Mistress Fei

Hello Michael, more like, what did YOU think?

i really liked it- but the feedback is of course divided, not for everyone

Has anyone seen this film? If so- What are your thoughts? Is a slow moving, lingering, constant threat that follows you no matter where you go scarier than a resolute villain, or a fast/imposing threat? Does this say anything about a "collective haunted intimacy" (found this in a review and loved the idea) Is it better not to understand why? The film makes no sense at times yet it wasn't a big problem, at least to me What is this film trying to say about sexuality? femininity? What about its unusual choice of protagonist? In most horror films, the pretty girl is usually an ancillary character and not the main LET'S HEAR IT! There's much to say here ethically, sexually, metaphorically

You are horrible

ahahahahahaha smart cookie

Yes it absolutely is- sometimes ive learned to play dumb so as to not freak the other person out! it can be extremely flattering in some circumstances however. and used wisely, can be very powerful to have a reserve of knowledge on the other especially if they don't have the best memory yes i think so too, seems we like to ponder about the same concepts awesome! appreciate it!

interesting- yes true, i know the vacuum you're referring to sometimes it feels better to take the hit for the group, for the sake of the group even if you don't feel up to it- that's what i think HA do you have an example?!

awesome!! i am going to get Khalsa's book and would love to borrow a few you select- would like to know what's going on in your head when it's not covered by MZ's pretty undies yes i've come to realize it's important to look at the individual as an individual- the biggest mistake is to assume everyone operates the same way i've always had a very natural ability to sense someone's weaknesses, strengths, general character, relationship dynamics, some other psychic intuitions, due to my abilities as an empath that, with my psych background, allows me to create a cognitive map of the person once i interact with them and i rarely ever forget anything when it comes to someone who's gotten my attention this last year has been me learning how to apply that knowledge instead of just letting it stew as a collection of amorphous thoughts about a person you all have been very helpful with that endeavor i cannot thank everyone enough

why? what is it you believe about women? vs men?

wow- are there books you can recommend on the subject? or was this mostly trial and error i've read books on power and manipulation/game theory but they tend to be very abstract and not as methodical as you've presented

So if I understand correctly, you appear more open minded at first to ease the other into sharing his/her opinion, then flip their close-mindedness into a more receptive stance? I'm into it! Now, is it only in sharing your opinions that this instinct crops up? Ah, interesting, the complexity of your dominance strikes a chord with me, I too have been thinking about my incredibly fluctuating sense of dominance, and the intricacies within it. I've recently been thinking about the idea of simplicity, how NOTHING, and i mean absolutely nothing is what it seems- everything is a combination of paradoxes, overcompensations, and opposites- the liar is the most honest of all type of stuff- often I'm questioned as to why I invest my time in a certain person that might not seem appealing to others for whatever purpose he/she is serving, but I know deep down that what's presented is often masking its very contradictory instinct that takes time and effort to uncover. It's at the Fortress we are really exposed to these clear-cut opposites- the most submissive and docile in the playroom might not, and usually is not at all that way in life. For me, I've found this playing out in different ways.. it's always the person I feel the most with that I'm unable to communicate those feelings to, that I might act the most blasé towards. It's the text message that takes me days to respond to, that might look like I didn't care when really, I cared so much and that's why it took me so long. I'm glad there are people like you who exhibit and understand these hidden binaries so that I know at least we're not all being looked at in such a singular way.

i saw that- i love it. fantastic. thanks for sharing!

interesting- thought you'd like this question can you explain more re: influence vs manipulate? if i understand correctly, in this context influence means asserting power upfront while manipulating means pulling the strings in the background yeah? and, can you give me an example re: manipulating in the workplace? I'd love to hear more details

Hey everyone, Been thinking about my positionality in power relations It seems I prefer to turn the tables- underestimated at first and then at a specific moment flipping the power exchange- There's something so satisfying about the unexpectedness of it all- the other has become comfortable thinking he/she is in the position of power. It takes an initial, and quite uncomfortable investment of seeming less powerful at the outset, i would say that's the drawback It throws the other person off and it's quite a feat when accomplished correctly What are your thoughts on power, your preferred role of power- whether it be dominant/submissive? Do you prefer to always be in control (how do you go about maintaining your continual control?) or do you prefer a turn-the-tables scenario like I outlined above? Let me know why!

see gone girl for a hot trailer park trashy girl & shots of her bare feet!

sorry to hear that, GOD. even GOD has bad weeks things will get better, especially with some LA sun Come visit when you're back in town All the best, mFei

DAMN looking forward to playing with Mistress Rey!

microsoft just made a ridiculously tiny portable bluetooth keyboard! did you see?? that's probably the exact size of that tiny penis

i think i need to punch you until you're black and blue and then we can talk about whether it's black and blue or white and gold

I saw it as gold and white until I tried to see it as blue and black and now I can't unsee it!

maybe you'll get to see it in action

is that what that is! good to know m Rey!