Mistress Zora Jin Posted August 11, 2019 Report Share Posted August 11, 2019 A lot of BDSM porn inspires subs to try different activities. What activities have you guys tried because you watched it and thought it was super hot, but didn't like it when you actually did it in real life? One that I've experienced is ball busting lol Any others? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Von Dietz Posted August 11, 2019 Report Share Posted August 11, 2019 I thought you loved ball busting!? I know that I do. ? For me I hadn’t really watched BDSM porn till I started working at the Fortress, so I had already done the things before I saw it! (I was still watching the old school porn lol) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevybaby Posted August 11, 2019 Report Share Posted August 11, 2019 The pain stuff tends to be enjoyable when thinking about it later but not during the moment (obviously). Versus watching porn where everything is enjoyable for you right now because you're masturbating while watching some other guy get ballbusted or whatever. But the memories are better than porn, that's for sure. I basically cured a porn addiction (not completely but still) by sessioning a bunch because the memories were my new porn but I'm in it so it's not hard to self-insert so yeah the pain stuff in general is definitely more painful than hot in the moment but that can be well worth it later Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
otaku Posted August 13, 2019 Report Share Posted August 13, 2019 Most pain related activities really, it's a huge turnoff physically and mentally. Sometimes it can be healing, but it's a double-edged sword that also incites a ton of negative emotions personally Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dannyboy Posted August 13, 2019 Report Share Posted August 13, 2019 My BDSM fantasies and activities were fully formed before the widespread availability of BDSM porn on the internet. So I never really had reason to bring such a fantasy into the dungeon. Relatively recently I watched a clip of an older white "gentleman" spanking a petite black young lady. This was a case of deja vu. Something that I had done in the past appears on the internet as if someone stole my idea. Dannyboy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Zora Jin Posted August 13, 2019 Author Report Share Posted August 13, 2019 On 8/11/2019 at 3:56 PM, Mistress Von Dietz said: I thought you loved ball busting!? I know that I do. ? For me I hadn’t really watched BDSM porn till I started working at the Fortress, so I had already done the things before I saw it! (I was still watching the old school porn lol) Lol I absolutely love bb but some have told me that they did not like it after experiencing it hahaha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Zora Jin Posted August 13, 2019 Author Report Share Posted August 13, 2019 21 hours ago, otaku said: Most pain related activities really, it's a huge turnoff physically and mentally. Sometimes it can be healing, but it's a double-edged sword that also incites a ton of negative emotions personally What negative emotions do you experience after? I want to know more because you take pain so well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theDumbMule Posted August 13, 2019 Report Share Posted August 13, 2019 1 hour ago, Mistress Zora Jin said: Lol I absolutely love bb but some have told me that they did not like it after experiencing it hahaha Phew!! I was worried that you didn’t like it. I thought I might have to go to MVD for all my bb needs, and I am a very needy person. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Zora Jin Posted August 13, 2019 Author Report Share Posted August 13, 2019 8 minutes ago, theDumbMule said: Phew!! I was worried that you didn’t like it. I thought I might have to go to MVD for all my bb needs, and I am a very needy person. Lol I love it! Nothing like watching you twitch your facial features and hearing an agonizing groan escape your mouth ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jayman Posted August 14, 2019 Report Share Posted August 14, 2019 Hi Mistress Jin, I thought I would like electro play but I almost puked when I experienced it. The most important thing for me though is the Mistresses attitude. The more cocky, mouthy and imperious a Mistress is, the hotter it makes her in my eyes. This in turn makes me want to play harder in hopes that I get to experience more of her attitude and the twisted ideas she comes up with. I try not to watch BDSM porn. A lot of the time the Mistress doesn't have any of the attributes I like and it's a turn off. So there are only a few that I like. Jay Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
painslut Posted August 14, 2019 Report Share Posted August 14, 2019 Well when I first watched ball busting I thought I would hate it. But after trying it I loved it. I think because the mistresses seem to get so excited by it. i think getting tied up was less interesting than I thought. It seemed like it would make it more intense but it always feels less interactive to me. Seems more fun if I am runnninf around will they smack me or pommel me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
otaku Posted August 14, 2019 Report Share Posted August 14, 2019 4 hours ago, Mistress Zora Jin said: What negative emotions do you experience after? I want to know more because you take pain so well. Depends on how painful it is. Normal stuff usually fear. Medium stuff insecurities and fear. Really painful things dread, irritability and sadness. Like Jayman, I think attitude matters, except I find the exact opposite of what he described to be far more appealing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
