Mistress Rey Posted September 5, 2015 Report Share Posted September 5, 2015 I recently had a session I found particularly erotic. I was a mystery domme. The submissive wore a mask, he didn't know which mistress he was with. The whole session was conducted in silence to conceal my identity. Then it occurred to me at that moment, that it was a powerful form of sensory deprivation. Every gesture and sensation became heightened and focused on with an intensity that isn't present when constantly engaged in conversation. It gave the session a trance like, meditative atmosphere. I thought it was interesting as I noticed some submissives tend to be nervous so they frantically attempt to avoid awkward moments with constant chatter and humor- which I love, but and it can pull their focus away from truly experiencing a session. Interacting with our eyes and body language can quiet the anxiety and bring them into the present. Have any of you experienced a silent session? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThankUMaam Posted September 5, 2015 Report Share Posted September 5, 2015 That does sound hot. I especially like the idea of not knowing who the Domme will be. The idea of silence would definitely be meditative allowing the sub to focus his attention on sensations. At some point though, the Mistress would have to speak to issue instructions, and it would be nice if at sometime the sub would see who the Mistress or Mistress' are. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joey Posted September 5, 2015 Report Share Posted September 5, 2015 I had a session in which the mistress spoke in VIETNANESE. (not at the fortress). orders and verbal humiliation were incomprehensible to me. I spent most of the session frozen in fear. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jung's Jewboy Posted September 8, 2015 Report Share Posted September 8, 2015 I recently had a session I found particularly erotic. I was a mystery domme. The submissive wore a mask, he didn't know which mistress he was with. The whole session was conducted in silence to conceal my identity. Then it occurred to me at that moment, that it was a powerful form of sensory deprivation. Every gesture and sensation became heightened and focused on with an intensity that isn't present when constantly engaged in conversation. It gave the session a trance like, meditative atmosphere. I thought it was interesting as I noticed some submissives tend to be nervous so they frantically attempt to avoid awkward moments with constant chatter and humor- which I love, but and it can pull their focus away from truly experiencing a session. Interacting with our eyes and body language can quiet the anxiety and bring them into the present. Have any of you experienced a silent session? Interesting insights, Maam. I very much valued and enjoyed my 'pre' and 'post' session conversations but I can understand how silence might intensify a session. Casual conversation suggests you and the domme are on equal levels, which can detract from the true nature of the relationship. I dare say most of us feel 'less than' the Fortress mistresses even when not in session. Silence will certainly support this sensibility. I know I will return to the Fortress before years end and I think a silent session might be JUST the thing to reboot my relationship with those hallowed halls of hurting and humbling. That first session will be about my de-jungification and as my sessions with Ms. Jung emphasized the verbal it seems right that a silent re-orientation take place. A humbling speechless hazing of sorts welcoming me back into this amazing sorority of sadism. I think an interesting alternative is the mistress speaking to you in a language you don't understand but peppering it with a few words that are understandable but don't tell all. Sort of like 'blah blah blah TENS blah blah blah SOUNDS blah blah TOILET' What a mind-f**k! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Rey Posted September 19, 2015 Author Report Share Posted September 19, 2015 How did that session go? Was their any awkwardness because you couldnt understand her commands? I would imagine so, as communication is really important during a session and boundaries could be crossed unless parameters were clarified before the start of the session. I had a session in which the mistress spoke in VIETNANESE. (not at the fortress). orders and verbal humiliation were incomprehensible to me. I spent most of the session frozen in fear. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Rey Posted September 19, 2015 Author Report Share Posted September 19, 2015 Interesting perspective on how (silent) communication establishes power... Interesting insights, Maam. I very much valued and enjoyed my 'pre' and 'post' session conversations but I can understand how silence might intensify a session. Casual conversation suggests you and the domme are on equal levels, which can detract from the true nature of the relationship. I dare say most of us feel 'less than' the Fortress mistresses even when not in session. Silence will certainly support this sensibility. I know I will return to the Fortress before years end and I think a silent session might be JUST the thing to reboot my relationship with those hallowed halls of hurting and humbling. That first session will be about my de-jungification and as my sessions with Ms. Jung emphasized the verbal it seems right that a silent re-orientation take place. A humbling speechless hazing of sorts welcoming me back into this amazing sorority of sadism. I think an interesting alternative is the mistress speaking to you in a language you don't understand but peppering it with a few words that are understandable but don't tell all. Sort of like 'blah blah blah TENS blah blah blah SOUNDS blah blah TOILET' What a mind-f**k! