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Dear Mistress Kang, Probably you are aware of these sites, but I am often surprised about the creative bondage and device positions. Device Bondage Hogtied Most pictures involve girls, but of course there is no reason why these positions cannot be applied to men. Robbie

By the way, some Suboptimal Safe Words 1. Cognitive dissonance can be problematic. For example, using “More, More, Harder, Harder,” “Green Light,” or “Yes! Yes! Yes!” as a Safe Word may prove sufficiently confusing to cause a transient but uncomfortable delay in the desired cessation of festivities. 2. Homographs are iffy. Your more exacting Doms won’t find “You say tomato, I say tomato” all that amusing. 3. Murphy’s Law: Any safe words that can be confused will be confused and its corollary: “Momentary confusion” takes on a entirely different meaning when the “momentary” part occurs during a flogging. 4. Multi-syllabic, sesquipedalian words, especially those of the sort most often found in medical or scientific literature or novelty books about word play are not ideal. Even if you can routinely recall such monstrosities as “floccinaucinihilipilification,” “hepaticocholangiocholecystenterostomies,” and “Pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis,” it’s showing off, and, believe me, nobody likes a smart ass sub. 5. Safe Words that aren’t words (e.g., “833646520034″) fall into the same category as #4. 6. While dramatic and emphatic, exclamations such as “Ouch,” “Damn, that hurts,” and “What the heck do you think you’re doing?” can be misunderstood. 7. The subjunctive mood (e.g., “It’s as though I can’t take any more” or “I wish it would quit hurting”) is typically inappropriate for ones Safe Word. 8. AAAA. (“Assiduously Avoid Acronyms, Asshole”). “NGSCB” may mean “Next-Generation Secure Computing Base,” to you, but does your Dom know that? 9. Think twice before choosing tricky proper names (for example, names of towns such as Unalakleet, Amsterdam or Prem Nagar, India and especially those vowel-deficient designations of Welsh villages such as Cwmtwrch). A good rule of thumbscrews is that if you can’t grunt the Safe Word intelligibly with a gag in your mouth, then it’s not really safe, is it? 10. Using something on the line of “Is that the best you can do, Mistress?” and “You’re such a wuss, Master” is just asking for trouble. 11. Some words and terms just don’t fit the context. For example, • “Hamiltonian-Federalist Jeffersonian-Republican Alignment” • “Willing suspension of disbelief” • “Bernoulli’s Principle” • Anything in the form of a rhyming couplet • Almost all scripture from the New Testament (yes, even the modern translations) 12. “Fuck You, Mistress” is a Safe Word probably best left to the very experienced, hard core players.

I assume you have applied CPR a couple of times already

Wow Mistress Chen, you are certainly not restraining yourself. A second Mistress Tran, I assume. A very fast learner to the extreme. Welcome at FF, Robbie

Dear Mistress Zhao, Do you mean this?? You are really a duct tape lady, I know. But around the entire head? Isn't it contradicting with your statement "dirty panties make good gags". Or when you said that "you are the last person I will see before I die". Or your proposed research on the correlation between the twinkling in your eyes and the voltage on my body. Will not be able to see that with duct tape over my eyes. And you don't need a soundproof cell in your basement for that. At the other side, if there is someone who is creative, it is you. Robbie

Yes, Mrs Ree, it doesn't seem to be ripped off with this person. Probably not as bad as the Chinese torture I mentioned before http://www.killsometime.com/flash/725/Chinese-Torture

Mistress Zhao, You have such a great talent in finding interesting pictures or topics. Yes, now I might fear clowns as well. For you it must be a pity that the Fortress doesn't have any equipment at the ceiling to exercise this , Robbie

Do you ever use safe words like "contunue" or "don't stop" ?

Well, in one of the dreams I had about you I saw you in the kitchen with all that special equipment circling around you, as an armament, drained of blood. I do have such strange dreams lately. Weird. But I am happy I found the way to your heart. Have nice dreams too. Robbie

I seem to be an open book for you already. And you still believe further research is necessary? That is frightening

...taste for more when still on the mistress' bum

Dear Mrs mZ, Why is everyone so freaked out by clowns? I read so much about that in the FF forums. My only fear w.r.t. clowns is that when I see FF Mistresses in a clown suit and their flat noses hidden by a red clown nose I will laugh to death. Of course, I have my fears as everyone, but somehow it disappears when I am in the Fortress. Why should I otherwise be so crazy to let someone staple her name in my chest or do some extreme piercing. And the totally disappearing sounds was a bit frightening, and I even had not the thickest ones. Playing without a stop word, e.g. in combination with sensory deprivation (without e.g. seeing and speaking) and completely immobile, is fearing, giving complete control to the mistress with whatever she has in mind. My story is the topic “sensory deprivation” is rather scary, but at the same time attracts me. And probably I have fears I am not yet aware off, might have outside the Fortress ,but certainly disappear inside. Robbie

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ESTEEMED MISTRESS TRAN, reading this made the hairs lay down on the back of my neck! YOU are one sweet exciting little domina, very beautiful and so, sooooo considerate.

And what about an electric cheese grater, a clamp-style #8 meat grinder, a stainless steel pasta cutter, a full-automatic egg slicer, a hydraulic sausage stuffer, a Japanese 90 mm Kai Shun Kaji cleaver of damast steel, or you might prefer a Samurai 8-in Wakizashi Chinese kitchen knife. And not to forget a dragonfly corkscrew with anti-clockwise thread in case we become thirsty?

Hi akiravn1, you'r right, mZ is already a challenge when she is pleased, what she will do when she is really stressed is something that is playing in my mind. Haven't experienced yet, and don't know whether I will be able to share it when it happens.

Mistress Zhao, We have sessioned many times now so I wonder how you have anatomized me in a psychological (you already did it in a corporal way) and astrological way. I have always philosophized over (western and Chinese) astrology and Asian spiritualism (not religion as I don’t believe a religion has to tell you what is good and bad, you should know from your inside). With respect to the sun signs it has always been striking to me how it fits for me. I am a Virgo. Virgos are said to be shy, but when they make friends they are very open, devoted and loyal. More important is their independence, not relying on help of others. Maybe because they are perfectionists and want to keep everything in their own hands. It is striking how the Chinese and western horoscopes have similarities. I am a snake and one of the characteristics is that snakes will plot and scheme to make certain things turn out exactly as they want them to (like the Virgo ‘perfect is almost good enough’ motto). Moreover I am a watersnake who is affectionate with his friends but do not show this site of personality to others. My astrological explanation for my bdsm feelings is, that to compensate my feeling for having everything in control in my daily life, I need to balance that by giving myself sometimes completely in the hands of someone I fully trust, and often in an extreme (painful) way to compensate for my hang to extreme perfectionism. At the other side, maybe it is just in my genes. Robbie