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He got what he deserved. Having said that, there are others who can re-victimize their victims because of position, power and wealth. Maybe attitudes will change; maybe they won't. Dannyboy

In Koreatown right now and every fourth young lady looks like one of the mannequins. Brings to mind a Twilight Zone episode: The After Hours. Dannyboy

Ray: No she did not. I guess what we've got here is a failure to communicate. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Jin: I never could accept the hypocrisy of one set of official morals and another realm of private behaviors. I could understand it better if those at the top actually practice what they preach but so often they are revealed to be exactly what they officially oppose. Anyway the Fortress is available for people to live their fantasies and satisfy their impulses regardless of their attitudes in the vanilla world. Dannyboy

Ray: Gunga Din is in my personal collection. Cool Hand Luke in my opinion is the best of the rest. Dannyboy

The topic brings to mind a history course from many years ago. The professor was German. He spoke of the Victorian era as one with a prevailing attitude of official sexual repression and prudishness. He added that during that time "there were more houses of ill-repute than at any other time in British history." Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Jin: For me to say that I learned the language(s) would be a gross misrepresentation. It would be more accurate to say that I was able to communicate with others who did not speak English as a primary language while I did not speak the primary language of the other individual. Often the other had some facility with English and I acquired some facility with his language through listening, hand gestures and facial expressions. French and Japanese were my strongest languages. Hebrew and Spanish were next. Then on occasion in various phases of my life I had some minor involvement in Italian, Portuguese, German, Yiddish, Russian, Norwegian, Cantonese, Bengali and Vietnamese. I worked alongside professional interpreters during one of my careers including one who was a very special friend. This friend was certified to translate Spanish and French and could also speak German and Italian. When still a teenager one friend was born in Israel and one friend's mother was born in Italy. I was surprised to hear that the Israeli mother conversed fluently with the Italian mother in Italian. In my experience the greatest barrier to learning a foreign language is fear and the next greatest barrier is inflexibility. Anyway I have lost over 95% of what I ever knew due to atrophy. Danny boy

Thayer... I read the part that included stepping the ladder and other parts. I love the use of language and the detailed descriptions of the activities. Reminded me of Fanny Hill and at least one other book. Reading of a young lady experiencing an orgasm and saying "Oh God, I die, aaahhhhh" is powerfully erotic. The tales of corporal punishment reflect a brutality that seems exaggerated. Reads well in fiction but in reality would seem to require first aid or serious medical attention. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Zito: Years ago I knew a Mistress with a serious interest in suspension. For her birthday she had a suspension experience. I was not part of it and was aghast when she mentioned it to me. I was so afraid she'd be severely injured. She send me a series of pictures of the experience that I haven't looked at in recent years. About a year after that I gave her a round trip ticket to the west coast for some sort of suspension convention. It was never an interest of mine but I wanted to help her pursue those needs. So, without judging, I hope you can find that experience and to your satisfaction. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Shankar: In my own case I feel so past my BDSM prime and so close to a death spiral that thoughts with myself as a sub include nothing new. I want my Latina Lovely to find a female friend to witness and encourage her as she performs corporal punishment on me while revealing all of my embarrassing secrets as justification. We were so close to this event in the past few days but it just sailed by us. On the other hand, I want so much to strictly discipline my young lady. I would love to have her secured to a spanking bench while I administer a strict caning to her bare and beautiful butt. It would be in the context of a daddy/naughty daughter scenario or, alternatively, I would be in the role of a Headmaster in a European school in the 19th century where students might receive canings for violations of rules or conduct bringing shame to the alma mater. Of course she would have to convince me that she deserved such a caning and agree that once it starts there would be no force on Heaven and Earth that would stop it. Begging, pleading and crying would be to no avail. I had a number of strokes from 12 to 24 in mind. She knows that I am serious in this desire and would never even attempt it without her coming to me and asking for it. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Jin: When I was young I heard other languages and felt at a loss because I didn't understand what was said. The ones I heard were Spanish, Yiddish, some Italian and also what I thought was Chinese (hadn't heard of Cantonese or Mandarin at that time.) When I was 9 I could count to 10 in Spanish and Yiddish and knew a few very common phrases and greetings and a couple of dirty words or phrases. In today's world that is not an accomplishment. In my formative years few kids born to American born parents had any need to learn any language but English. My need to understand drove my interest in learning on my own what other people were saying in my presence. Many languages have rules and follow some sort of order. I like figuring things out and following things wherever the rules might take me. Very young I had an argument with my big sister. Listening to the Dean Martin song "That's Amore" I told her that "amore" means "love." She said "no you stupid idiot you don't say "that's a love." I said "no you're thinking in English, in Italian "love" is one word "amore." He's singing "that's love." Of course she didn't believe me and told me how stupid I was. To answer your question: culture or economic necessity are prime factors in learning languages other than one's native tongue. I never had to learn a language until it was part of a school program. In fact the prevailing attitude of my early years was that the rest of the world needed to learn and speak English. Dannyboy

