Just like Mistress Ang, it’s hard to say. I was way younger and didn’t know how to navigate the scene. I’ve always had a kinky/domme side and do feel it would’ve cultivated anywhere I would’ve ended up but NYC definitely did speed up the process lol
Alternating between the two is entertaining as my slave doesn’t know what to expect next ? I also like the idea of flipping a coin and will definitely be adding this to the mix!
There’s definitely underground activity, especially in the gay scene, but nothing like FF. I’m sure there are many aspects behind the lack of pro dungeons (religion and the ‘macho’ mindset men are brought up with safety, corruption, etc)
I've seen a few really great posts on here regarding fetish origin and evolution and it left me wondering about everyone's introduction to BDSM and how it led to their first time playing/how long before they began playing. My introduction was when I was 18 and moved to the Bay Area. I stumbled across the Folsom Street Fair in the first week of moving there and boy was I in for a surprise. I was with a group of "normies" so I wasn't able to delve in as much as I wanted to but I remember feeling a mix emotions, excitement being the one that really stood out. I began looking into BDSM and different clubs and the rest was history lol ⛓️??
It definitely depends on the session and mood I'm in! But pink has to be my favorite ? The neon "girls" sign is so cute and it goes best with my favorite outfits