Dannyboy

AL: I needed to count to 100. Another time, pre-Fortress, I sessioned with Ms. Kang and her visiting friend who counted to 100 in Korean. I am familiar with several languages but not Korean. I am most comfortable with Japanese in session but I never studied Japanese. Dannyboy

AL: I sessioned in Japanese with a Japanese Mistress and her female submissive/switch. English was used as well but I had to count each stroke in Japanese. Dannyboy

It was tried on me just to see if I liked it. I didn't and it stopped and I never tried it again. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Shankar: I was fascinated with that clip. The lady reminded me of my Latina Lovely. My lady has the same skin color, same ass, perkier breasts, prettier face, shorter, younger and more petite. I would love to see her in that scene up close and personal. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Rey: Revisiting this question, I had to delay scheduling a medical appointment because of marks I acquired from the attention of a certain young lady. I certainly didn't want to explain how they got there and there was no lie that I could feel confident in hiding behind. There are certain appointments and procedures during which I know in advance my buttocks would be seen by the doctor and I manage my play accordingly. In this most recent case the play was much more intense than normal and left me with a problem that was resolved by waiting a month. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Katz: Most of my plans are mundane and obligatory. They involve family and or dysfunctional family activities. I do celebrate a mutual birthday with my Japanese daughter and we are on target to celebrate once again. It is also possible to have a birthday spanking from my Latina Lovely and, hopefully, with one of her girlfriends who is visiting from Japan, counting for her. Dannyboy

JJB: Did you ever consider that I am just a pathological liar who constantly needs the love and approval of others and has to concoct these stories to cover up my many inadequacies? I lead such a dull, uneventful life. Anyway, if I had the ability I would trade off some of the events in my past life in exchange for holding on to things of value in my more recent life, say, in 2014 and 2015. Dannyboy

From the first official experience I sort of dabbled from time to time seeking Ladies who were interested in my fantasies and fetishes. Some I saw several times and some only once. There came a time when I answered an ad from Screw magazine and spoke to a lovely sounding young lady who was enthusiastic about my fantasies. I won't mention her name but would describe her as a 24 year old, Irish, grad student who sessioned in her apartment. I was fully prepared to explore several aspects of kink with her before heading to school in the evening. I was 29 at the time and had sessioned with 10 - 20 different Ladies in the 5 years since I started. To describe myself during that time range: I was the cutest and sexiest young man who could pass for age 21 even when I was 35. I was exceptionally fit as a marathon runner and constantly horny with fantasies and fetishes running around my brain every moment. Today I am a shriveled up old bastard but that's another conversation. When she opened her door I was instantly paralyzed by her beauty. She was Playmate centerfold of the year beautiful. 5' 2" with brown hair, brown eyes and creamy white skin. Her smile was awesome. I said to myself "OMG she could whip me to death if she wants to and I will go straight to Heaven. Years later when i met Ms. Kang I had a similar reaction. Anyway she asked me to take care of the money first and then I removed my shirt and undershirt. She took off her top and bra revealing perfectly formed breasts. There was a riding crop nearby and I wondered if she wanted to use it on me. Suddenly she grabbed me and kissed me, inserting her tongue in my mouth. I was unprepared but my mind said "don't fight it." My cock became rigid in an instant as she went for my belt and removed my slacks. She removed her jeans and panties and the most beautiful ass I had ever seen so far was mine to behold (and hopefully fuck.) I did forget about S & M and just followed her lead. She asked me what I like and I said "French" and so she immediately put her mouth on it. I said "no, darling, let's try the soixante-neuf position. So she put her beautiful ass in my face while I enjoyed her in a way I never expected possible. She stopped and asked me to make love to her. I laid on my back and had her sit on it face to face. She moaned loudly and our lips and tongues met muffling her passion. I felt her whole body quiver and then it was my turn. For a while we laid in each other's arms, panting. We had a long conversation thereafter. She told me she once had a submissive session and the client spanked her far beyond her limits. I never spanked her but after a second session which led to lovemaking we committed to S & M the next time we met. We had a connection that lasted 12 years. She had a sugar daddy as her number 1 client. She often told me of their sessions. She would go to him at a private dungeon where she would be placed in restraints and strictly punished as a naughty girl. There was no prevailing concept of safe words then and her spankings from daddy were pure punishment. Begging and crying often did not stop her spankings. After regaining her composure it would then be his turn in the restraints as she returned the favor to him with a vengeance. She told me she once caned him so severely that she had to ice his buttocks to keep the swelling down. We did have purely S & M sessions over time but she was always sexually free with me. One evening I was stressed out before a final exam. She invited me over and performed oral upon me to relax me. I was so relaxed I almost fell asleep during the exam. I did get and A in the course. I won't say much else about her. Years later she was connected to a public figure and, I presume, secured her future from a financial standpoint. Early in my fetish life I actually had a dream come true. I know many of us wish we could make love to a Mistress. It happened for me at a time that Mistresses were able to do much more than could be done under today's standards. This special Lady is still my all-time favorite non-Asian Mistress. Maybe she is a grandmother now. Who knows? Dannyboy