Fascinating!! I cannot do this because of physical issues but I see how well thought out it is. I can also grasp how some subs would need and be brave enough to venture into this kind of treatment. Dannyboy

I think the time has come to revive the post and the poems by Manpeach and myself. Dannyboy

AL: Without being specific, I studied 2 languages and at one time I could have a rudimentary conversation in both of them. I've forgotten 90% of those languages the same way an athlete loses conditioning because of inactivity. I acquired Japanese from a love interest and years later continued with it by regular contact with specific Japanese Mistresses. When I reunited with my Japanese daughter and had other contact with Japanese speaking friends I kept some minimal ability with the language. In work settings I was also exposed to Spanish speaking people who were not proficient in English and naturally acquired enough proficiency to help some of those people understand what they needed to know. In the military I was tested for foreign language aptitude and later, when I had access to the records of thousands of personnel records, I never saw a score that equalled mine and only one score that was 50% of mine. At this stage of my life I barely understand English anymore let alone any foreign language. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Katz: The mundane plans include excellent food though. The birthday dinner with my daughter will be in a very nice restaurant. The visiting friend is a confidante of my young lady and is aware of our disagreements and arguments. She doesn't seem to like me very much. I am told that she is open-minded enough to be part of it. We are thinking that she would get personal satisfaction in watching me get a spanking. We shall see how this all turns out. If it takes place I will write about it. Dannyboy

AL: I needed to count to 100. Another time, pre-Fortress, I sessioned with Ms. Kang and her visiting friend who counted to 100 in Korean. I am familiar with several languages but not Korean. I am most comfortable with Japanese in session but I never studied Japanese. Dannyboy

AL: I sessioned in Japanese with a Japanese Mistress and her female submissive/switch. English was used as well but I had to count each stroke in Japanese. Dannyboy

It was tried on me just to see if I liked it. I didn't and it stopped and I never tried it again. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Shankar: I was fascinated with that clip. The lady reminded me of my Latina Lovely. My lady has the same skin color, same ass, perkier breasts, prettier face, shorter, younger and more petite. I would love to see her in that scene up close and personal. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Rey: Revisiting this question, I had to delay scheduling a medical appointment because of marks I acquired from the attention of a certain young lady. I certainly didn't want to explain how they got there and there was no lie that I could feel confident in hiding behind. There are certain appointments and procedures during which I know in advance my buttocks would be seen by the doctor and I manage my play accordingly. In this most recent case the play was much more intense than normal and left me with a problem that was resolved by waiting a month. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Katz: Most of my plans are mundane and obligatory. They involve family and or dysfunctional family activities. I do celebrate a mutual birthday with my Japanese daughter and we are on target to celebrate once again. It is also possible to have a birthday spanking from my Latina Lovely and, hopefully, with one of her girlfriends who is visiting from Japan, counting for her. Dannyboy

JJB: Did you ever consider that I am just a pathological liar who constantly needs the love and approval of others and has to concoct these stories to cover up my many inadequacies? I lead such a dull, uneventful life. Anyway, if I had the ability I would trade off some of the events in my past life in exchange for holding on to things of value in my more recent life, say, in 2014 and 2015. Dannyboy

