Mistress Kang Posted January 1, 2019 Report Posted January 1, 2019 I know it's different overseas, but what what are the noticeable differences sessioning in NYC versus other states? Quote
Footboi12171 Posted January 2, 2019 Report Posted January 2, 2019 LA- doms more laid back Chicago- has a great fetish scene and most Doms that do FTT Vegas- very weak and not much of a scene NYC- has great Doms but be careful they are not as sincere Quote
Mistress Kang Posted January 2, 2019 Author Report Posted January 2, 2019 1 hour ago, Footboi12171 said: LA- doms more laid back Chicago- has a great fetish scene and most Doms that do FTT Vegas- very weak and not much of a scene NYC- has great Doms but be careful they are not as sincere Interesting breakdown. Is FTT something you like to experience often/most? Quote
brett9172 Posted January 2, 2019 Report Posted January 2, 2019 7 hours ago, Mistress Kang said: Interesting breakdown. Is FTT something you like to experience often/most? I think about it. Quote
Adam-Dunn Posted January 3, 2019 Report Posted January 3, 2019 20 hours ago, brett9172 said: I think about it. Brett Regarding FTT- I ,too, just THINK about it -! Not sure if I could - You think you will ... .. Ever try it ? I guess if a woman ever really turned you on - You might go for it - right?-- Adam Quote
Tyro Tim Posted January 4, 2019 Report Posted January 4, 2019 Not knowing the overseas differences, I would certainly be interested in any elaboration you care to pride. Quote
rayjames1986 Posted January 4, 2019 Report Posted January 4, 2019 not a US state, but London has a great scene, both in terms of professionals and hobbyists. Quote
franknot Posted January 5, 2019 Report Posted January 5, 2019 On 1/2/2019 at 12:17 PM, Footboi12171 said: NYC- has great Doms but be careful they are not as sincere Footboi, I have such limited experience that i have no way to reference ... Could you elaborate? .. as compared to what? .. and in what ways? thanks Quote
brett9172 Posted January 5, 2019 Report Posted January 5, 2019 On 1/3/2019 at 8:04 AM, Adam-Dunn said: Brett Regarding FTT- I ,too, just THINK about it -! Not sure if I could - You think you will ... .. Ever try it ? I guess if a woman ever really turned you on - You might go for it - right?-- Adam have tried it is very intense Quote
tokyocanelover Posted January 5, 2019 Report Posted January 5, 2019 On 1/5/2019 at 4:26 AM, rayjames1986 said: not a US state, but London has a great scene, both in terms of professionals and hobbyists. Tokyo and Hong Kong too:) Quote
Mistress Kang Posted January 6, 2019 Author Report Posted January 6, 2019 1 hour ago, tokyocanelover said: Tokyo and Hong Kong too:) I'd love to experience both! I imagine Tokyo to be very intense and serious with Mistresses that are extremely skilled in their craft- not "dabblers". For HKG, I imagine a heavy emphasis on gender role reversal and humiliation. Quote
Outcast Posted January 6, 2019 Report Posted January 6, 2019 Boise Idaho has a pretty heavy scene. Quote
tokyocanelover Posted January 6, 2019 Report Posted January 6, 2019 4 hours ago, Mistress Kang said: I'd love to experience both! I imagine Tokyo to be very intense and serious with Mistresses that are extremely skilled in their craft- not "dabblers". For HKG, I imagine a heavy emphasis on gender role reversal and humiliation. Mistress Kang You are absolutely correct about Tokyo. The scene is absolutely fabulous here and the mistresses very skilled. My HK experience was great too. There is a flourishing underground scene with a great community with parties, events etc Quote
Mistress Kang Posted January 6, 2019 Author Report Posted January 6, 2019 1 hour ago, The Spermwhale said: Boise Idaho has a pretty heavy scene. OMG STFU (lol) Quote
Mistress Kang Posted January 6, 2019 Author Report Posted January 6, 2019 24 minutes ago, tokyocanelover said: Mistress Kang You are absolutely correct about Tokyo. The scene is absolutely fabulous here and the mistresses very skilled. My HK experience was great too. There is a flourishing underground scene with a great community with parties, events etc So interesting! I have some friends in China (SH and SZ) that travel to HKG and they say the scene parties keep getting shut down and get smaller and smaller. Do you know what the HKG scene is like outside of the parties (ie Dommes/sessions)? Quote