I've written this many times in the past going back to her old Yahoo group. When I first saw her I felt my heart and soul depart from my body. She had me in a trance for years. No Mistress has meant more to me in my lifetime. She is the Greatest. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Rey: I responded to a comment made by Ms. Kang in reply to a post of mine in this topic: "His Master's Voice." On the old records in vinyl disc form one would find a label with the name of the recording company, song title, etc. The Radio Corporation of America was known, in abbreviated form, as RCA. That label depicted an old gramophone and a very large speaker, shaped like a horn, with a dog hearing his master's voice that was recorded on the disc. The vibrations would be picked up through a stylus and the sound would come out through the speaker. The picture was captioned "His Master's Voice" since the dog recognized the disembodied sound of his master. With Ms. Kang's printed reply I was the faithful and loyal dog hearing and heeding her words even though she was not in sight nor could I her her voice. Hope that explains. BTW one would have to be a pretty old fart to get the reference nowadays. I'm not saying I'm old but BTB certainly is. I used to babysit him to earn money to sit in the bleachers at Ebbets Field - the home park of the Brooklyn Dodgers. Dannyboy

Years ago when I was working my way up the ladder in a hospital, a particular department head impressed me as an asshole. He threw his authority around in a most offensive way. When offered a promotion I refused to accept a position under his direct authority. There was a pretty and sexy secretary who often occupied my masturbatory fantasies. It became known that this asshole began to sexually harass her. She reported him to his superior and to HR and things quieted down. About a year later he started the harassment again and was promptly fired. That was a long time ago when it was risky to complain. I was proud of her and the decisive action in firing him. He was given a chance to be a good boy but he fucked it up and got bounced. Many years later in the legal system I had access to his Estate file after he passed away. I remember thinking that finally he had to answer to a higher authority. Too bad the Fortress didn't exist then. He might have been taught a little respect. Dannyboy

Lonewolf: You worried us. Next time you go to a hospital please list the Fortress as the authorized contact. May you live long. I have no desire to become the oldest Fortress client. Thanks for checking in. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Katz: Recently I have had the same thoughts but too wrapped up in my own life to inquire just yet. Often members have inquired when regulars go silent and so have Mistresses on occasion. I am concerned but hope there is an explanation that will have us all relieved when Lonewolf checks in again. Thank you for your concern. Truly in character for a Fortress Mistress. Dannyboy

I've heard of professional disciplinarians and life coaches over a number of years. There are Mistress who can serve as life coaches or motivators, though I never asked a Mistress to act as a life coach or push me to some external goal. It may work for some, I do not criticize their existence or purpose. Dannyboy

Never is a long time. Many have gotten away with it and, I'm sure, there are some who believe themselves invincible even now. Time will tell but something has changed. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Rey: The way you pose this question opens up a question in my own mind. It is easy to lie meaning lack of guilt or is it easy to lie meaning the lies are effective and undetected? My lies were necessary because of the overwhelming need to have the double life. My lies were so effective that I was able to carry on the double life for a very long time. Nothing lasts forever though. I'm not proud to have lied even though I may have boasted on these Forums about the risks I took. Dannyboy

