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Cruel? That's just fun. I'm thinking M. Hadid making me eat all that horrible icing when I did the food play session with her and MVD might have been the cruelest. I would have adjusted my shopping list had I known that was coming.

I only visited the old Sammy's once, and loved it, but felt once was enough for me. I go for at least 2 or 3 tries for most BDSM things.

Not chicken, squab. Zha Ru Ge, 炸乳鸽

I'm out of the country, so I'm not cooking. But this was part of yesterday's lunch:

Yes, working up is how it's been the limit on ball-impact has generally been dealt with. I find it kind of annoying that it is a limit for me, but it works the same way for me as for Jawz - too much takes me right out of the session and I just want it to end. But it's no fun to make it totally off-limits. As for the new hard limit: rape play. It wasn't a limit before, because it never came up. But a partner wanted to play that way, so I went along, as I don't have a conceptual problem when consent is 100% clear. Never doing that again.

No. But partly because my list of hard limits is so short. I moved impact to the balls from not-a-limit to, I don't know whether to call it a hard limit or a soft limit. Real ballbusting is a hard limit, but where exactly is that boundary? Hard to say. And I recently found a new hard limit for when I'm topping, but that's not relevant to the Fortress.

All of the mistresses know how to handle newbies. And like Mr. Mule, I'm still nervous at the start of every session, having gone to the Fortress for nine years. I know of no other place that has the kind of quality control the Fortress does. Or the safety-consciousness. The Fortress was my start as a sub (had done doming before) and it was an amazing introduction.

Congratulations! I didn't realize you were so new the first time I met you. I'm going to go ahead and guess the viciousness is innate.

I will give up one without "persuasion." I've more than once considered the request, "make me cry." And I don't mean just those involuntary tears from getting things shoved down my throat, I mean real crying.

Never. The Fortress is, above all else, professional. There is no need to be embarrassed. They have seen a lot. There are a couple of things I've been afraid to ask for, but that's very different.

Just a thought - "Unethical personal trainer" is a super-fun role play.

Water sports, though, hard call. Punching and kicking or implements?

Why do you need a karaoke mic when you already have the mic that connects to the tens unit?

The best part is that it's actually a good song.