morozek

This was my thinking as well...

Thanks for sharing mKang! I like your concerns about retention. I wish I lived closer to NYC, but you've got a loyal customer here each time I get into town!

Dentists can be scary--but here's a fun clip of toothy pain for the Mistresses! Any takers??? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Or_nPc5RzQc

The link is in the first post in this thread. It's still active as far as I know, but be forewarned---it's a very large file.

I was interested to see someone viewing this thread, too. Wish I would have known about the option of having a video made for my session...perhaps next time, if I'm a good enough boy.

I'm afraid I've been relapsing...and I'm really concerned about the possible repercussions!

I had my first scenario/role play last week with MJ and MC, and although it turns out that I am a complete wimp, I had an awesome time and hope to return soon. The psychological aspect far exceeded my expectations. Their hooks are embedded deep in my mind, and I am totally enchanted. Special thanks go out to MZ for turning me on to that. I was much more timid than I might normally be, due to the [self-imposed] fear of possible consequences, but am thinking how I can push those boundaries a little next time I get to NYC. Nothing prepares one for domination like being dominated, and I believe I will be better prepared psychologically for the next session, and will be a much better sub (that's my promise to MJ & MC!) They both are super sweet and work well together. Despite my initial apprehension, they gently took over and not-so-gently initiated me, testing a few boundaries. Perhaps we can push beyond those as well next time. Afterwards, I felt as though I had known them for years. They are friendly and witty, and my only regret was no making time for the dinner/domination combo. I'm hoping to go all out next time. So a definite A++ for these Mistresses. Treat them well, er, I mean, listen to them well... Moz

LOL, mZhao's services are fetished here...

I suppose that anything starting with "I will never..." or "Are you serious..." are also to be avoided...

Coming from mZhao, that's a win-win situation, even if you lose...

LOL, thx WW. I've told the girls that the entire session is up to them; I'm just along for the ride.

I love the way you think! I'm wishing I could get up to NYC more often for a one-on-one tutorial. (Unless I could convince you to cameo at my upcoming session!) Moz

I'm trying to get my head around this second statement. If I am understanding you correctly, BDSM foreplay as a means to an end is kinky by nature, but BDSM 'foreplay' in a session (that is more geared toward psychological domination) is not so much a means to the end, but rather the means by which the status quo of the session (top/sub relationship) is maintained? Moz

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Hey Shepard- Email Booking and tell them what you want. They'll give you some excellent recommendations! (It also may depend on who is available during your timeframe.)

Wow, no kidding! Now I'm Jonesin' for some new vids on the other Mistresses, too! Can we volunteer to let our sessions be partly videotaped for these type of videos?

I love this thread, with all it's wonderful fits and starts! I think being in a relationship with one of these girls would be a unique experience. I'm not referring to the physical relationship, but to the type of personality(ies) required to keep it going, especially if the relationship may be of a polygamous/polyandrous nature. Are these girls witty, engaging, attractive, fun, etc.? None of us would disagree with that, and I imagine that we could all come up with many more superlatives to describe them. Yes, they may be exhausted and stressed when they come home, and may feel like kicking someone's teeth in on occasion. But they are still girls--girls who need to go shopping, go to the beach, dip their toes into fountains, or get their nails done on a regular basis. Seeing this side of them makes the sub part all the more thrilling, because they're playing the game, too! That's the reason the Candids Gallery has many of my favorite photos...we see the girls for who they really are, and that dimension adds so much more than simply viewing them as BDSM bots. I'm not trying to ruin anyone's fantasy; hell, it's a pretty awesome one to dream about...but it's even more fascinating to discover that they have so much more to offer to the lucky man that catches their fancy. I could only wish that it would be me... Moz

...and there's nothing wrong with that. The Mistresses meet us where we are and try to propel us forward, whether we're in for just a bit of fun, wanting to push our boundaries, or even wanting to add depth to the sessions...and that's why we're so drawn to them. @PHRED: the spy/espionage scenario does sound like a lot of fun! Moz

Thank you for clarifying; I wanted to make certain that I was understanding you correctly.

mZhao- The concept of ouroboros is familiar to me, although I don't recall having heard it been called that. I completely agree that conflict can help us grow. Jung's duality paradox leading to wholeness is logical, but I think that as an optimist (if you can call Jung that!) he doesn't spend a great deal of time examining how in some individuals the converse can occur. Take for example, a heroin addict. The triumph of the high versus the defeat of addiction/legal consequences/etc. can lead to emptiness. The book 'Lolita' also explored the outcome of emptiness and despair. Why did I choose shame? Given my example of taboo scenarios, shame is one of the logical defeat alternatives to the triumph of conquest. For an espionage scenario, the triumph of infiltration might be counterbalanced by paranoia/capture/interrogation. I'll posit that THAT one piques your interest as well, hmm? Moz

Mistress Ree- I am intrigued by your statement that 'some clients simply aren't "subby"'. The psychological and emotional dynamics of dom/sub interaction are interesting to me, and I find your statement on division of power and its' effects the session script to be intriguing. Could you elaborate a bit more on how you perceive this interplay and what may contribute to it? It seems that although you do have your opinion of the 'perfect sub', it isn't necessarily a prerequisite for an entertaining session? I'd also be interested in getting some input from the other mistresses regarding Satisfying Power vs Balanced Fun. Moz

For myself, I contacted booking and discussed some ideas with the lovely Ms. Rhee, and am listening to her excellent advice. I'm looking forward to seeing how things turn out. Moz

I'm hesitant to resurrect an old thread, but Ms. Zhao's closing statement caught my imagination, and I was curious how you determine whether to create a feeling of triumph or defeat for the client? In the case of certain unrequited desire or taboo type of scenarios, especially those that could involve feelings of shame or remorse, I would posit that triumph on the physical level could bring about feelings of defeat on the psychological level, and vice versa. Depending on the client's desired outcome, it seems to me that the resulting emotional conflict could make it be a doubly powerful experience. Thoughts? Moz P.S. this type of psychological BDSM really revs my engine!