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Who was the first Mistress you sessioned with?

Who was the last (most recent) Mistress you served?

 

For both Mistresses (if they are two different people):

What is her name?

How old were you?

How did you find her?

Why did you choose to serve her?

Where did you session (city? country? dungeon? apartment? hotel?)?

 

 

If these are two different Mistresses, how do they differ? Do their differences reflect your own growth/changes in BDSM? 

 

If your "now and then" Mistress is one of the same- consider yourself extremely lucky :-)

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1.) Mistress Kang 

2.) Mistress Kang (or was it Mistress Von Dietz?)

3.) Jessy Kang 

4.) 20 pushing 21 for the first time, 24 pushing 25 for the last 

5.) randomly while looking up fetishes (more specifically lactophilia) on the internet and finding an advert 

6.) Around the time I was reading 50 shades and I knew the book was BS so I wanted to see for myself what it was like, also she was gorgeous and I have a penchant for large bosoms 

7.) The old Fortress site Steel room 

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The first session I ever had was with Mistress Lauren Taylor at the ripe old age of 19. I found her (sight unseen) through an ad for her dungeon. The intriguing advertisement was placed in a weekly paper. I made a very nervous phone call, and the available Mistresses were vividly described to me. I went with Mistress Lauren because she was very tall, and since the dungeon was named after her, I figured I'd be in competent hands lol. That was the case, of course. She patiently walked me through the kind of session I wanted when I arrived, even though I had only the vaguest idea of what a session could entail. I wore stockings , heels and panties, because I thought that's what subs did, given my limited exposure to BDSM porn. It is definitely not my thing these days, but I was going along with what I thought I was supposed to do. I was lightly spanked and told to worship her feet. I was tied to a St. Andrew's Cross, had one of my stockings tied around my package, and given a foot job by Mistress' oiled feet. I don't think I was supposed to cum, but I was 19, so... The session ended on the early side, but she was very nice to me. I think she was happy to take my BDSM cherry. She even had the receptionist stop me when I was leaving the dungeon because I forgot the stocking that was tied around my junk. I can still hear her gleefully say to her receptionist as she handed it to me, "I can't let a boy go home without his stockings!" I threw out the lingerie outfit before I got home, for fear that my girlfriend might find it. But I did keep that single stocking as a fond memory. I still have it to this day.

 

That was a long time ago, and I have a much clearer idea of what can happen in a BDSM session. I also have a firm handle on what turns me on and what doesn't My last session was earlier this year with the gorgeous LadyPimp Rey. I found her from the Fortress website, of course. I chose her because she too is tall, and disorientingly beautiful. I feel all warm and happy like a puppy dog when I see her face (both here and in person.) I'd follow her around anywhere she'd let me, wagging my tail with my tongue hanging out!

 

I have grown to know exactly what I like during my time with a Domme, and have also come to realize that mostly Mistresses like as much information from a sub as possible before sessioning. I do still enjoy an element of surprise though, so a creative Mistresses is still a way to my heart.

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1.Mistress Mortana.  a Thai college student.  I was 45. in the washington dc city paper classifieds.  because she was Asian. apartment. mount Vernon va.

 

2.Miss Imelda. Pinay.  non pro dome. I met her at a hair salon. because she was Asian. townhouse. Newark de.

 

 

Mistress Mortana was more playful and took great delight in me being her slave.

 

Miss Imelda is more stern and demanding.

 

as far as any growth or changes no. when I serve an Asian mistress i do so on the terms she sets forth.

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Who was the first Mistress you sessioned with?

Who was the last (most recent) Mistress you served?

 

For both Mistresses (if they are two different people):

What is her name?

How old were you?

How did you find her?

Why did you choose to serve her?

Where did you session (city? country? dungeon? apartment? hotel?)?

 

 

If these are two different Mistresses, how do they differ? Do their differences reflect your own growth/changes in BDSM? 