From the first official experience I sort of dabbled from time to time seeking Ladies who were interested in my fantasies and fetishes. Some I saw several times and some only once. There came a time when I answered an ad from Screw magazine and spoke to a lovely sounding young lady who was enthusiastic about my fantasies. I won't mention her name but would describe her as a 24 year old, Irish, grad student who sessioned in her apartment. I was fully prepared to explore several aspects of kink with her before heading to school in the evening. I was 29 at the time and had sessioned with 10 - 20 different Ladies in the 5 years since I started. To describe myself during that time range: I was the cutest and sexiest young man who could pass for age 21 even when I was 35. I was exceptionally fit as a marathon runner and constantly horny with fantasies and fetishes running around my brain every moment. Today I am a shriveled up old bastard but that's another conversation. When she opened her door I was instantly paralyzed by her beauty. She was Playmate centerfold of the year beautiful. 5' 2" with brown hair, brown eyes and creamy white skin. Her smile was awesome. I said to myself "OMG she could whip me to death if she wants to and I will go straight to Heaven. Years later when i met Ms. Kang I had a similar reaction. Anyway she asked me to take care of the money first and then I removed my shirt and undershirt. She took off her top and bra revealing perfectly formed breasts. There was a riding crop nearby and I wondered if she wanted to use it on me. Suddenly she grabbed me and kissed me, inserting her tongue in my mouth. I was unprepared but my mind said "don't fight it." My cock became rigid in an instant as she went for my belt and removed my slacks. She removed her jeans and panties and the most beautiful ass I had ever seen so far was mine to behold (and hopefully fuck.) I did forget about S & M and just followed her lead. She asked me what I like and I said "French" and so she immediately put her mouth on it. I said "no, darling, let's try the soixante-neuf position. So she put her beautiful ass in my face while I enjoyed her in a way I never expected possible. She stopped and asked me to make love to her. I laid on my back and had her sit on it face to face. She moaned loudly and our lips and tongues met muffling her passion. I felt her whole body quiver and then it was my turn. For a while we laid in each other's arms, panting. We had a long conversation thereafter. She told me she once had a submissive session and the client spanked her far beyond her limits. I never spanked her but after a second session which led to lovemaking we committed to S & M the next time we met. We had a connection that lasted 12 years. She had a sugar daddy as her number 1 client. She often told me of their sessions. She would go to him at a private dungeon where she would be placed in restraints and strictly punished as a naughty girl. There was no prevailing concept of safe words then and her spankings from daddy were pure punishment. Begging and crying often did not stop her spankings. After regaining her composure it would then be his turn in the restraints as she returned the favor to him with a vengeance. She told me she once caned him so severely that she had to ice his buttocks to keep the swelling down. We did have purely S & M sessions over time but she was always sexually free with me. One evening I was stressed out before a final exam. She invited me over and performed oral upon me to relax me. I was so relaxed I almost fell asleep during the exam. I did get and A in the course. I won't say much else about her. Years later she was connected to a public figure and, I presume, secured her future from a financial standpoint. Early in my fetish life I actually had a dream come true. I know many of us wish we could make love to a Mistress. It happened for me at a time that Mistresses were able to do much more than could be done under today's standards. This special Lady is still my all-time favorite non-Asian Mistress. Maybe she is a grandmother now. Who knows? Dannyboy

I've written this many times in the past going back to her old Yahoo group. When I first saw her I felt my heart and soul depart from my body. She had me in a trance for years. No Mistress has meant more to me in my lifetime. She is the Greatest. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Rey: I responded to a comment made by Ms. Kang in reply to a post of mine in this topic: "His Master's Voice." On the old records in vinyl disc form one would find a label with the name of the recording company, song title, etc. The Radio Corporation of America was known, in abbreviated form, as RCA. That label depicted an old gramophone and a very large speaker, shaped like a horn, with a dog hearing his master's voice that was recorded on the disc. The vibrations would be picked up through a stylus and the sound would come out through the speaker. The picture was captioned "His Master's Voice" since the dog recognized the disembodied sound of his master. With Ms. Kang's printed reply I was the faithful and loyal dog hearing and heeding her words even though she was not in sight nor could I her her voice. Hope that explains. BTW one would have to be a pretty old fart to get the reference nowadays. I'm not saying I'm old but BTB certainly is. I used to babysit him to earn money to sit in the bleachers at Ebbets Field - the home park of the Brooklyn Dodgers. Dannyboy