Safe words are STOP , RED .Words that are not safe words , ouch , that fucking hurts . If a Dom goes past the words , STOP an RED , i would not want to see that Dom again . LOL about fish hooks , if some one takes you for a body piercing is that BDSM ? YES , it's the putting of the Dom mark on there sub . The other day i saw a brainding is that BDSM ? The Dom want her mark on her sub. BDSM comes in many forms , i have seen some , but always keep an open mind . coil