@Mistress Aria SongFrom a young age I knew that there was something up with me but i didnt know what "it" was. I think the first time I came to realization that this is who I am was when someone I was friends with took me to a BDSM club when I was about 21 years old. I didn't know the slightest thing about BDSM...that is, until someone handcuffed me....I felt an odd sense of "security" not being restrained or confined...but safe...years later it was something that happened organically and confronted on my own terms but now its something I fully understand, accept and I'm still learning about.