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dannyboy Posted September 20, 2015 Report Share Posted September 20, 2015 Couldn't ever imagine a silent session. Have done a Japanese session. Dannyboy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jerryny1 Posted September 30, 2015 Report Share Posted September 30, 2015 I've had the silent mystery mistress style twice at the Fortress and it was great. You are so focused on everything that happens. I have also had roleplay sessions where the Mistress did not speak but was visible and it created a very strict foreboding atmosphere. And I also had one of the Mistresses only speak in her native language - a roleplay where I was drunk and captured in China and this is where I ended up. All of these were at Fortress. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Rey Posted October 3, 2015 Author Report Share Posted October 3, 2015 I've had the silent mystery mistress style twice at the Fortress and it was great. You are so focused on everything that happens. I have also had roleplay sessions where the Mistress did not speak but was visible and it created a very strict foreboding atmosphere. And I also had one of the Mistresses only speak in her native language - a roleplay where I was drunk and captured in China and this is where I ended up. All of these were at Fortress. Thanks for sharing.... that drunk and captured in an foreign country roleplay must have been fun. Has that been a long time fantasy of yours? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JustAGuy Posted October 5, 2015 Report Share Posted October 5, 2015 I recently had a session I found particularly erotic. I was a mystery domme. The submissive wore a mask, he didn't know which mistress he was with. The whole session was conducted in silence to conceal my identity. Then it occurred to me at that moment, that it was a powerful form of sensory deprivation. Every gesture and sensation became heightened and focused on with an intensity that isn't present when constantly engaged in conversation. It gave the session a trance like, meditative atmosphere. I thought it was interesting as I noticed some submissives tend to be nervous so they frantically attempt to avoid awkward moments with constant chatter and humor- which I love, but and it can pull their focus away from truly experiencing a session. Interacting with our eyes and body language can quiet the anxiety and bring them into the present. Have any of you experienced a silent session? The "humor and chatter" thing sums me up quite well...I'd swear you were talking about me but we've never sessioned! I don't think I'd like a silent session much...it would be hard for me to tell if I was pleasing my mistress...but then, I do have a thing for a stony-faced beauty. That cool witch who doesn't seem impressed no matter what you do. Maybe silence can be a part of that sort of session... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Rey Posted October 12, 2015 Author Report Share Posted October 12, 2015 The "humor and chatter" thing sums me up quite well...I'd swear you were talking about me but we've never sessioned! I don't think I'd like a silent session much...it would be hard for me to tell if I was pleasing my mistress...but then, I do have a thing for a stony-faced beauty. That cool witch who doesn't seem impressed no matter what you do. Maybe silence can be a part of that sort of session... You can tell by her facial expressions and body language, no? It requires more focus, which why it is intense. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Alexa Song Posted October 15, 2015 Report Share Posted October 15, 2015 This is such an intriguing idea. I would like to try a mystery session, but I think having one where you can see the Mistress but in silence, would be even more intense? You can communicate so much through eye contact, plus seeing the fear and arousal in their eyes would be pretty thrilling. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Rey Posted October 26, 2015 Author Report Share Posted October 26, 2015 How about a kidnapping session in silence, blindfolded, multiple mistresses? That would surely strike fear in anyone's mind... hearing all those women around them... not knowing what would happen next. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
