Lilbitchbobby Posted June 5, 2017 Report Share Posted June 5, 2017 A question for the mistresses only whats your favorite fetish when doing a session. And how old were you when you started sessions Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Rey Posted June 6, 2017 Report Share Posted June 6, 2017 It's not about fetishes, it's about creating an intense exchange, pushing a submissive's boundaries, pushing a dominant's creativity, establishing an intimate connection. As long as that is happening, almost any fetish is interesting to explore. It depends on the context. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dannyboy Posted June 6, 2017 Report Share Posted June 6, 2017 It's not about fetishes, it's about creating an intense exchange, pushing a submissive's boundaries, pushing a dominant's creativity, establishing an intimate connection. As long as that is happening, almost any fetish is interesting to explore. It depends on the context. Dear Ms. Rey: What you wrote should be put in a frame and hung in each room of the Fortress. Beautiful. Dannyboy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ConsentOptional Posted June 6, 2017 Report Share Posted June 6, 2017 It's not about fetishes, it's about creating an intense exchange, pushing a submissive's boundaries, pushing a dominant's creativity, establishing an intimate connection. As long as that is happening, almost any fetish is interesting to explore. It depends on the context. Agree, agree, agree some more. It's like having a favorite color. I don't and can't. It is this color with that one. Hopper's morning blue is beautiful because of his red brick and his green shop windows and his long shadows. I can't pick one of those. I could say bondage, since I never want a session without bondage. I want to feel my elbows touching behind me. But that wouldn't be a session unless the sluttiness of the position were pointed out. But that wouldn't be a session unless it resulted in a quest to find out just how slutty. So I could say mind-control. But I want to be afraid, and fear breaks the spell of mind-control. I need to feel safe. But in a world of trouble if I don't obey. Or even if I do. That's my fetish. CO-ness? I can't find it in google. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Rey Posted June 6, 2017 Report Share Posted June 6, 2017 Agree, agree, agree some more. It's like having a favorite color. I don't and can't. It is this color with that one. Hopper's morning blue is beautiful because of his red brick and his green shop windows and his long shadows. I can't pick one of those. I could say bondage, since I never want a session without bondage. I want to feel my elbows touching behind me. But that wouldn't be a session unless the sluttiness of the position were pointed out. But that wouldn't be a session unless it resulted in a quest to find out just how slutty. So I could say mind-control. But I want to be afraid, and fear breaks the spell of mind-control. I need to feel safe. But in a world of trouble if I don't obey. Or even if I do. That's my fetish. CO-ness? I can't find it in google. Perfect analogy. Its like choosing your favorite color. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Mistress Alexia Zito Posted June 6, 2017 Report Share Posted June 6, 2017 My favorite color is pink so what does that say about your favorite fetish? are you a little sissy? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilbitchbobby Posted June 6, 2017 Author Report Share Posted June 6, 2017 Yes i can be a little sissy if you want me to be ms zito Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
questionmarks Posted June 8, 2017 Report Share Posted June 8, 2017 It's not about fetishes, it's about creating an intense exchange, pushing a submissive's boundaries, pushing a dominant's creativity, establishing an intimate connection. As long as that is happening, almost any fetish is interesting to explore. It depends on the context. I second Dannyboy's comment. This is just gorgeous, and speaks deeply to my experience of bdsm. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
job1617 Posted June 10, 2017 Report Share Posted June 10, 2017 It's not about fetishes, it's about creating an intense exchange, pushing a submissive's boundaries, pushing a dominant's creativity, establishing an intimate connection. As long as that is happening, almost any fetish is interesting to explore. It depends on the context. Beautifully put. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
frenchie2 Posted June 11, 2017 Report Share Posted June 11, 2017 It's not about fetishes, it's about creating an intense exchange, pushing a submissive's boundaries, pushing a dominant's creativity, establishing an intimate connection. As long as that is happening, almost any fetish is interesting to explore. It depends on the context. I definitely agree that it is all about creating intimacy in a clear Mistress/slave relationship. But it is easier said than done! Intimacy is about closeness, exchange, trust and more. Very hard to build in a one or two hour session, once every few weeks. There might be ways to do so but lets be honest, it is very challenging. I think submission is not a one hour a week or month attitude, but a permanent state of mind, a burning desire to please and serve your Mistress. Once you are there then fetishes definitely take a backseat and once in a while, you are rewarded by Your Mistress because She wants to do so and knows your fetishes. And I do have a favorite color, nothing wrong with that! I love Red, because to me it is intense, passionate, burning, agrressive, highly symbolic and much more! Again I love what You say Mistress Rey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Jane Li Posted July 24, 2017 Report Share Posted July 24, 2017 I don't have a favorite fetish...yet. It ultimately comes down to the connection I have with my subs and the fear/excitement in their eyes during a scene. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Rey Posted July 26, 2017 Report Share Posted July 26, 2017 I don't have a favorite fetish...yet. It ultimately comes down to the connection I have with my subs and the fear/excitement in their eyes during a scene. I know exactly what you mean, Mistress Li! It's not about what we are doing, it's about the emotion. Whatever it takes to get us there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Zenobia Brinks Posted July 28, 2017 Report Share Posted July 28, 2017 I don't have a favorite fetish...yet. It ultimately comes down to the connection I have with my subs and the fear/excitement in their eyes during a scene.Yes! Reactions are so satisfying! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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