 

If your "now and then" Mistress is one of the same- consider yourself extremely lucky :-)

Dear Ms. Kang:

 

This is a difficult question to answer because I'm sitting in a semi-public place and my experience with Mistresses runs for decades. I have sessioned with so many Mistress that I could not count them at this juncture. You are aware that a number of Mistresses were in my life concurrently during a phase of my life. Some of your questions might tend to incriminate me and work to my disadvantage the next time I show up to the Fortress so I will have to consider relying on my 5th Amendment rights.

 

I will work on a better answer for later and state that you are the Greatest. Nothing will change that.

 

Dannyboy

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Who was the first Mistress you sessioned with? Mistress Kyoko

Who was the last (most recent) Mistress you served? Mistress Von Dietz  :wub2: 

 

For both Mistresses (if they are two different people):

What is her name? Mistress Kyoko

 

How old were you? 28

 

How did you find her?  Searching the internet while serving my last tour in Iraq.

 

Why did you choose to serve her? She was Asian, smart, very fit.  She loved face sitting, wrestling.  She also had a degree in psychology and grappled so she could really kick my ass while verbal dominate me at the same time.  Her tease & denial play was unbelievable and she would email me after the session to let me know she enjoyed playing with me.

 

Where did you session (city? country? dungeon? apartment? hotel?)?  New York City at her Dungeon.

 

What is her name? Mistress Von Dietz  :wub2: 

How old were you? 39

 

How did you find her? While being pinned down by Mistress Kang in session

 

Why did you choose to serve her? Mistress Von Dietz is cute, beautiful, gorgeous, sexy, extremely fit (like a goddess), taller then me, great at wrestling and can run the gamut from being a friendly teasing playmate to the meanest, baddest bitch on the block.  She's also the only Caucasian Mistress I've sessioned with.  That's saying a lot because I usually play with or date Black, Asian, Latino, Indian and Italian women.

 

Where did you session (city? country? dungeon? apartment? hotel?)? New York City at the Fortress.

 

 

If these are two different Mistresses, how do they differ? Do their differences reflect your own growth/changes in BDSM? 

Well race obviously.  Mistress Von Dietz is 4 inches taller then I am where Mistress Kyoko and I were closer in height (She was still taller then me though).  Their play styles are different but equally appealing.   I still like the same things during play but I'm more attuned to it.  I glad to have found the Fortress because of the variety of Mistresses.

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Who was the first Mistress you sessioned with?

Who was the last (most recent) Mistress you served?

 

For both Mistresses (if they are two different people):

What is her name?

How old were you?

How did you find her?

Why did you choose to serve her?

Where did you session (city? country? dungeon? apartment? hotel?)?

 

 

If these are two different Mistresses, how do they differ? Do their differences reflect your own growth/changes in BDSM? 

 

If your "now and then" Mistress is one of the same- consider yourself extremely lucky :-)

Hi Mistress Kang,

 

I was about 23 years old when I served Mistress Collette in the dungeons of Mistress Elizabeth, it was a truly an exciting and nerve wrecking experience....I entered this office like building not knowing what would happen once the door opened...to my surprise the mistress was waiting there for me and this was my first experience seeing a dom in person....She quickly established control having me get completely naked and on my knees waiting for her...

 

I found her by browsing the internet and chose her since she was available at the time I was free and based on her pictures..I had been so aroused by bdsm videos and pictures I was dying to try it out myself...

 

My last session was Mistress Von Dietz I feel like I have come along way in bdsm in the last 9 years in that I am really in tune with my fantasies of teasing and public humiliation role play...Mistress Von Dietz is wonderful at taking you to a space you can only dream about

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A delicious olive sweetielatina Mistress Erin me thinks. At Mistress' Eva Something, next to the old Fat Tuesday's on 17th St.

20something-ish, the old Screwed magazine. I was a petrified babe. She was wonderful.

 

Memorably slooowly seducingly touchingly nailsonballsingly whisperingly corporal-trainingly moldingme tease'ndenialingme droolonfacingly then hand signaled so sweetly for open mouth nectar filling.

