Dashan

100% agree. she's a delight.

A truly great mistress is not defined by physical attributes, the way she dresses, or even her methods. A real, great mistress should aspire to embody this quote: “If a woman can possess a man sexually – really possess – she won’t need to control his ideas, his opinions, his clothes, his friends, even his other lovers. She fucks my ass for hours with a dick an inch too big for the job: that is possession. After a round like that she doesn’t need to infiltrate my life, my psyche, my time, or my wardrobe, because she has infiltrated the core of my being – the rest is just peripheral decoration. Domination – total and complete domination of my being – that is where I find freedom.”

M. Zhao, thanks for sharing this blog entry. It's a reflection on what a smart domme you are, and what a great group JK has put together at the FF. I particularly agree about the point of being "fully present." This applies both to tops and subs. I was just telling my very capable mistresses at my last session at the FF that I always wanted to be "completely present." One of the things I appreciate most about the two mistresses I enjoy at the FF is that they are always 100% present during the session. Even though they are experienced players, and put me through the paces, I know that they are 100% there, and not "going through the motions." This, to me, is what makes BDSM so much more intimate than either "vanilla" sex in a relationship, or seeing a standard "provider" of erotic services.

I love the way you think. I think Spice specifically chose the safe word phrase for me based on my excessive bragging about how much asian I have sampled over the years

I told you I'm a recalcitrant sub- I'm already one step ahead of you and have posted a "full version" of my latest escapade under you at the FF to on your devotee forum. I'm REALLY looking forward to the our next session and look forward to you meeting my one simple request which Sugar should have forwarded to you by now. Yes, I am fully cognizant of the ridiculous amount of pain and risk I am bringing upon myself with said request. So when I see it fulfilled, I will know you are in the mood to mete out serious punishment.

Agreed- so much nicer to be domme'd by a feminine, smiling, sexy asian girl than a gruff mean old woman that looks like she came out of the "Dresden Diaries"

M. Kang, I would love to share the "full version" of my post with you for you to post to your forum. I would not normally share this level of detail, but since letting you into mind will make you an even better domme, I am willing to do it. Also since you and Mina made such a work of art last session , I feel almost selfish to not share it with the rest of your fans/subs. here's my idea, though. I will email it to you, and you can post it yourself under your name. I'd like to see you add a few sentences about what you are feeling/thinking when you are running the session; I'm sure this would be popular with your many fans as well. Deal? if so, let me know where to email it.

I only used my safe word around 20 times, for which, of course, I received even more pleasurable punishment.

Did I use my safe word? Only about two dozen times

I want to share my FF experience for not only denizens of the FF, but for those “Fence sitters” that are reading this guest forum, getting aroused by what they read but not sure if they should take the leap, and propel fantasy into reality. It does take guts to book a visit to the FF. However, this could well be the best money you ever spend in your life. To usher in the New Year, I scheduled a “double double,” two hours with two mistresses. These two brilliant, sexy girls’ names names will remain confidential, unless they choose to reply to this post. Let me just call them “Sugar” and “Spice.” (You can pick your own favorites; I’m sure they are all fantastic.) Just seeing these two smoking hot stunners enter the room made me tremble with desire and fear. Spice is tall, voluptuous, and bold, like a brash Tuscan red, and Sugar is lithe, delicate looking (but firm) like a lovely Marlborough Sauvignon Blanc. After a lovely pre-session chat, these two angels proceeded to put me through the paces. These two beauties have limitless energy and imagination, pushing me past my limits, and turning fantasy into reality. I won’t give details other than to say that the session was a “greatest hits” of all that’s good about BDSM; everything I could have wished for and more. (Spice is wonderful with ropes, by the way, a real artist. Sugar excels at the sensual side of things.) What I loved most about the session is that the girls go about their work with such delight and enthusiasm. Countless times they broke out in laughter, either at the ridiculousness of my predicaments, or at my feeble attempts to endure what they dished out. They truly enjoy their work, and they run the Fortress with incredible attention to detail. After they sent me on my way, into the chilly Chinatown night, I was a new man, with fresh lightness, power and pep in my step. I was “open” and some pain endured. Nothing gives me the feeling of power like a session with “Sugar and Spice” at the Fortress. If you have never been to the FF, or it’s been awhile, get your ass (literally) over there soon. And the title of my post? It was my safe word.

I am aware that this post is inviting punishment, and I'm placing myself at risk with a session already scheduled, but I can't comprehend the use of the word subtle by or in the same sentence as Mistress Kang

I'm new to the Fortress, but I can heartily recommend Mistresses Jung and Kang- the contrast between the two of them is spellbinding. Demure and Devilish, Natural and Enhanced, Sugar and Spice. The intelligence, raw sexuality and power of these two domes makes for an amazing session. But then again, I'm a novice to the "sub" side of life.

I think most of those girls in your comics have a BDSM subtext- all the boots, latex, capes, and weapons...

Nothing is as sexy as a smart domme ....

While there is nothing like real-life BDSM or a session with the lovely dommes of the Fortress, I also find erotic S/M literature satisfying. I wonder if others on the forum also enjoy BDSM literature. One of my favorites is “Carrie’s Story: An Erotic S/M Novel.” To me, while much of the focus in BDSM is on the physical, it is the realm of the mind in which the real excitement, the transformative experience occurs. The narrator says in “Carries Story” “I wanted to resist, I couldn’t quite find the moment, or the muscular center, for actually doing so. Instead, some part of me was discovering that were was a way to be utterly, terrifyingly “open.” I would love to hear others thoughts and reading recommendations on this topic- and I would especially like to hear the Mistresses weigh in. (The opinions of the lovely and intelligent Mistresses Jung & Kang?)

No superhero play but M Kang looked like one of those hyper sexual girls in the comic books. Good idea though maybe M Kang as Batwoman and M Jung as a Victorian Anime Cosplay girl or an Anime Maid. You haven my imagination running wild now

I just had an amazing first-time session at the Fortress with the incomparable Mistress Jung and Mistress Kang. I was literally shaking with excitement and fear when I first saw them. I bit off a lot for my first session- a double with these two super-mistresses. Jung was sweet, natural, appearing like a lovely lithe little angel. Kang arrived, looking like a superhero girl with comic book proportions. Her corset accentuated the perfect over-the-top proportions she sports. The balance between their voices, looks and styles was stunning and intoxicating. Both of these women are MUCH more beautiful and charming in person than they are in their photos. The difference is startling. They look sweet, but it sure didn't stop them from trying to aggressively fulfill my fantasies with brutality. They both set up an intricate, mind-blowing session that was almost exactly what I was looking for; details which I will not share other than to say it ended with a delightful rain. My only quibble with them is I have been a top all of my life and they were unable to break me. They had their way with me but I was able to weasel my way out of the true punishment I deserved without even using my safe word. Maybe they were just being soft on me because it was my first time. I will have to book another session soon to see if they can rise to the challenge.