Fetish discovery

[Mistress Zenobia Brinks]

I checked out this article on vice about how people discover their fetishes, which brings me to the place of asking you guys how you discovered yours.
Check out the article.
https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/we-asked-people-how-they-discovered-their-sexual-fetishes-511

[Jeriko13]

My exposure to my fetishes did happen at a relatively young age, because overall story is probably relatively mundane. I remember finding my father's porn (magazines and VHS tapes he would rent) as my first experience with pornography. I was attracted to the scenes, photos, and stories of BDSM, spanking, and other kinks much more than just the typical photos of naked women. One picture of a male submissive tied to a wheel with one white domme and one black domme, both wearing black leather, in the frame is still particularly vivid for me. Other stories of explorations early on are probably better left for the Devotee forum, but I can say I experimented with my current proclivities very early on.

[Dannyboy]

Dear Ms. Brinks:

 

In general, S & M came to me in books and magazines long before I ever tried. As to more specific fetishes, compulsions and fantasies I may discuss them in detail with a Mistress.

 

Dannyboy

[captyveny]

I checked out this article on vice about how people discover their fetishes, which brings me to the place of asking you guys how you discovered yours.

Check out the article.

https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/we-asked-people-how-they-discovered-their-sexual-fetishes-511

I was having a very torrid affair with a woman that I had met on an airplane on her way to New Orleans. She introduced me to "the dark side" as she called it, with her teeth and fingers.  After a couple of years, I decided to "one-up" her and went to a commercial dungeon in New Orleans, run by a husband and wife team. The session lasted over two hours and involved both a female dominatrix and the male dominant owner, in a detailed pre-arranged prisoner-interrogation scene, involving bastinado, heavy electrical, and strap-on rape. When I smugly told my girlfriend what I had done, she was shocked, stunned, and then demanded a detailed recitation of every minute of the session. The sex following this was the best.

[Mistress Sophia Katz]

I was having a very torrid affair with a woman that I had met on an airplane on her way to New Orleans. She introduced me to "the dark side" as she called it, with her teeth and fingers.  After a couple of years, I decided to "one-up" her and went to a commercial dungeon in New Orleans, run by a husband and wife team. The session lasted over two hours and involved both a female dominatrix and the male dominant owner, in a detailed pre-arranged prisoner-interrogation scene, involving bastinado, heavy electrical, and strap-on rape. When I smugly told my girlfriend what I had done, she was shocked, stunned, and then demanded a detailed recitation of every minute of the session. The sex following this was the best.

SOunds like you had a very supportive girlfriend>  Did you two try your own interrogation scene?

[captyveny]

SOunds like you had a very supportive girlfriend>  Did you two try your own interrogation scene?

Mistress Katz,

 

You are a very careful reader of these forum comments, as I had made my preference for prisoner interrogation known in another thread. Propriety limits how descriptive I can be about sessions with my girlfriend. Suffice it to say, we used my thick leather belt to tie wrists to wooden headboards and then slick lubricated fingers inserted and twisted painfully, sharp teeth nibbling away,  while other organs were being pleasured. More "Warden having their way with the prisoner". I look forward to a session with you. Brainy women are incredibly erotic. 

[Mistress Zenobia Brinks]

I was having a very torrid affair with a woman that I had met on an airplane on her way to New Orleans. She introduced me to "the dark side" as she called it, with her teeth and fingers. After a couple of years, I decided to "one-up" her and went to a commercial dungeon in New Orleans, run by a husband and wife team. The session lasted over two hours and involved both a female dominatrix and the male dominant owner, in a detailed pre-arranged prisoner-interrogation scene, involving bastinado, heavy electrical, and strap-on rape. When I smugly told my girlfriend what I had done, she was shocked, stunned, and then demanded a detailed recitation of every minute of the session. The sex following this was the best.

That's great, many women would have been scared away by that story I'm glad she was supportive and it seemed to have spiced up your sex life.

