Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Kang: I will try to answer to the extent that I am comfortable. First Mistress: Her initials were JK (not you of course.) My age: 24. I found her through a swingers magazine. There was no internet at the time. These magazines required mailings to a code number and the mailings were then forwarded to the advertiser. Screw magazine existed at the time as well. I chose to session with her because the opportunity presented itself at a time when I was available and when I finally had to guts to book a session. We sessioned in Manhattan in her apartment. She was caucasian and at least double my age. Even so, she was in good physical condition and certainly attractive. I never sessioned with her again but she appeared in that magazine for another year or two. Most likely she is deceased now. I did make a number of attempts prior to that to explore some aspects of BDSM with different ladies but this was the first full session with an official Mistress. I crossed the Rubicon at that point. In my future experiences there were a number of long-term connections to individual Mistresses spanning the rest of my life to date. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Kang: This is a difficult question to answer because I'm sitting in a semi-public place and my experience with Mistresses runs for decades. I have sessioned with so many Mistress that I could not count them at this juncture. You are aware that a number of Mistresses were in my life concurrently during a phase of my life. Some of your questions might tend to incriminate me and work to my disadvantage the next time I show up to the Fortress so I will have to consider relying on my 5th Amendment rights. I will work on a better answer for later and state that you are the Greatest. Nothing will change that. Dannyboy

Hai! Jo o sama! I remember your posting about this a few years ago. About lying: I've had to lie about many sessions just to get out of the house. You are aware of the lie that always got me to the Fortress. Once I celebrated a birthday with a Mistress Involving dinner with 3 Ladies, karaoke and lots of drinking. The birthday Mistress called me the next day to tell me she lost her cell phone. My wife overheard a female voice and questioned me. My original cover story was a birthday dinner for a "club" member. I had to elaborate by saying that some of the guys brought a wife or a girlfriend and this one must have gotten my number from her boyfriend. She questioned why I didn't take her to this dinner and, of course, I said I didn't think you would like those people but I will be sure to ask you next time. Another time that same Mistress was having a late night photo-shoot in a hotel room. She invited me over to keep her from being alone for the few hours before the photographer arrived. What we did together I will not reveal here but when I got home I was given the 3rd degree about having a "girlfriend." My lie was that me and the guys were watching the NCAA brackets being selected and strategizing the picks to make in some of the pools we were entering. No names mentioned here Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Jin: I am an old dog. You can't teach me new tricks. I'm sure others will volunteer. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Kang: I don't discuss my activities with anyone not in the scene. I have also been able to keep marks on my butt and sore nipples safe from being discovered. As you know, my secrets were discovered and destroyed the relationship which I thought would last forever. Only once did I ever broach the subject with a vanilla lady and she is the one who sessioned with us and with Ms. Rey. There is great value in keeping the S & M world almost entirely internal and cerebral. For me, having even an intellectual discussion with a denizen of the vanilla world about this subject is totally out of character. Dannyboy

tr.....: I'll leave it to the Mistresses here to reply as they wish. I've discussed this with Mistresses over time and could venture my own educated opinions. In my case I do not get pleasure from pain in a physical sense. There is more of a psychological need to purify my soul through the ministrations of an empathetic and understanding woman. Now don't ask me what I mean by that. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Shankar: Although you are objectively correct and I would have posted the same response, to any male past adolescence, especially in college years, getting something in return is code for "sexual favors." Now if a Mistress wanted me to massage her back or her feet that would be an honor and a privilege. Dannyboy

AL: I would probably move in close and smother her punches. I would also clinch a lot - and hold on for dear life. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Kang: Brings to mind a particular non-Fortress Mistress who mentioned an orthodox Jewish client who was humiliated by having her place bacon strips on his back while he crawled around the room. No discussion of forced consumption though. Forced consumption??? No double entendre intended. Dannyboy

Hmmmmm!! Does she wear a Freudian slip? Dannyboy

Welcome Ms. Zora Chin: Welcome to the Fortress. Having read your description and viewed your photographs my sense of you is that your normal state is anger and dissatisfaction. I fear that any submissive who comes to you feeling guilt and shame over his behavior will find a formidable disciplinarian in you. I'd love to visit and tell you my naughty secrets. I fear I will regret doing that but I may not have the power to resist. Best wishes. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Kang: Fortress Fawn? Ooooh I love when you talk dirty. Dannyboy

dude... I don't know of a session with that specific scenario that may have taken place at the Fortress. The subject did come up not too long ago which had me fantasizing the Mistress as a nun. She could punish me for my sins or lead me down the path to pure hedonism. Great thought. Dannyboy

otaku: Perhaps you did not succumb in any sense? I would suggest that you were reborn into this special world. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Zito: My first ever manicure and later pedicure took place alongside a Mistress who was being treated by me. Every manicure and pedicure I ever received was in the company of a Mistress. On other occasions I just waited for her to be done as we had an agenda for the day. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Shankar: You trigger memories. On several occasions in the past I've taken Mistresses for manicures and pedicures. None of the locations were staffed or equipped in the manner you fantasize though. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Shankar: Bobby Riggs would be turning over in his grave if he could see this topic. Dannyboy

Not when they think with the "big" head. Dannyboy

manclawz: As intense as a session can be, a Fortress Mistress has great concern for the safety of her client. You were correct to inform the Mistress of those feelings and the Mistresses were quick to tend to your immediate medical needs. You might consider getting a check-up just to make sure nothing is wrong. Instead of revealing the actual circumstances you might suggest that you walked up several flights of stairs and experienced unaccustomed dizziness. You can't be too careful about your health. Good luck. Dannyboy

Screw Magazine was a very important newspaper for the furtherance of the First Amendment. Of course I read it primarily for the political commentary. Dannyboy

manclawz: The Fortress is a great place to discover or return to. I lived many years in Brooklyn and frequented many dungeons over time. I must say that tickling is a fetish I never had and just can't stand. I never tried sploshing but simply have no interest in so doing. While other activities may lead to unbearable pain it is my need to serve and satisfy my Mistress's desire and so I walk into the dungeon with my eyes open and my heart in the right place. I hope you enjoy your time here and please post about your experiences. Dannyboy

Welcome back Kotter - I mean Lonewolf. Dannyboy

Better hurry. Dannyboy

mrnserson: I will leave it to the professionals to offer a more professional response. Just offering some disconnected thoughts on the subject. In professional sessions safe words are given and heeded for a reason. Where the connection with a Mistress is strong, the safe words are not invoked because limits are discerned by the Mistress before they are surpassed. If you are saying that your pain threshold has diminished over the years you may have identified the problem. You might play without a safe word or perhaps agree that the safe word could be ignored for a brief moment or two. Possibly you could set certain benchmarks that have to be reached before a safe word will be honored. I've played without a safe word at the Fortress except for the last time. During that session my young lady and the Mistress both forced me to use the safe word because of unbearable nipple torture. When I play privately with my young lady we never provide for a safe word. I've taught her how to judge the severity by my reactions. I've also taught her to have a personal goal when engaging in corporal which may conflict with my limits. Good luck, Dannyboy