmm. Went to Duane Reade to buy her menstrual pads. Meet her at a UPS store and load boxes into her car. Buy her a bed for her new apartment. I could go on and on. Different Ladies and different times. Dannyboy

As Spock would say your analysis seems logical. Didn't know of the documentary but I didn't get to see him fight Ernie Terrell. By sheer coincidence I happened to be in Portsmouth, England the night that he beat Brian London in Portsmouth, England. Perhaps the special is still available on demand. If so I'll watch it. Dannyboy

Recently saw a match between Delfine Persoon and Katie Taylor. It was a brutal match. Then I watched Ruiz knock out Joshua. The lady I spoke of was about 25 years my junior and didn't look like a fighter. In my prime I could have outrun her at those distances but never had the urge to fight her. She was quite attractive then so other urges crossed my mind. Dannyboy

I am not up to date on this event. Still struggling through the Triple Crown races and not very successful. I became aware of superior female athletes when I started running long distance races so many years ago. At another period of my life a female co-worker was a national class amateur boxer. We competed in long distance races together and I couldn't beat her at 5k and 5 miles. I never thought of her as a dominatrix though but I felt a sense of confidence that she was a "concealed weapon" in plain sight. I will not mention her name although I doubt that anyone will know who I am talking about. She did have a short professional boxing career. Dannyboy

To quote a commercial ad from the last century - "Try it you'll like it." I've been to many dungeons and have sessioned with many Mistresses. Most of the dungeons no longer exist and most of the Mistresses don't pursue that line of work anymore. The Fortress is a great place and her Mistresses are always a cut above the rest. Don't take my word for it. Just try it. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Kang: I have that kind of a device. I had it with me when I took the Mensa test. The proctor didn't realize that I had 37 hours more than allowed for the two IQ tests. Well now you know the truth. Anyway I tried to take it to Churchill Downs on Kentucky Derby day. The security guards made me check it in but wouldn't give it back at the end. Something about going back in time and betting all the winners. I shoulda thought of that. Dannyboy

I didn't understand them to be fetishes as early as they began. It sort of reemerged in my late teens and went dormant for a decade or so. Still have the thoughts running around my head but my body is less than willing now. Dannyboy

My reaction to this topic may have been off center because I misinterpreted the Headmistress's intent. The flow of the responses so far do appear to be general and could apply to any Mistress or any dungeon. In that spirit I would say to a newbie that the fantasy and the reality may be incompatible. So if you have more intense or extreme fantasies don't seek to go that far in the first or even second session. You always have the option of going further in future sessions. I would also say to those in vanilla relationships to keep that part of your life secret and always cover your tracks. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Kang: In my opinion you are making a noble gesture. I don't think many will come forward. It is in the nature of the male gender to relegate activities in the scene to a more private and even secret place. Male subs tend not to reveal to other males within their sphere what they do with Mistresses and the secrets often revealed in session. It is a subject that can be approached in a more general fashion but not much further. I would also say, having seen it and having felt it, that a certain sense of rivalry for the favor of a specific Mistress can emerge. In that case advising and sharing with a perceived rival might be self-defeating. We, however, often offer advice to first timers and newbies where they might post of their uncertainties and pre-session jitters. That is usually a safe topic. Dannyboy

Never had the experience of riding up the elevator with my Mistress of the day whom I never met before. I can imagine the feelings though. Dannyboy