Made me kneel up and hold it. 

"See these???", 5 or six different implements.

"You're good".

"I'm might keep you."

"I'm going to train you."

"Can you show me that you're worthy?"

Yes!!! Yes!!!

"I want to see how well you can take each implement training, so I know how to improve you. After each one, drink a little of me so you can remember. Don't finish before I do!"

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Who was the first Mistress you sessioned with? JASMINE


Who was the last (most recent) Mistress you served? ZITO


 


For both Mistresses (if they are two different people):


What is her name?


How old were you? +/- 35


How did you find her? SEX NEWSPAPER


Why did you choose to serve her? LOOKS & STYLE


Where did you session (city? country? dungeon? apartment? hotel?) DUNGEON


 


 


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Who was the first Mistress you sessioned with?

Who was the last (most recent) Mistress you served?

 

For both Mistresses (if they are two different people):

What is her name?

How old were you?

How did you find her?

Why did you choose to serve her?

Where did you session (city? country? dungeon? apartment? hotel?)?

 

 

If these are two different Mistresses, how do they differ? Do their differences reflect your own growth/changes in BDSM? 

 

If your "now and then" Mistress is one of the same- consider yourself extremely lucky :-)

Dear Ms. Kang:

 

I will try to answer to the extent that I am comfortable.

 

First Mistress: Her initials were JK (not you of course.)

 

My age: 24.

 

I found her through a swingers magazine. There was no internet at the time. These magazines required mailings to a code number and the mailings were then forwarded to the advertiser. Screw magazine existed at the time as well.

 

I chose to session with her because the opportunity presented itself at a time when I was available and when I finally had to guts to book a session.

 

We sessioned in Manhattan in her apartment.

 

She was caucasian and at least double my age. Even so, she was in good physical condition and certainly attractive.

 

I never sessioned with her again but she appeared in that magazine for another year or two. Most likely she is deceased now.

 

I did make a number of attempts prior to that to explore some aspects of BDSM with different ladies but this was the first full session with an official Mistress. I crossed the Rubicon at that point.

 

In my future experiences there were a number of long-term connections to individual Mistresses spanning the rest of my life to date.

 

Dannyboy

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Who was the first Mistress you sessioned with?

Who was the last (most recent) Mistress you served?

 

For both Mistresses (if they are two different people):

What is her name?

How old were you?

How did you find her?

Why did you choose to serve her?

Where did you session (city? country? dungeon? apartment? hotel?)?

 

 

If these are two different Mistresses, how do they differ? Do their differences reflect your own growth/changes in BDSM? 

 

If your "now and then" Mistress is one of the same- consider yourself extremely lucky :-)

When I finally took seriously serving a Mistress properly, it was Mistress Kang then and now. I can only say thank you Mistress Kang for opening up a new world for me! Hoping to see you soon.

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For both Mistresses (if they are two different people):

What is her name? Mistress Zito, for both

How old were you? 32 then, 33 now!

How did you find her? Through this website.

Why did you choose to serve her? There was one candid photo of her here on the forums that I just thought was the most gorgeous photo I had ever seen. I had been looking at the site for a while, but I think I arranged my first session the day I saw that photo.

Where did you session (city? country? dungeon? apartment? hotel?)? Obviously, at the fortress, old and new locations.

 

 

I have never wanted to see anyone else!

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Who was the first Mistress you sessioned with?  Lady Rose Thorne

Who was the last (most recent) Mistress you served? Mistress Zito

 

For both Mistresses (if they are two different people): 

What is her name? Lady Rose Thorne

How old were you? 31

How did you find her? NY Backpage

Why did you choose to serve her? Her website was well designed and she specified in detail how she handled first timers.

Where did you session (city? country? dungeon? apartment? hotel?)? Her apartment.

 

What is her name? Mistress Zito

How old were you? 39

How did you find her? Fortress Booking recommended her since another Domme I had previous sessioned with was not available.

