Mistress Kang

Ahhh...now I can better imagine what those marks looked like. Consider this a little nudge- I invite you to choose a new implement- one (you think) you'd survive after being passed to each of us :-) Hopefully one that can be tallied the same way too!

You *ARE*! I've seen your work...what was his name? "Boom-Boom"?

The twizzler?! That must have been ages ago! Where were these marks? What I wouldn't give to see his expression...

Your deadpan-ness does take getting accustomed to. I bet you get away with your truth-lies too.

I've found it difficult to see that a "tickle-sub" is aroused while being tickled. The physical reaction looks more like a cross between fighting and enduring the overwhelming sensations. I'm super interested to hear her experience. According to almost everyone that I need to tell, I run a photo studio LOL I've learned early on that telling people who don't need to know will bring unwanted attention. I don't enjoy being a "novelty" friend. Close friends all know of course. Family has an general idea I'm sure and I have no need or desire to clarify it for them.

You may very well be the one to christen it :-)

I'm interested in hearing how she reacts and what she thinks of it all after she meets Mistress Rey :-) I always thought of tickling and "wrestling" as fun and innocent forms of kink because it comes so naturally. Do you think she would feel this way too?

That is CRAZY LOL also a really good cover story (drunk writing). Does this mean your ex would have been OK with some kink when you guys were dating??

Now these are the kind of stories I like! LOL

How very of you.

I once tried to take a suitcase full of heavy chains and manacles on a flight. TSA asked what they were, I told them "jewelry". Not exactly a "lie", but short-lived nonetheless because they searched my bag right after that.

We should offer Chart of Excuses (to explain away BDSM evidence)- whip lashes = jumprope accident at the gym bite marks = bite from a small dog glass anal plug = hand blown glass paperweight rubber dildo = feminism art project

This is a bit more juvenile of an example because it's a comedy series. It made me laugh so hard when I saw it because of the "double-Domme" domestic roleplay feel.

Excuuuuuse me??!! LOL That was one hell of a coughing fit. Think they bought it?

HAHAHAHAHAA I want to know more about this if you don't mind sharing. Who was this person to you? Are/were you involved intimately with him/her? If you were, wouldn't they know (or have an idea) of your BDSM penchants?

I feel this must have something to do with your Samurai way of thinking ("spare the vanilla of my perversions") (kidding).

At least you know you have caring and concerned friends? :-) It seems you have shared more about your BDSM life than most have with their vanilla friends. How did it feel telling them? Was it freeing in a way? Re: the human carpet. The infamous Kevin Carpet is at many fetish parties. He rolls himself up in a piece of carpet and parks himself next to the bar so people can step on him as they order drinks or use the bar for balance and trample him. Is this who you're talking about?! The salesman was at least (somewhat) helpful. I can't help but imagine he said it with a discriminating frown :-(

If you have not revealed your fetish/S&M tendencies to friends or family, these questions are for you. Has a friend or relative ever caught a peek of your Mistress' "love-bite" (cane stripe, whip lash, bruise, tattoo, body modification, actual teeth bites :-), etc.)? What did they see and where did they see it (on you)? What excuses have you used? What lies have you told?

Finally arrived, our new latex vacuum bed! Ours is metallic emerald green colored. Who's going to christen this with us?

Was just going to say that Mistress Von Dietz is THE Shiksa Goddess for you.

Interesting.. Where can I find the stuff that Gosling wrote?? Is it available online somewhere? Do you have access to it with all your behind-the-scenes knowledge? :-)

I agree. Religion based humiliation play is most certainly less taboo for Americans (particularly Black/White) than race based humiliation play. I prefer race play over religion play simply because I'm not that familiar with Anglo religion and racism play carries a very different stigma in my culture and history as a Chinese-American. There is no history of Black slavery by Chinese-Americans. There is no history of Asian supremacy in America. I once discussed a possible scene with a sub who was Muslim. He wanted to be treated like a dog and forced to eat pork from a dog dish. It was something I was really excited about doing but in the end he changed his mind. To this day I still think that would have been one of the most extreme things I could have done. Forcing a Muslim to eat pork such a degrading way would truly be a powerful act. Lately I've fantasized about this scenario more than I have others, probably because I haven't done it yet? One way it would be even MORE degrading is to put a him in a predicament where he is forced to BEG to eat the pork on his own- willingly unwilling.