God damn, I'm re-reading this now and I fully agree. Rope, and LOTS of it.
For bondage, as a gag, as a blindfold, as a "whip", all sorts of nether region pain and restriction, knotting it up just so to be FIRM enough for "more".
I find that broaching limits are best when done one-to-one. It's more intimate and connected for sensitive play like this, where she can gaze into your soul while testing the boundaries of your nether regions. Try a one-to-one session next time to see how far you can go- if you care to find out.
Oh- rape play is so edgy. I imagine it's harder to navigate from a male to female POV, no matter how well you know your partner, there will be societal issues that arise. Good on you for having explored!
It took him a while to his "greatest hits" ("Girl With Emphysema" (Ipanema) and the like). Seems he was saving it for when everyone was a little more boozy into the night.
YES!
They had pics on the walls of celebrities etc. There was one of who I thought was Jeff Bezos with Aviator sunglasses but turns out was Paul Shaffer with Aviator sunglasses. The deception.
Mistress Koi is about as gentle as you can get with that activity.
In regards to ballbusting- that limit is completely understandable. It is what makes it or breaks it and there's no in between.
Was there something exciting about the fear of the limit being surpassed by someone you trusted? Aside from sounds, what other "hard" limit do you have and why is it a hard limit?
BDSM/Kink can be sexuality and an identity, to me it is both. I admire Mistress Damiana Chi and her sister, Mistress Jezebel Chi. I rented their dungeon in LA over 15 years ago and they were supreme hosts. Mistress Jezebel invited me to yum-cha and was a gracious big sister.
So it sounds like you didn't know things belonged in your "like" column until you experienced them.
Then keep needles off your list- there's plenty of other ways to achieve an adrenal rush 🙂
"Out of the way" is a step in the right direction. Did it feel like you accomplished something? Is there a way it could be done next time to make it more enjoyable?