Why did you choose to serve her? She looked beautiful and strong. I trust Fortress Booking to match someone to my interests

 

Where did you session (city? country? dungeon? apartment? hotel?)? Fortress Pink Room.

 

 

If these are two different Mistresses, how do they differ? Do their differences reflect your own growth/changes in BDSM? 

 

Lady Rose Thorne took her time with me and engaged my fetishes with light domination. Her presence put me at ease. Mistress Zito is far stronger mentally and physically. She can be very vicious with corporal punishment and yet make me submit my entire soul to her with one glance. Her eyes see directly through me. I push my limits just to please her.

 

If your "now and then" Mistress is one of the same- consider yourself extremely lucky :-)

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First Mistress was Mistress Zhao.

 

I had just turned 56.

 

I found her on the Fortress site.

 

I chose to see her on the recommendation of Mistress Kang after my scheduled session with Minnie Chan was cancelled due to Minnie leaving.

 

Saw her at The Fortress.

 

 

 

Most recent was Ms. Seven.

 

64.

 

Found Her on another Dungeon site as a guest Mistress last year.

 

Chose to see Her after visiting Her site and exchanging e-mails.

 

Saw Her at a private apartment in midtown Manhattan.

 

Difficult to compare one woman who I've seen many times over a seven year period and one who I've seen only once. I've had some incredible sessions with Mistress Zhao, and some that were strained. Had a great time in my lone session with Ms. Seven.

 

The differences do reflect some growth/changes in my sessions. 

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Hello Mistress Kang

 

my first experience with a Mistress was in 2009. i was 55 and Her name was Joy Love. i found Her through an ad in Craig's List. She invited me to her suburban home. near Providence RI.  She gave me a tour of Her basement Dungeon and said "that is for later"  i saw here several times over the years, She was always sensual and our sessions alway ended in sex. She was playful and creative. 

 

i have to say, that it was my experiences at The Fortress that really took me on this incredible journey. my first time with Mistress Tran and Mistress Zhao, who was a fill in for the other scheduled Mistress, was more than I ever imagined. I learned and grew at The Fortress.  i also suffered some setbacks due to my being insensitive and at times, disrespectful. 

 

my time at the Fortress changed my outlook on life and taught me so much about myself. The Fortress brought passion back into my life.

 

i am fortunate to still visit these former Fortress Mistresses, though the relationship is much different now. my entire life is different now, but that is another story.  

 

Thank You Mistress Kang for sparking this trip down Memory Lane and reminding me how much i owe You. i am eternally grateful 

 

manpeach

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I am enjoying reading everyone’s detailed responses!

Keep it up guys~There are so many of you here!

Well, OK then lovely MVD, 
 
I was a totally blithering 20-something bdsm babe in the woods.  What’s worth telling, and worth reading I hope is, more about remarkable first Mistress Erin
 
Young Mistress Erin was so facile and lavishing with ideas, so I’ll-be-playing-dolls-with-you-confident, and her leaving so devastating, it took me years to recover, and to grow into my own without her.
 
Sweet little Erin was all about her own inner knowing seduction. She must have played Mistress by ear out of the womb. She was The Natural; a strap-wielding, switch-hitting, heart-stealing, Pied Piper lightness-of-being sexual improv savant. It was just in her, it was who she was, and yet so sweet. 
 
Erin was so inventive and coaxing, “you can do that for me can’t you”, with lots of encouraging face to face touches.  I didn’t know what I had. After loosing her, it took me years, years, to ask for what she invented on the fly.  After Erin, I was both blessed and tortured, way too spoiled to want less, and still way too inept to find my own way. 
 
Skinny eye-candy perky breasted Erin was deliciously inventive, heart poundiogly beautiful. 
 
