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Thanks for sharing!
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I just need to save up some cash to make the trip back to NYC for my spanking.
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At this point yes. I'm not sure how effective the coaching would be if I went wanting the spanking.
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The way I have it in my head they would both be speaking the same language. This does limit who I could session with but allows the dommes the ability to communicate without me knowing what they are planning on. This also describes most of my multi-domme experiences anyway, but language allows for a different dynamic especially if being commanded to do something in another language and I have no way of knowing what to do.
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Thanks for these photos. Most of the ladies from GoT would be good dommes. My fear would be that they would coerce me into a wedding or going to a wedding with them, and we all know how dangerous those are in GoT.
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I once had a session where Mistress Rey taught me French. Learning from her was easy since she is a good teacher and knows how to motivate. But I haven't kept up with my studies ☹️. I have often thought a double domme session where the mistresses conspired and teased me in another language would be fun. But I have never done that one yet.
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I know from experience that Mistress Rey loves bastinado. I'm sure if you asked nicely she will be happy to help you with your fantasy. Good luck walking afterwords.
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I suffer from the Kang effect, the Rey effect, the Li effect, the Jin effect, the Von Dietz effect...if i don't suffer from a particular mistress's effect at the Fortress, it's because I haven't had the opportunity to session with them yet. I often wonder what I am missing out on with those I haven't sessioned with but when it comes to sessioning I struggle with do I try someone new for the added experience or do I go back to someone I had a fun experience with? These are the decisions that keep me awake at night. But I totally understand the effect Mistress Kang has on you. She has it on me as well. I only wish I could visit her more often.
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Lonewolfs sudden drastic decline in overall health...
theDumbMule replied to Lonewolf's topic in Fortress Guest Forum
This makes me wonder. If we all designated the Fortress mistresses as our Advanced Care Designee, which mistresses would we be safest choosing? Who would "pull the plug" and who would make us hang on for "extra" torture? Which subs would they choose to "off" and who gets to live? It's a bit of a morbid thought but this certainly would take submission to a whole new level. Glad to see you still around and posting Lonewolf! -
I think I would actually like to try this. But I doubt I will be back to the Fortress before spring.
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I have seen a number of professional disciplinarians offer life coaching services. Most do not consider themselves dommes since most of them just focus on spanking. The spanking they offer is both for fetishes and for resolving past wrongs. But many offer it with life coaching to help reach goals such as quitting bad habits, losing weight, motivation to advance in career etc. My question is has anyone tried life coaching in this manner? Did it work or help in achieving the goal? Did you stop with the service once the goal was achieved? I never tried this but was curious if this was effective or did it just end up as another way to satisfy a fetish on a regular basis.
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In need of a hard working human space heater... ☃️
theDumbMule commented on Mistress Von Dietz's gallery image in Mistress Von Dietz
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Me too!
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I thought she seemed pretty dominant in the Horrible Bosses movies.
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Anyone Really Surprised about the Hollywood Sex Scandal?
theDumbMule replied to manclawz's topic in Fortress Guest Forum
I'm surprised at the large number of accusations but not that it is happening. It's hard to balance letting the accused be innocent until proven guilty in the eyes of the public with the rights and courage of the victims to be heard. I don't know that I have found that proper balance yet. As far as enjoying the work that the accused has put out, I usually am able to separate the work from the person who did the work. It's understandable if someone is unable to. But in many cases the work of the accused and that of the victim who we want to support is contained in the same work of entertainment. I recognize that no one is perfect. That does not excuse some of the aweful things people do, but if I avoided all works by people who did something offensive and horrific, I think I would have troubles finding entertainment to watch. Those are my two cents and certainly understand with anyone who disagrees. The whole situation is sad to hear for sure. -
Wow, I just hope there aren't any turkeys on this forum. I live in an area where I get to see wild turkeys on a regular basis. I find them interesting to watch especially early in the morning if you ever get the opportunity to scare them out of their roost (up in trees). They make a lot of noise and scare you if you are not expecting it when they fly down to the ground. After this they call to each other to group back together. It's a fascinating thing to watch. Good luck with your turkeys Jayman. Happy Thanksgiving to you, the other subs on this forum, and especially the mistresses that make this forum special!