tokyocanelover Posted January 6, 2019 Report Posted January 6, 2019 5 hours ago, Mistress Kang said: So interesting! I have some friends in China (SH and SZ) that travel to HKG and they say the scene parties keep getting shut down and get smaller and smaller. Do you know what the HKG scene is like outside of the parties (ie Dommes/sessions)? Mistress Kang i have not lived in HK fior over 2 years so things might have changed but I still keep getting invites to parties etc - the group I was connected to has its own dungeon so was never an issue when I was active in the scene though things may have changed. There are some domes who session - usually post on Collarspace and some are on Fetlife. Also get a fair number of visiting domes including from japan Quote
franknot Posted January 6, 2019 Report Posted January 6, 2019 10 hours ago, Mistress Kang said: So interesting! I have some friends in China (SH and SZ) that travel to HKG and they say the scene parties keep getting shut down and get smaller and smaller. Do you know what the HKG scene is like outside of the parties (ie Dommes/sessions)? Ms Kang & tokyocanelover ... What is the official Chinese government stance on bdsm? Do they just ignore it or aggressively suppress it? Quote
Mistress Kang Posted January 7, 2019 Author Report Posted January 7, 2019 On 1/6/2019 at 10:37 AM, franknot said: Ms Kang & tokyocanelover ... What is the official Chinese government stance on bdsm? Do they just ignore it or aggressively suppress it? I have no idea. Quote
kevybaby Posted January 7, 2019 Report Posted January 7, 2019 On 1/6/2019 at 10:37 AM, franknot said: Ms Kang & tokyocanelover ... What is the official Chinese government stance on bdsm? Do they just ignore it or aggressively suppress it? They suppress it. https://www.whatsonweibo.com/fifty-shades-vulgar-bdsm-lifestyle-slammed-chinese-media/ That article also mentioned the fifty shades movies (I know they're supposed to be terrible but still) were actually blocked from releasing in mainland China. And the ways journalists described this couple that the article about... I think it's safe to say that they are less open to bdsm in China by and large. Quote
kevybaby Posted January 7, 2019 Report Posted January 7, 2019 Which could also mean that maybe the underground scene is thriving, since you suppress something it tends to come back with a vengeance Quote
franknot Posted January 7, 2019 Report Posted January 7, 2019 1 hour ago, kevybaby said: They suppress it. https://www.whatsonweibo.com/fifty-shades-vulgar-bdsm-lifestyle-slammed-chinese-media/ That article also mentioned the fifty shades movies (I know they're supposed to be terrible but still) were actually blocked from releasing in mainland China. And the ways journalists described this couple that the article about... I think it's safe to say that they are less open to bdsm in China by and large. Thanks for the article .. a little reality is needed sometimes .. we take so much for granted here. Quote
franknot Posted January 7, 2019 Report Posted January 7, 2019 1 hour ago, kevybaby said: since you suppress something it tends to come back with a vengeance Hmmm.. kinda like edging Quote
kevybaby Posted January 8, 2019 Report Posted January 8, 2019 2 hours ago, franknot said: Hmmm.. kinda like edging Lmao that's very true but only to a point; I did it one night from like 7pm to 6am and honestly there is a point where it gets less good. Drink a lot of water and itll last for awhile but its not like your balls are this infinite wellspring of pleasure and you will max it out. So the vengeance becomes less vengeful after a certain point. Quote
Mistress Kang Posted January 8, 2019 Author Report Posted January 8, 2019 1 hour ago, kevybaby said: Lmao that's very true but only to a point; I did it one night from like 7pm to 6am and honestly there is a point where it gets less good. Drink a lot of water and itll last for awhile but its not like your balls are this infinite wellspring of pleasure and you will max it out. So the vengeance becomes less vengeful after a certain point. How does drinking water help (serious question)? Quote
kevybaby Posted January 8, 2019 Report Posted January 8, 2019 14 minutes ago, Mistress Kang said: How does drinking water help (serious question)? No stupid questions when it comes to edging! So, (places hands together on lap) when a man edges for long periods of time (hours, not minutes), it is important to keep the bladder flushing out consistently. The reason for this is that semen that is not released through orgasm ends up either getting peed out, or stuck in the urethra - which can cause a UTI. By constantly peeing out the semen that has not been released, one avoids a UTI and the negative side effects that come with it. I am a veritable wellspring of knowledge when it comes to edging, so don't hesitate to ask me anything else. No stupid questions! Quote
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