My first visit, was lunch time. Erin was drinking a Coke, eating and talking in our initial consultation, dropped her sandwich on the floor, squished her feet in it, and just said nicely “clean my feet”. My first time idiot me looked for paper towels. “No, learn to clean my feet with your mouth”. Erin offered sweet instruction, telling me what and how and why, while I fumbled, but soon performed for her. She progressed me in lightening flashes, walking me through each step in real time, telling me how to awaken to, how be internally attentive of, and how grow emotionally with, the tsunami subservient impulses she'd aroused in me.  
 
“What is this???” Mistress Erin asked.
“Well, hmmm, my ass?” I answered. 
“No, it’s now my ass, and I’m going to awaken you to the wonders of it.” With each tickle, nail scrape, tease ’n denial, slap, strap, finger, clinch and ever more open and desirous release, Erin taught master class in vulnerable, subserviant pleasing her.  
WHACK!
A vicious, painful slapper right on my netherring. Goddamnit that HURT LIKE HELL, a sting I can still remember. 
“Very good. Very very good!”   “I want you to open and open and open more for me in all ways, and embrace and long for what I bring.”  If Erin’s teachings had a central tenet, that was it; show her how longingly I could desire her training, and then remain hyper aware of her Mistressly painful gifts. Often the softest touches and nails would precede the most brutal strokes.  At least once a session, she'd hug me and whisper, her mouth touching my ear "really concentrate and take this without a sound for me, you can do that can't you? I know you can".  Beautiful private rewards could follow.  
 
“You must be very clean, inside and out”, Erin said, bent me over, put an enema nozzle in me, and warned “next time I’ll be putting food here which you'll warm and eat for me.” And did, with a frequently used pastry tube. I was instructed to buy and soften a long leather shoelace, and shown how my balls should be tied, then separated, with cock stretched and secured over them, before arriving.  “The bluer the better” she’s say. 
 
Again, first session, a simple eye and hand gesture, had me on the floor, open mouthed. Erin 3/4’s filled my mouth, then trained me with different implements, a little swallow after each round. At our wonderful talkings at session’s end, “have you been GS-trained before?”  “This is my first time” I said.  “How was it?”  “Your pee was actually sweet.”  “Oh, that must have been the Coke” she laughed. Subsequently Erin invented Palate Training. In consultation, Erin would pee in my mouth, then send me out for food and wine before the session.  When I came back, I was shown 4 things that she might have drunk before the pee. I would have to guess, and be variously thrashed 4 times, but finally told how right or wrong I was. One learns and gets better over time. 
 
Mistress Erin disappeared. My fumbling recovery was probably a decade.
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Technically I went to a kink place in Japan and Thailand first, but they weren't really Mistresses so Mistresses Kang & Rey

 

I served Mistresses Rey & Kang last

 

21yrs old

 

Eros

 

The reason I chose The Fortress was completely unrelated to BDSM. Rather, when researching various Mistresses I found an interview that showed how ethical and logical Mistress Kang operated her business. Then I saw her posts on a Bitcoin forum back when everyone thought it was a fad. These two combined easily sealed the deal for my first session.

 

I escalated from a 1 (some fetish & no pain at the kink places) to a 10 oh so fast after two sessions at The Fortress........

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Who was the first Mistress you sessioned with? Mistress Kyoko

Who was the last (most recent) Mistress you served? Mistress Von Dietz  :wub2: 

 

For both Mistresses (if they are two different people):

What is her name? Mistress Kyoko

 

How old were you? 28

 

How did you find her?  Searching the internet while serving my last tour in Iraq.

 

Why did you choose to serve her? She was Asian, smart, very fit.  She loved face sitting, wrestling.  She also had a degree in psychology and grappled so she could really kick my ass while verbal dominate me at the same time.  Her tease & denial play was unbelievable and she would email me after the session to let me know she enjoyed playing with me.

 

Where did you session (city? country? dungeon? apartment? hotel?)?  New York City at her Dungeon.