[Mistress Zenobia Brinks]

My exposure to my fetishes did happen at a relatively young age, because overall story is probably relatively mundane. I remember finding my father's porn (magazines and VHS tapes he would rent) as my first experience with pornography. I was attracted to the scenes, photos, and stories of BDSM, spanking, and other kinks much more than just the typical photos of naked women. One picture of a male submissive tied to a wheel with one white domme and one black domme, both wearing black leather, in the frame is still particularly vivid for me. Other stories of explorations early on are probably better left for the Devotee forum, but I can say I experimented with my current proclivities very early on.

I've actually been told by many that their fetish discovery was through watching porn, people look to it for creativity.

[Mistress Lucy Zelda]

It's very odd but I think I figured out I was kinky after watching anime. First off, I always idolized the villains, who often tied down and tortured the main characters. There's also the subtle to overt sexuality and perversion in the themes.

[Mistress Lucy Zelda]

Dear Ms. Brinks:

 

In general, S & M came to me in books and magazines long before I ever tried. As to more specific fetishes, compulsions and fantasies I may discuss them in detail with a Mistress.

 

Dannyboy

I'd love to hear more too

[Dannyboy]

I'd love to hear more too

Dear Ms. Zelda:

 

Perhaps it will be my good fortune to satisfy your curiosity.

 

Dannyboy

[Mistress Zenobia Brinks]

It's very odd but I think I figured out I was kinky after watching anime. First off, I always idolized the villains, who often tied down and tortured the main characters. There's also the subtle to overt sexuality and perversion in the themes.

That's very funny because as an adult watching cartoons (mainstream ones) I've realized that many of them have sexual undertones

[Mistress Vivienne Fang]

I honestly have the same experience as Mistress Zelda. For some reason, when I was younger, my favorite episodes were the episodes where the protagonist was held captive or someone was being tortured, and this started when I was very young, and I didn't come to understand the reasons until I got older. Suffice to say, I had, and still have, a little bit of a deviant mind

[mrstone87]

I checked out this article on vice about how people discover their fetishes, which brings me to the place of asking you guys how you discovered yours.

Check out the article.

https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/we-asked-people-how-they-discovered-their-sexual-fetishes-511

I think I discovered mine through cartoons and the old  Wonder Woman TV series. I always found Linda Carter (the original wonder woman) to be incredibly hot. Of course she had her golden lariat which she used to force men to tell the truth. On top of that, she was often getting bound and gagged by the bad guys (I love how she looked with a cleave-gag in her mouth). Then there was the old Scooby Doo cartoon. Daphne (the redhead) would often get grabbed  by the mysterious villain only to be discovered tied and gagged in some closet. Even though I knew early on I found these images appealing, it wasn't until recently that I could come right out and admit it. 

 

Sessioning at the Fortress has helped me a great deal to realize there's nothing wrong with my fetishes. During my first session, I found myself almost apologizing for having such a great time to which Mistress Kang responded something along the lines of - "there's nothing to feel guilty about, ..you know what you like." This really put my mind at ease. 

 

Anyway, hope anyone who reads this can relate and appreciate their own uniqueness. 

[Lucky212]

I checked out this article on vice about how people discover their fetishes, which brings me to the place of asking you guys how you discovered yours.

Check out the article.https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/we-asked-people-how-they-discovered-their-sexual-fetishes-511

My first memory was when I was a child and had my cousin walk on me loved the feeling I got. Remember the first time even telling her to put her shoes one to do it. She pretended she was ice skating on me. After the first time I always wanted her to do again. I was always timid to bring it up but she would offer it from time to time and we would go at it. We were both the same age and if I remember we were probably around 8 so there was no thought that this was sexual in any way. I just wanted for her to walk on me whenever I saw her, and she seemed to like walking on me, trying to see if she could hurt me. This stopped for while until in our teens when had become good friends and she asked me one day if I remembered when I used to let her walk on me, even on my face. I was blushing trying to act normal. I told her I used to love it and she said she did too. I spilled to beans to her that having women walk on me I find sexually arousing. Because she was my cousin it did not feel right to have her do this to me. She did help me out with it as she was a cheerleader and had some hot friends. She would invite me over when some of them were at her house. She went to a private school so I didn't know any of these girls. She would try to get them to step on me from time to time. One time in particular she made up a story to make me need a beating and 3 of her friend trampled stomped and kicked me with Keds. I think that is why I fantasize about being trampled in dirty Keds still.

