Pain slut more like it!
For me, the pleasure I get is very rooted in being a sadistic person but its also rooted in the control. Im a control freak- Ill admit that- Hi, my name is Lucy Tran and I am a control freak....but I agree it is also about balance- there are things I have learned that i do not have control of and shouldnt try to take control of. I find that the only masochistic tendencies are the one's I do to myself. I use to pluck all the hair from my crotch and armpits because I liked the sensation but also loved how perfectly cleaned it looked.
I wouldnt consider you either as well. You are definitely an obedient kinky boy!
I think everyone has both naturally in them and I also believe people naturally sway to one side or the other but life experiences play a huge role. I think everything is very situational and there are so many factors that its really hard to generalize. For me, I have very sadistic tendencies and I have always had them- just suppressed due to social acceptance. As time has gone by, certain experiences have helped me understand and develop my sadistic nature. I do not switch- I have dabbled in the submissive world just to see how i feel about it and its just not me. I truly believe its not in my nature.
I do not agree with this. i cant speak for the other Mistresses but I am one Domme who doesn't get topped even in my personal life. I have no issues with anyone who switches- more power to you for being able to have multiple ways of pleasure- but for me, my pleasure coms from being a top and having the control over my submissive's but also having the control to administer the kinky activities for those who are kinky but not submissive. I guess I am a kinky control freak!