 

What is her name? Mistress Von Dietz  :wub2: 

How old were you? 39

 

How did you find her? While being pinned down by Mistress Kang in session

 

Why did you choose to serve her? Mistress Von Dietz is cute, beautiful, gorgeous, sexy, extremely fit (like a goddess), taller then me, great at wrestling and can run the gamut from being a friendly teasing playmate to the meanest, baddest bitch on the block.  She's also the only Caucasian Mistress I've sessioned with.  That's saying a lot because I usually play with or date Black, Asian, Latino, Indian and Italian women.

 

Where did you session (city? country? dungeon? apartment? hotel?)? New York City at the Fortress.

 

 

If these are two different Mistresses, how do they differ? Do their differences reflect your own growth/changes in BDSM? 

Well race obviously.  Mistress Von Dietz is 4 inches taller then I am where Mistress Kyoko and I were closer in height (She was still taller then me though).  Their play styles are different but equally appealing.   I still like the same things during play but I'm more attuned to it.  I glad to have found the Fortress because of the variety of Mistresses.

Oh! Mistress Kyoko! I've never met her in person but have heard so many wonderful things about her. She is a beautiful Japanese woman :-) I wish I had met her while she was still an active domme.

 

Was I telling you about Mistress Von Dietz will sitting on you? LOL

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Oh! Mistress Kyoko! I've never met her in person but have heard so many wonderful things about her. She is a beautiful Japanese woman :-) I wish I had met her while she was still an active domme.

 

Was I telling you about Mistress Von Dietz will sitting on you? LOL

 

Mistress Kyoko was very beautiful Domme.  I heard she moved back to Japan.

 

You were sitting on me, yes!  Too funny.  I remember it distinctly.   Mistress Von Dietz entered the room with another Mistress to join in for a bit.

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I first met Ms. Kyoko circa 1998 when she was connected to Rebecca's Hidden Chamber. She sessioned under another name at that time. I sessioned with her at other dungeons thereafter when she became Kyoko. Last time I saw her was at Ms. Yin's place in lower Manhattan at a fundraiser for Nurse Noelle who was injured at a SMack party. I escorted Ms. Tigra to that event which was attended by most of the prominent Mistresses in the area. When Kyoko arrived Tigra was upset that my gaze was fixed on Kyoko. She didn't realize that I knew her well. As Kyoko passed by I greeted her in Japanese and she did a double take. 

 

I introduced Tigra to Kyoko and Kyoko introduced her male companion to us.

 

Last I heard of Kyoko was that she was living in Los Angeles with the same male companion. That was several years ago.

 

Dannyboy

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Who was the first Mistress you sessioned with? Ms. Ahn

 

Who was the last (most recent) Mistress you served? the final two mistrsses when I left were Ms. Katz and Ms. Jin

 

 

 

For both Mistresses (if they are two different people):

 

What is her name? see above

 

How old were you? over 30 with Ms. Ahn, 40 last Halloween with Ms. Rey, Ms. Katz, Ms. Von Dietz and M. Jin

 

How did you find her? eros-ny and from there the link to the fetish fortress

 

Why did you choose to serve her? discussing the best fit via booking and in the end, it was Ms. Ahn, who was available and recommended for my first session at the fortress

 

Where did you session (city? country? dungeon? apartment? hotel?)? NYC, US, Fetish Fortress (old location)

 

 

If these are two different Mistresses, how do they differ? Do their differences reflect your own growth/changes in BDSM?

 

I am thankful for every mistress I was allowed to meet through the fortress, but would she not have left, I'd probably still be Ms. Ahn's to serve... but that again led to fortress marriage with my beloved hubby, Ms. Kang :) so every door that closed opened a new opportunity... of course I have to admit, that even in the discussions at booking, I was pushed towards the more strict than just playful mistresses... Too make an educated guess about the skills and ways to play, especially for the newest mistresses I met (Ms. Von Dietz and Ms. Jin) I guess, there should be more private session time.... but I yet have to meet a fortress mistress, who would not have been able to take a little piece of my heart for herself...though the largest part at this moment belongs to Ms. Kang

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