 

This was all pre internet so it was confusing at time as why I'm obsessed with these things. I knew it wasn't normal but couldn't stop thinking about it. I was lucky that I got to have experiences early but still confused why I liked this. My cousin still makes little jokes to me when she see me but to my knowledge never told other people.

[Dannyboy]

I honestly have the same experience as Mistress Zelda. For some reason, when I was younger, my favorite episodes were the episodes where the protagonist was held captive or someone was being tortured, and this started when I was very young, and I didn't come to understand the reasons until I got older. Suffice to say, I had, and still have, a little bit of a deviant mind

Dear Ms. Fang:

 

I guess you're in the right place.

 

Dannyboy

[Mistress Sophia Katz]

Mistress Katz,

 

You are a very careful reader of these forum comments, as I had made my preference for prisoner interrogation known in another thread. Propriety limits how descriptive I can be about sessions with my girlfriend. Suffice it to say, we used my thick leather belt to tie wrists to wooden headboards and then slick lubricated fingers inserted and twisted painfully, sharp teeth nibbling away,  while other organs were being pleasured. More "Warden having their way with the prisoner". I look forward to a session with you. Brainy women are incredibly erotic. 

Well, thank you.  I appreciate subs who see the value in intelligence . . . and I do like interrogation scenes. 

[Mistress Sophia Katz]

My first memory was when I was a child and had my cousin walk on me loved the feeling I got. Remember the first time even telling her to put her shoes one to do it. She pretended she was ice skating on me. After the first time I always wanted her to do again. I was always timid to bring it up but she would offer it from time to time and we would go at it. We were both the same age and if I remember we were probably around 8 so there was no thought that this was sexual in any way. I just wanted for her to walk on me whenever I saw her, and she seemed to like walking on me, trying to see if she could hurt me. This stopped for while until in our teens when had become good friends and she asked me one day if I remembered when I used to let her walk on me, even on my face. I was blushing trying to act normal. I told her I used to love it and she said she did too. I spilled to beans to her that having women walk on me I find sexually arousing. Because she was my cousin it did not feel right to have her do this to me. She did help me out with it as she was a cheerleader and had some hot friends. She would invite me over when some of them were at her house. She went to a private school so I didn't know any of these girls. She would try to get them to step on me from time to time. One time in particular she made up a story to make me need a beating and 3 of her friend trampled stomped and kicked me with Keds. I think that is why I fantasize about being trampled in dirty Keds still.

 

This was all pre internet so it was confusing at time as why I'm obsessed with these things. I knew it wasn't normal but couldn't stop thinking about it. I was lucky that I got to have experiences early but still confused why I liked this. My cousin still makes little jokes to me when she see me but to my knowledge never told other people.

Your experience with your cousin and her friends sounds almost like a letter to Penthouse.  It is great she could find friends to trample you in her place.  But then again, it probably wasn't *too* hard.  Who doesn't want to walk all over a (future) sub?

[Lucky212]

Your experience with your cousin and her friends sounds almost like a letter to Penthouse.  It is great she could find friends to trample you in her place.  But then again, it probably wasn't *too* hard.  Who doesn't want to walk all over a (future) sub?