questionmarks Posted October 26, 2015 Report Share Posted October 26, 2015 How about a kidnapping session in silence, blindfolded, multiple mistresses? That would surely strike fear in anyone's mind... hearing all those women around them... not knowing what would happen next. I find blindfolding and multiple Mistress both very intimidating, but this sounds incredibly exciting, as if it would funnel the intimidation and anxiety and turn it into a potent and thrilling tension. The silence would be so powerful, way more intense than overhearing one's captors teasingly discussing their planned torments. And it would take such coordination, chemistry and restraint on the part of the Mistresses, I imagine it would make the sub feel all the more fully that he is under their combined power. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theDumbMule Posted October 26, 2015 Report Share Posted October 26, 2015 How about a kidnapping session in silence, blindfolded, multiple mistresses? That would surely strike fear in anyone's mind... hearing all those women around them... not knowing what would happen next. Mistress Rey its as if you can read my mind...I'm not sure what is a more terrifying prospect, the silent session or you inside my head . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jung's Jewboy Posted October 27, 2015 Report Share Posted October 27, 2015 I remember a session years ago with a newly minted Domme who was in and out of the pro-domme world in a month. She blindfolded me then left the room and came back with everyone. It sounded like 7 women but I'm sure it was less. It wasn't silent by any means but the barrage of comments and prodding and mocking was overwhelming. Lots of mocking of my diminutive endowment and suggestions that I need to experience forced-bi. After they left and my blindfold was removed there was a latecomer at the door. It was the mature woman who was managing the place coming in. She said she had heard there was something that needed to be seen to be believed . She leaned in and then from behind her back brought out one of those old fashioned magnifying classes and looked at my 'shrinkage'. She patted me on the head and condescendingly said 'oh dear. They weren't exaggerating were they. You poor man!' Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Rey Posted November 5, 2015 Author Report Share Posted November 5, 2015 I remember a session years ago with a newly minted Domme who was in and out of the pro-domme world in a month. She blindfolded me then left the room and came back with everyone. It sounded like 7 women but I'm sure it was less. It wasn't silent by any means but the barrage of comments and prodding and mocking was overwhelming. Lots of mocking of my diminutive endowment and suggestions that I need to experience forced-bi. After they left and my blindfold was removed there was a latecomer at the door. It was the mature woman who was managing the place coming in. She said she had heard there was something that needed to be seen to be believed . She leaned in and then from behind her back brought out one of those old fashioned magnifying classes and looked at my 'shrinkage'. She patted me on the head and condescendingly said 'oh dear. They weren't exaggerating were they. You poor man!' Wow, what a mind fuck that session was! Did they help you experience what they suggested? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jung's Jewboy Posted November 5, 2015 Report Share Posted November 5, 2015 No. Not the sort of thing I would experience with a mistress I just met. Likely Ms Jung could have brought me there. Hell, she could have brought me to a bukkake. LOL. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Rey Posted November 9, 2015 Author Report Share Posted November 9, 2015 Did she have a secret code word to get you to break into a sissy slut? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funtomi Posted November 10, 2015 Report Share Posted November 10, 2015 Yes, I thought about this too, but at some point it is nice to know who the Mistress is. Also, if you'd speak French and i'd speak Hungarian, that would create a lot of mystery, too! (Unless you speak Hungarian) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Rey Posted January 21, 2016 Author Report Share Posted January 21, 2016 For those who like to watch the torment happening to them but maintain that shroud of mystery.... would be interesting if multiple mistresses were wearing masks so the submissive is not sure who is who. A perfect kidnapping role play situation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brendami Posted January 27, 2016 Report Share Posted January 27, 2016 wouldnt make a blind bit of difference to power or torque. If it has shorter ratios, then it will feel like its accelerating through the gears quicker. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Rey Posted January 28, 2016 Author Report Share Posted January 28, 2016 wouldnt make a blind bit of difference to power or torque. If it has shorter ratios, then it will feel like its accelerating through the gears quicker. What are you referring to? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arby Posted January 29, 2016 Report Share Posted January 29, 2016 Mistress Rey, As I read through this, wondered if a vac bed - or something like that - with torture would be similar to what you described? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Rey Posted February 1, 2016 Author Report Share Posted February 1, 2016 A vac bed? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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