franknot Posted August 14, 2019 Report Share Posted August 14, 2019 On 8/11/2019 at 2:19 PM, Mistress Zora Jin said: A lot of BDSM porn inspires subs to try different activities. What activities have you guys tried because you watched it and thought it was super hot, but didn't like it when you actually did it in real life? 16 hours ago, Jayman said: The most important thing for me though is the Mistresses attitude. Lately, the only porn that will consistently arouse me is watching a sub or a slave in restraints being punished with almost any implement... strap, lash, crop, whip and even cane... but i find i'm most affected by the extreme force of the blows and the facial expressions of the Mistress as they are being administered .. Be it hate or caring, anger or joy, amusement or disdain ... sometimes it's undeniably real, and not an act. Watching and reading the face of the Mistress as she works is my greatest turn on. While i have many other kinks i crave restraint and punishment and have experienced quite a few strokes at my last session, but i know i wouldn't be able to endure the severe beatings being administered on porn. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chocotaco Posted August 15, 2019 Report Share Posted August 15, 2019 On 8/11/2019 at 2:19 PM, Mistress Zora Jin said: A lot of BDSM porn inspires subs to try different activities. What activities have you guys tried because you watched it and thought it was super hot, but didn't like it when you actually did it in real life? One that I've experienced is ball busting lol Any others? Flogging. In porn it looks hot as fuck when the mistress is whipping the shit out of a sub and he starts screaming and begging for mercy, while she’s just having a laugh at his expense. Having experienced it, it feels very therapeutic and pleasurable at first, but it slowly turns into pain, and the pleasure aspect of it sort of disappears. Also yea ballbusting hurts like a bitch. It’s hot in porn, but in real life, it’s not so much. The sensation is very similar to blue balls. I remember you snuck in a few shots to thing 1 and thing 2 yesterday and my stomach started aching lol. Personally, I’m fine with very light ball busting and flogging, but to each his own. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
otaku Posted August 18, 2019 Report Share Posted August 18, 2019 And now forced bi. Hot in porn, but not enjoyable IRL. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Kang Posted August 18, 2019 Report Share Posted August 18, 2019 12 minutes ago, otaku said: And now forced bi. Hot in porn, but not enjoyable IRL. What do you mean "and now"?? Have you done it?! PS Would you happen to know who's a slutty little girl? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
otaku Posted August 18, 2019 Report Share Posted August 18, 2019 55 minutes ago, Mistress Kang said: What do you mean "and now"?? Have you done it?! PS Would you happen to know who's a slutty little girl? Well kinda, I went to a Forced Bi workshop caressed balls, gave blowjobs and handjobs to 3 different guys for an hour or so. Interesting, but probably not attracted to guys unless they're androgynous or feminine enough. I'm a slutty little girl......I'm a slutty little girl.......I'm a slutty little girl! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Kang Posted August 18, 2019 Report Share Posted August 18, 2019 1 minute ago, otaku said: Well kinda, I went to a Forced Bi workshop caressed balls, gave blowjobs and handjobs to 3 different guys for an hour or so. Interesting, but probably not attracted to guys unless they're androgynous or feminine enough. I'm a slutty little girl......I'm a slutty little girl.......I'm a slutty little girl! Yes you are. When did you do this? Did you blow and jerk them to completion? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
otaku Posted August 18, 2019 Report Share Posted August 18, 2019 Today lol, no we just exchanged partners after a while. It was weird giving handjobs because their dicks were dry and frictiony. It was a CFNM workshop. One of the ladies kept repeating words that really kept me going Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Kang Posted August 18, 2019 Report Share Posted August 18, 2019 2 minutes ago, otaku said: Today lol, no we just exchanged partners after a while. It was weird giving handjobs because their dicks were dry and frictiony. It was a CFNM workshop. One of the ladies kept repeating words that really kept me going Really living up to "slutty little girl" LOL All dicks are not created equally haha What was the mantra that kept you going?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
otaku Posted August 18, 2019 Report Share Posted August 18, 2019 18 minutes ago, Mistress Kang said: Really living up to "slutty little girl" LOL All dicks are not created equally haha What was the mantra that kept you going?? Hey a dick is a dick, gotta do with what little I'm given The way she kept calling me a good boy and carassing my hair was really sweet. The other guy was pretty reluctant on some simple things. She had this cool accent too Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Kang Posted August 20, 2019 Report Share Posted August 20, 2019 On 8/17/2019 at 10:55 PM, otaku said: Hey a dick is a dick, gotta do with what little I'm given The way she kept calling me a good boy and carassing my hair was really sweet. The other guy was pretty reluctant on some simple things. She had this cool accent too You, on Thursday. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Voyage Posted August 20, 2019 Report Share Posted August 20, 2019 On 8/11/2019 at 2:19 PM, Mistress Zora Jin said: A lot of BDSM porn inspires subs to try different activities. What activities have you guys tried because you watched it and thought it was super hot, but didn't like it when you actually did it in real life? One that I've experienced is ball busting lol Any others? My sentiments are similar to several below. It is very erotic to see a beautiful mistress whip the piss out of a tied-up slave, wihipping him mercilessly, especially with a single-tail whipping of the bare back. I wish I could take such a whipping but it would only take about one or two lashes like some of these subs receive and I would be begging for an end. The pain itself is not a turn-on for me but rather its the mistress having her way with me without constraint. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
otaku Posted August 21, 2019 Report Share Posted August 21, 2019 On 8/19/2019 at 8:50 PM, Mistress Kang said: You, on Thursday. Is that my safeword? ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Kang Posted August 22, 2019 Report Share Posted August 22, 2019 5 hours ago, otaku said: Is that my safeword? ? Your safe word makes my pussy dry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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