Sometimes it wasn't that easy, sometimes it was. It wasn't the only reason I wanted to hang out with them. Sometimes if it was someone who had done it before she would bring it up. I would try the " you can't hurt me because you are small" tough guy routine and then I would really get it. My cousin would initiate it at times in different ways. Other times it never came up and I didn't push it. It was fun while it lasted but after high school I didn't see any of them again and I didn't have more experiences until it was legal to see a pro dom

[AromaLover21]

It is always such a delightful subject to discuss how someone discovered their fetishes. To pinpoint the exact moment that mine had developed, it would be in my early childhood years. As a young boy between the ages of 4-6. While I didn't know that I had developed a fetish I certainly knew that what I liked was much different then others. My fart fetish was due to a babysitter that I had. My parents would drop me off to our neighbors apartment and she would watch me until my siblings came home from school or my father returned from his first job. She was a yellow bone. Beautiful complexion with hazel eyes and such a voluptuous figure. Most men in the neighborhood dreamed of spending a night with her. Nonetheless she is the sole reason for my fetish today.

 

As a child I was quite the curious boy, or as others would say perverse. I often acted off first thought so when a woman crossed my path that caught my eye I went for it. My babysitter was a crush of mine so anytine she babysat me I tried something on her. Whether I tried to sneak a peek up her shirt or catch her changing, I wanted to know what she looked like naked. I never got the chance but I did however think of one last daring act. I was going to shove my face into her butt since it was so big.

 

I never expected her to do what she did when I went through with it. We were on her bed after eating lunch watching cartoons as I slowly made my way behind her. As she laid on her stomach I crept up and plunged my face right into her buttocks. She tried to shake me off but I wrapped my arms around her thighs and held on saying she that she couldnt shake off a monkey. She laughed and then warned that I shouldnt be there or a surprise was heading my way. I ignored her warning and kept my face in her butt. She laugged again and said that she warned me and proceeded to cut a very loud and very big fart right in my face.

 

I was initially disgusted and removed myself from her ass but as time passed I started thinking about it more and wanted to expereince that again. To see if I would actually enjoy the smell of farts.

[Mistress Zenobia Brinks]

My first memory was when I was a child and had my cousin walk on me loved the feeling I got. Remember the first time even telling her to put her shoes one to do it. She pretended she was ice skating on me. After the first time I always wanted her to do again. I was always timid to bring it up but she would offer it from time to time and we would go at it. We were both the same age and if I remember we were probably around 8 so there was no thought that this was sexual in any way. I just wanted for her to walk on me whenever I saw her, and she seemed to like walking on me, trying to see if she could hurt me. This stopped for while until in our teens when had become good friends and she asked me one day if I remembered when I used to let her walk on me, even on my face. I was blushing trying to act normal. I told her I used to love it and she said she did too. I spilled to beans to her that having women walk on me I find sexually arousing. Because she was my cousin it did not feel right to have her do this to me. She did help me out with it as she was a cheerleader and had some hot friends. She would invite me over when some of them were at her house. She went to a private school so I didn't know any of these girls. She would try to get them to step on me from time to time. One time in particular she made up a story to make me need a beating and 3 of her friend trampled stomped and kicked me with Keds. I think that is why I fantasize about being trampled in dirty Keds still.

 

This was all pre internet so it was confusing at time as why I'm obsessed with these things. I knew it wasn't normal but couldn't stop thinking about it. I was lucky that I got to have experiences early but still confused why I liked this. My cousin still makes little jokes to me when she see me but to my knowledge never told other people.

Wow that's so interesting, she's an awesome cousin for helping you experience it more it's so amazing how innocently it started, thanks for sharing.

[Dannyboy]

It is always such a delightful subject to discuss how someone discovered their fetishes. To pinpoint the exact moment that mine had developed, it would be in my early childhood years. As a young boy between the ages of 4-6. While I didn't know that I had developed a fetish I certainly knew that what I liked was much different then others. My fart fetish was due to a babysitter that I had. My parents would drop me off to our neighbors apartment and she would watch me until my siblings came home from school or my father returned from his first job. She was a yellow bone. Beautiful complexion with hazel eyes and such a voluptuous figure. Most men in the neighborhood dreamed of spending a night with her. Nonetheless she is the sole reason for my fetish today.

