bassman

ha ha - great thread! I'm old enough that it's hard to remember a "first," but I think Playboy magazine would have been involved. That said, it's nice to see all the sentiment for the good/bad old days of Times Square. "The crotch of the universe" is what my dad called Times Square. (In maybe 1970.)

Both very good points. No disrespect to the photographer (it might have been one of the Mistresses, in which case I'll be punished in due course for saying this), but every Mistress I've met has been *much* more beautiful in person than in the pictures on the website.

ha ha - I'd hit it. I mean, they played the trick on you, might as well have the consequences. (Easy for me to say at my age.) BTW, I thought this was about the Dawes song "A Little Bit of Everything." Link:

That was the myth back when. In fact, some pretty awesome women like a guy who is smart, fit and capable but also submissive. I'm sure that's always been the case, but people just never talked about it. As to the reproductive part - it just stands to reason. I am definitely a worker bee happy to service the queen bee. If that results in a great bunch of kids, that's great. In the insect world, I would go off to die. As a human, luckily, I have other options as to what to do with my time after fertilizing the queen bee. But our yin/yang provided a good environment for the three kids to grow up in. Long way of saying, without being an expert of any kind, I think the thesis of the study makes some sense to me personally.

That is interesting. It seems to ring true in my situation. We have three great kids, and now the first of what we hope will be a bunch of grandchildren. My wife is dominant (although not in the BDSM sense, but dominant nonetheless). And y'all know about me ...

ha - those are great - I have definitely been "tranned"!

so far, they've all been hot!

wow - a New Year's Eve session at the Fortress would be awesome! Alas, not in the cards for me. New Year's Resolutions - finish up my storyline going since August with M. Tran, with M. Lu playing a prominent role ... meet M. Zhao ... go back and see my shrink Dr. Fei after being traumatized by M. Zhao!

I sent you an e-mail via the booking mistresses. (I don't know how to pm you.) Looking forward ...

I agree with the advice above. Prior to my first time I did not realize how nice and helpful the Mistresses in booking are. I actually asked for someone who was not available that night, and, after discussing my interests, booking proposed Mistress Tran, who was perfect for a first time. (And a second, etc. ...)

It's in the first week of October (rather not be specific here). I'll e-mail in advance ... session idea based on your original post here.

I found this to be an interesting thread. And I have scheduled a session with Mistress Fei as a result. I know that I will be punished in due course for being unfaithful to Mistress Tran. However, since I seem to get punished no matter what I do, this was a neutral factor in the decision-making process.

it's in Chinatown. Not going to be too specific but you could walk it from South Ferry if you wanted. Or take the subway. Is "Is it easy to get there from Staten Island" or "how far from the ferry" meant to be some kind of BDSM metaphor that I don't know about?

Last night was my first visit to the Fortress and just through luck Mistress Tran was my mistress. I would say almost exactly what you did - first, she is perfect - second, I too just gave her a "vague fantasy" - only about two sentences long, and no detail. Boy, did she supply the detail! It's like she'd been reading my mind and thought of things I didn't even know I was thinking myself. It was an amazing experience. Very, very insightful person besides being very beautiful and very nice (when she wants to be; when she's not nice that can be even better). I hope I'm lucky enough to see her again.