blackstalian

Subs, have you ever been dominated by a mistress in plain clothes, or been dominated while wearing them? Mistresses have you ever dominated a sub while in street wear? did it add to the experience in any way? I've been wondering about the connection between fetish play and fetish wear - if it offers a level of separation for "playtime" that otherwise might be harder for our brains to achieve if there was no context switch. For any of those who have done sessions in plain clothes, do you ever find situations in vanilla life where you accidentally switch to sub/dom mode?

yummy purple stuff so it's gotta be Taro!

does Boy happen to know about your interests? and were you at VELD @ downsview with deadmau5 & crew? couldn't even get tickets for that one, sold out! anyways, here's a story from back in the playground days: during recess, we'd play a game of "Prisoner", where the boys were hunted, tagged by the girls, and sent to "prison" (a small nook under the steps) until they were "rescued" by another boy or punished & released by the girls at the end of the game. I could easily outrun most of the kids, but I'd run just slow enough to be a good little prey; it got me in jail every time. And any boy sharing a cell with me was usually completely uninterested in staying there, and would duck out against the rules when the girls weren't looking. I'd get a quizzical look trying to explain to them why we absolutely had to stay there no matter what until the girls came back to punish & release us. Even when it was clear the girls completely got sidetracked (by the latest polly pocket or my little pony or whatever was hot then) and weren't playing anymore, I'd stay in my cell the entire recess. I never understood why I enjoyed being such easy prey in a game of evasion. Something about the anticipation of what would happen to me when the girls returned with their punishments... -

I can imagine being completely dumbfounded would be a common result. I'd probably be in a daze for weeks, lucky you.

stallion reporting in! a dark steed bred for riding.

I like to think behind every mistress' gaze is a single reassuring thought: "Please me... or else", except there is no "or else", it's left to be the unthinkable in every sub's mind.

Did you use it? (the safeword) I'm trying to work up the courage myself and wrap my mind around a new experience. Posts like yours really help, and I know I have a sweet tooth for some Sugar now

pheromones I think. we aren't the best at it but we humans can still pick them up. I remember hearing of a few studies where human volunteers could pick out subjects they find most attractive just by smelling the armpits of their dirty laundry without ever having seen them. I guess it's something primal, a sense we barely get to use in daily life, but it's craving to be stimulated.

sounds like your first went well!.I'm working up the courage to visit for the first time too, but haven't much experience (none) on the scene. I'm particularly curious about your speechlessness... I'm absolutely smitten with Mistress Jung and would really love my first session to be with her. BUT I'm really nervous.... nervous that her sublime beauty might just freeze me up and my ability to play along. Did Mistress Jung and Mistress Chen coach you along with the roleplay parts?

if your sub's been a good boy: diet coke (or any form of aspartame) otherwise: asparagus