Dear Ms. Minnie,
Firstly, let me say that you are exceptionally beautiful and sensual. I find your pictures and your posts to be so wonderfully erotic. I've sessioned at the Fortress and would love to play with you someday.
I cannot agree with you more, about the power of "the gaze." So much of the excitement in dominance and submission is in the anticipation, the longing and the desire.
In those seconds before flesh meets flesh, and thoughts race through my head ,and the sound of my own breathing resonates in my ears, absolutely anything can happen. The limitless possibility of pain inextricably dancing with pleasure, the endless torments and delights that can be spun between dominant and sub (and as a fellow switch, I know how these are both sides of the same coin) hang heavy in the air. And then, when the Mistress enters, to find me exposed, vulnerable, a mere object to be used...it is such an powerful moment. I long, in my fantasy life, to be a sex object...to be treasured as a beautiful toy that must be used and abused...the most intimate parts of my body exposed, open for her eyes to examine.
And, when our eyes finally meet in the Gaze...volumes are wordlessly exchanged...dominance and submission, power and vulnerability, love and hate...timeless dichotomies pass in seconds. And, if there is true chemisty between the pair..that glimmer in the eye...the sense that both players are exactly where they should be, and some satisfaction is to be gained for the hunger and desire that led them to that place.
Sorry, for going on so much, but I'm a psychologist and delight in thinking of such things!
-pss
