seung_bitch_wannabe

How should a newbie sub approach an experienced dom? I've had a horrible time with this whole experience. I've been rejected by an experienced (and respected) dom, and I've also rejected a potential dom because it became evident that she had no idea what she was doing. I can give a lot of details but suffice it to say that at this point I am completely gunshy and I don't know what to do. I need advice.