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Are any of you familiar with Carl Jung's theory of the shadow? To summarize, the shadow is the collection of negative attributes of a person, hiding in the unconscious. Everyone has one. It's everything we don't want to face about ourselves. The phenomenon when we dislike someone else, later, through retrospection, realizing that the reason we don't like them is because they remind us so much of the things we hate about ourselves can be attributed to the shadow He says that the more someone recognizes what is carried in the shadow, the more the person is willing to consciously incorporate those elements, the less dense the shadow will be Speaking in terms of energies, it would go without saying that the denser the shadow, the more negative a frequency a person will carry and the more negative things will be drawn to that person. My question is, since as a societal standard BDSM is considered "dark" and within the realm of the collective shadow, how many of you consider it to be a part of your own shadows and how many of you do not? What has embracing the shadow element done for you in your life, do you feel more cohesive as a person, more sane? What else would you say is in your shadow aspect, if you're willing to share? Thanks for your candid replies, as always x mFei

I saw Gone Girl last Friday and it's STILL haunting me. This film was so well done. Dark. Satisfying. Obviously functions for a mainstream audience yet with art house appeal.. Made me wonder about a lot of things re: film/culture/media/psychology/values/mores and draw connections between this and other seemingly unrelated pieces of media like The Bachelor/Bachelorette I always saw that as a sociological lesson and a way in which the media manipulates our craving of values (i.e. family unit, love, purity) much like how a mainstream film does (story telling formula being, give them a value, take it away, the restore it at the end which is why you see so many story arcs w/ a family unit being destroyed then saved at the end- someone's love life being interrupted and finally, reuniting with the loved one) In this case, we the audience, along w/ the main character and the community in the film are being manipulated the whole way through. Anyone have any thoughts to share re: the movie itself, values, media consumption in society, or maybe just manipulation, as it applies to this film and in BDSM?

We know that Mistress Fei has a new kitten, but no picture. Mistress Zhao has a cat or two, How are they doing? Do any other mistresses have pussys they'd like to share with us? This is my kitten, Smoky he's going to get neutered next week!

I recently spent another amazing two hours with Mistress Zhao! One hour could never be enough, and each experience seems merely to reenchant me, drawing me closer . As so many have more eloquently said before on this forum, Mistress Zhao brings a rare and special combination of physical beauty, creative intelligence, devious intuition, BDSM skill, a biting whit, and a healthy measure of empathy to every session! And let's not forget *loving sadism*. In our latest session, we shared a perverse, sadistic picnic with Mistress Fei joining for the first hour. Mistress Zhao was breath-taking in a short, lily white dress with her hair, girlishly tied back. Mistress Fei was whimsical and stunning in her printed sun dress. Both mistresses quickly had me stripped out of my picnic clothes and in a most humiliating position, ready to take my feeding. I had bought some snacks, and mistress Zhao revealed some of her more maternal impulses, feeding me a most healthy portion, lubricating with plenty of spit. She then began to cane me, expertly, laying one stinging, hot stripe after another in ecstatic rhythm. My wrists were duct-taped to my ankles. I had no choice but to surrender to the pain! She then turned the cane over to Mistress Fei who stung me with a few training strokes. What more could a school boy want? At some point, the door of the pink room opened, and Mistress Tran entered, sporting the sharpest spiked boots I had ever seen. I quickly began kissing them. After more verbal humiliation, she added a few severe strokes of her own before departing. It was a surprise treat! Mistress Zhao than produced her signature single-tail, methodically wrapping me three times. The lashes were intense, burning with a fierceness equil to my resolve to take them. She instructed Mistress Fei to do the same. But this was just the picnic's appetizer. After the mistresses had departed, Mistress Zhao quickly maneuvered me to wear she wanted me;) As usually, she had read my thoughts and knew exactly what I had fantasized about. Surely, I was the fly to her spider, the willing victim to her killer, as she opened new fetish door ways into my consciousness. I later joked that whatever she suggests seems to become a new fetish. The tickle torture and CBT were new territory for me, and the experience was unforgettable! Mistress Zhao left me exhausted and completely blissed out. I left, once again, astonished by all she had incorporated into our scene and hungering for more. And of course, the savory icing on the cake was our post session chatting and the chance to wind down after another phenomenal BDSM experience! 　 　

After thinking about it for years, I had my first session at the Fortress today with the gorgeous Mistress Fei. First of all, as stunning as her pictures are they do her NO justice. She is quite simply one of the most beautiful women I've ever seen in real life. And if her beauty doesn't knock you out (it will) then her killer personality will. She puts you immediately at ease with her charm and obvious smarts. She's soft everywhere and has the kind of beauty that you immediately feel unworthy of. She is skilled, and intuitive and knows how to push all your limits. In short, it could not have been a better experience and I cannot wait for the chance to worship her again soon!

Pretty pink clamps that squeeze so tight Rope wrapped around and tied just right Paddles and canes all hung on the wall A sweet voice on the phone when you make the call Alone and naked you wait in the room Knowing your mistress will be joining you soon So who will it be? Mistress Zhao ? Mistress Jung? Maybe Mistress Haru and Mistress Koi will join in the fun. Mistress Sunya? For now, only in your dreams. Mistress Tran? Mistress Kang? There are sure to be screams! Maybe the new domme, Mistress Fei? Well whoever it is, Happy Valentine's Day! manpeach