In my relationships with women, I can say that I have always been rather dominant. Well in the bedroom to specify, however relinquishing some control was always fun. Letting her take control to see how she does things, which can be very sexy. Visiting the fortress and having no control whatsoever is new to me. I'd be lying if I said it wasn't fun to be guided along but I do have the urge to take charge from time to time. Though out of respect for the mistresses and not wanting to ruin the mood I oblige by their command. I can see it being submissive to want to be sat on or farted upon, having my face used as a seat for both our pleasure. However in my everyday life even with my face being sat on I still have control of the situation. So my question to my fellow fortress patrons is, what about submission has you hooked? When did you discover that you wanted to be under the complete influence of another? As for the lovely ladies, when did you realized that you loved to make men submit? To assert your power over them?
Not sure I'll ever feel as if I'm truly submissive lol, but how could I not enjoy following their lead when they are so damn good at it?