 

As a child I was quite the curious boy, or as others would say perverse. I often acted off first thought so when a woman crossed my path that caught my eye I went for it. My babysitter was a crush of mine so anytine she babysat me I tried something on her. Whether I tried to sneak a peek up her shirt or catch her changing, I wanted to know what she looked like naked. I never got the chance but I did however think of one last daring act. I was going to shove my face into her butt since it was so big.

 

I never expected her to do what she did when I went through with it. We were on her bed after eating lunch watching cartoons as I slowly made my way behind her. As she laid on her stomach I crept up and plunged my face right into her buttocks. She tried to shake me off but I wrapped my arms around her thighs and held on saying she that she couldnt shake off a monkey. She laughed and then warned that I shouldnt be there or a surprise was heading my way. I ignored her warning and kept my face in her butt. She laugged again and said that she warned me and proceeded to cut a very loud and very big fart right in my face.

 

I was initially disgusted and removed myself from her ass but as time passed I started thinking about it more and wanted to expereince that again. To see if I would actually enjoy the smell of farts.

Al21:

 

You had me laughing so intensely that I lost my sense of gloom and doom and decided to live another day. As long as I live I don't think I would acquire that fixation but I hope you enjoy it whenever you can find it.

 

Danny boy

[AromaLover21]

Al21:

 

You had me laughing so intensely that I lost my sense of gloom and doom and decided to live another day. As long as I live I don't think I would acquire that fixation but I hope you enjoy it whenever you can find it.

 

Danny boy

Im glad you found it funny. Hey DB, it's like a breath of fresh air! If air came from a beautiul womans arse! Lol. I always thought it was a crazy ordeal myself. Ironically I still see her from time to time and wonder if she even remembers it. Wonder if I should tell her one day?

[Mistress Zenobia Brinks]

It is always such a delightful subject to discuss how someone discovered their fetishes. To pinpoint the exact moment that mine had developed, it would be in my early childhood years. As a young boy between the ages of 4-6. While I didn't know that I had developed a fetish I certainly knew that what I liked was much different then others. My fart fetish was due to a babysitter that I had. My parents would drop me off to our neighbors apartment and she would watch me until my siblings came home from school or my father returned from his first job. She was a yellow bone. Beautiful complexion with hazel eyes and such a voluptuous figure. Most men in the neighborhood dreamed of spending a night with her. Nonetheless she is the sole reason for my fetish today.

 

As a child I was quite the curious boy, or as others would say perverse. I often acted off first thought so when a woman crossed my path that caught my eye I went for it. My babysitter was a crush of mine so anytine she babysat me I tried something on her. Whether I tried to sneak a peek up her shirt or catch her changing, I wanted to know what she looked like naked. I never got the chance but I did however think of one last daring act. I was going to shove my face into her butt since it was so big.

 

I never expected her to do what she did when I went through with it. We were on her bed after eating lunch watching cartoons as I slowly made my way behind her. As she laid on her stomach I crept up and plunged my face right into her buttocks. She tried to shake me off but I wrapped my arms around her thighs and held on saying she that she couldnt shake off a monkey. She laughed and then warned that I shouldnt be there or a surprise was heading my way. I ignored her warning and kept my face in her butt. She laugged again and said that she warned me and proceeded to cut a very loud and very big fart right in my face.

 

I was initially disgusted and removed myself from her ass but as time passed I started thinking about it more and wanted to expereince that again. To see if I would actually enjoy the smell of farts.

Lol this is a cute funny story thanks for sharing.

[Dannyboy]

Im glad you found it funny. Hey DB, it's like a breath of fresh air! If air came from a beautiul womans arse! Lol. I always thought it was a crazy ordeal myself. Ironically I still see her from time to time and wonder if she even remembers it. Wonder if I should tell her one day?

Some things are better left unsaid. Just cherish that memory.