UP: In my case I met and sessioned with the Headmistress before the Fortress came into existence. My kinky needs at that time were already well developed. I had kink in my mind long before ever sessioning with a Mistress. It is not uncommon, though, for a client to have vague feelings and the need to discover. You would do well to proceed with an open mind and a seeking spirit. The Fortress is a great place to learn more about yourself and find out what it is that you might truly desire. In my experience, Ms. Ree and Ms. Kang are highly perceptive and can match you reliably with the Lady best suited for you. You can take that first step with confidence. You will thank yourself later. Dannyboy

To answer the question directly I am not surprised. 30 - 40 years ago I was listening to a radio show and a criminologist was talking about sexual abuse. He said that the stereotype of a sexual abuser in not a drunken, slovenly reject of society who jumps out of an alley and abducts and rapes his victim - or someone who reads pornography and is otherwise perverted. What he said left a lasting impression on me. The sexual abuser is a person who, generally, is a respected member of the community because of his position, power or wealth. He went on to say it could be a scoutmaster, a priest, a rabbi, a teacher, a coach, a boss, an uncle, a politician, a lawyer et al ad nauseam. This has been going on for centuries. Most get away with it because they are privileged and the victim is weaker. Now we see that even the ones who preach morals, faithfulness, celibacy and respect do this despite their public positions. Most lie about it, attack their victims and believe that their power will protect them. I was aware of Bill Cosby's predilections in the '80's so I wasn't surprised when the victims brought it up years later. Very often women had to "play ball" to get ahead. When I see otherwise respectable people defend the perpetrators and see how female spokespersons in effect betray their own gender I should be surprised but I am not. Should anybody be surprised at this stage of the game? There are no values any more. There are only personalities who are attacked or defended but they are all pretty much the same. Dannyboy

manclawz: "...and this isn't everybody." Since you placed Bill Clinton on the list it's only fair to add Donald Trump. While we're at it you could add Bill Cosby and Michael Jackson. I'm not thinking of adding Mike Tyson; I think his conviction was unjust. Dannyboy

Jay: Happy Thanksgiving. I live in an area that has wild turkey, geese, deer and an occasional gorilla or two. My young lady wanted to pet them but I advised her not to. They are not domesticated animals. Sometimes they cross the road an expect cars to stop for them. A previous summer when I had a Mistress/friend stay over she saw some turkeys and took photographs. A few days later a turkey was splattered all over the road. I guess that was you driving? Dannyboy

I first met Ms. Kyoko circa 1998 when she was connected to Rebecca's Hidden Chamber. She sessioned under another name at that time. I sessioned with her at other dungeons thereafter when she became Kyoko. Last time I saw her was at Ms. Yin's place in lower Manhattan at a fundraiser for Nurse Noelle who was injured at a SMack party. I escorted Ms. Tigra to that event which was attended by most of the prominent Mistresses in the area. When Kyoko arrived Tigra was upset that my gaze was fixed on Kyoko. She didn't realize that I knew her well. As Kyoko passed by I greeted her in Japanese and she did a double take. I introduced Tigra to Kyoko and Kyoko introduced her male companion to us. Last I heard of Kyoko was that she was living in Los Angeles with the same male companion. That was several years ago. Dannyboy

Certainly the Lucy Liu of Charlie's Angels. The Raquel Welch of Fantastic Voyage. Ann Margaret of The Cincinnati Kid. Loved when Steve McQueen smacked her butt - hard. France Nuyen from South Pacific to Star Trek. Jessica Alba of Dark Angels. Dannyboy

Newman: For someone who has never sessioned before you seem to know where your primary interests lie. There is a phenomenon that I call "fantasy gap." You don't know how you will react, physically and mentally, to the activities you wish to experience. Fortunately a Fortress Lady will take your inexperience into consideration and help you discover the degree to which your fantasies can be realized. An untrained Mistress with a cane and a client with no caning experience can lead to a bad outcome. I would follow Ms. Kang's line of questioning. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Kang: Exactly one week before our very first session I sessioned with Damiana Chi. Had I timed it a bit differently we could have included her sister Jezebel in the session. Many of my doubles sessions had the Mistresses roleplaying as mother-daughter or sisters. A long time ago there was a mother-daughter team out in Long Island. I never had the chance to meet them. Dannyboy