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On 8/17/2019 at 8:55 PM, otaku said:

Hey a dick is a dick, gotta do with what little I'm given

The way she kept calling me a good boy and carassing my hair was really sweet. The other guy was pretty reluctant on some simple things. She had this cool accent too

Interesting.  I wonder if it would be more enjoyable the second time with a more willing guy.

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    One thing: post-orgasm torture, thanks to a topic here a few years ago. I have not tried it yet though, because, although it looks absolutely hot, I know how bitterly I would regret it.

    Apart from that, I know well what makes me tick so I do not find new ideas, rather I seek scenes depicting my fantasies. Alas, although those fantasies are fairly middle-of-the-road, it is next to impossible to find a good video. Most are such crap. Suspension of disbelief to that level I cannot achieve. I mean, the guy is not even tied up, for hell's sake ! And then there is the futility of search by keywords. Whatver algorithm they use, they got swindled. Perhaps I am using the wrong sites.

 

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3 hours ago, Zantafio said:

    One thing: post-orgasm torture, thanks to a topic here a few years ago. I have not tried it yet though, because, although it looks absolutely hot, I know how bitterly I would regret it.

    Apart from that, I know well what makes me tick so I do not find new ideas, rather I seek scenes depicting my fantasies. Alas, although those fantasies are fairly middle-of-the-road, it is next to impossible to find a good video. Most are such crap. Suspension of disbelief to that level I cannot achieve. I mean, the guy is not even tied up, for hell's sake ! And then there is the futility of search by keywords. Whatver algorithm they use, they got swindled. Perhaps I am using the wrong sites.

 

What kind of fantasies do you like to see? I'm good at watching femdom porn so maybe I can help

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▲ Oh, you know, mellow stuff. An asian girl overpowering a dude, followed by bondage, humiliation, tease & denial, foot worship or CBT. Nothing directly sexual. On Pornhub the pickings are slim for what I seek and the quality is embarrassing. Not sure whether it is allowed to discuss this here, but are there trustworthy sites dedicated to BDSM or asian ?

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10 hours ago, Zantafio said:

▲ Oh, you know, mellow stuff. An asian girl overpowering a dude, followed by bondage, humiliation, tease & denial, foot worship or CBT. Nothing directly sexual. On Pornhub the pickings are slim for what I seek and the quality is embarrassing. Not sure whether it is allowed to discuss this here, but are there trustworthy sites dedicated to BDSM or asian ?

Why don't you just experience it in real life instead?

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On 8/27/2019 at 6:45 PM, Zantafio said:

    One thing: post-orgasm torture, thanks to a topic here a few years ago. I have not tried it yet though, because, although it looks absolutely hot, I know how bitterly I would regret it.

    Apart from that, I know well what makes me tick so I do not find new ideas, rather I seek scenes depicting my fantasies. Alas, although those fantasies are fairly middle-of-the-road, it is next to impossible to find a good video. Most are such crap. Suspension of disbelief to that level I cannot achieve. I mean, the guy is not even tied up, for hell's sake ! And then there is the futility of search by keywords. Whatver algorithm they use, they got swindled. Perhaps I am using the wrong sites.

 

Post-orgasm is something I was going to bring up actually.  Ok, so I've seen a few variations on Japanese femdom videos but there is one that gets me red-hot I will describe:

Office setting.  Woman in a business suit...could easily be a secretary or "underling" taking over in another video but in this case she's simply The Boss.  She sits back in a chair, lifting her skirt to show off that she's wearing  strap-on dildo, and at her command a naked submissive man starts gently playing with himself.  She watches and smiles for a moment before standing up and ordering him to start sucking her dildo.  He does it, and she mocks him (I'm guessing, I don't speak Japanese) and orders him to stroke harder.  He ends up coming on the floor, with his gasps of pleasure muffled by the dildo.  Then she makes him get up and bend over a table, and she stands behind him to give him a HARD pegging.  Eventually she has him flip over on his back and pegs him again, and eventually he ends up on his knees and sucks off her dildo a second time (she pulls off a condom or something she'd been using, so at least it's hygienic!

I know if I did that in real life and didn't get to come until the second round of dildo-sucking it would be awesome, and her making the sub take all of that humiliation after his orgasm is hot to watch, but I don't know if I could handle a no-mercy pegging if I had already orgasmed.

22 hours ago, Zantafio said:

▲ Oh, you know, mellow stuff. An asian girl overpowering a dude, followed by bondage, humiliation, tease & denial, foot worship or CBT. Nothing directly sexual. On Pornhub the pickings are slim for what I seek and the quality is embarrassing. Not sure whether it is allowed to discuss this here, but are there trustworthy sites dedicated to BDSM or asian ? 

If you like Japanese porn there's a site I know with some videos like what you describe, I'm not 100% sure if there are rules about discussing either.  Maybe ask in the member's forum?

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On 8/30/2019 at 9:37 PM, Mistress Zora Jin said:

Why don't you just experience it in real life instead?

Would that it were so simple, Mistress. There is only one fortress, and she lies a million whip lengths from me. Locally, it is disappointing. I end up having to explain so much that I should be the one getting paid.

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On 8/31/2019 at 8:51 AM, JustAGuy said:

Post-orgasm is something I was going to bring up actually.  Ok, so I've seen a few variations on Japanese femdom videos but there is one that gets me red-hot I will describe:

Office setting.  Woman in a business suit...could easily be a secretary or "underling" taking over in another video but in this case she's simply The Boss.  She sits back in a chair, lifting her skirt to show off that she's wearing  strap-on dildo, and at her command a naked submissive man starts gently playing with himself.  She watches and smiles for a moment before standing up and ordering him to start sucking her dildo.  He does it, and she mocks him (I'm guessing, I don't speak Japanese) and orders him to stroke harder.  He ends up coming on the floor, with his gasps of pleasure muffled by the dildo.  Then she makes him get up and bend over a table, and she stands behind him to give him a HARD pegging.  Eventually she has him flip over on his back and pegs him again, and eventually he ends up on his knees and sucks off her dildo a second time (she pulls off a condom or something she'd been using, so at least it's hygienic!

I know if I did that in real life and didn't get to come until the second round of dildo-sucking it would be awesome, and her making the sub take all of that humiliation after his orgasm is hot to watch, but I don't know if I could handle a no-mercy pegging if I had already orgasmed.

If you like Japanese porn there's a site I know with some videos like what you describe, I'm not 100% sure if there are rules about discussing either.  Maybe ask in the member's forum?

    Great fantasy. The post-orgasm torture I was thinking of was continuation of masturbation after ejaculation, when the penis becomes hyper-sensitive. The videos I have seen of it are among the rare ones in which the guy is bound for real, because while it is done to him he really does not want to be there. That is why I have not tried it.

    Since the conversation about porn sites has been allowed so far, I will start by asking ask here. What is that site you refer to ?

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On 8/30/2019 at 2:28 PM, Zantafio said:

▲ Oh, you know, mellow stuff. An asian girl overpowering a dude, followed by bondage, humiliation, tease & denial, foot worship or CBT. Nothing directly sexual. On Pornhub the pickings are slim for what I seek and the quality is embarrassing. Not sure whether it is allowed to discuss this here, but are there trustworthy sites dedicated to BDSM or asian ?

I don't know of anything that fits all of that. Maybe Divine Bitches or Femdom Empire for the bondage stuff. No idea about exclusively asian sites, sorry. Humiliation, foot worship, and cbt are in probably in the majority of femdom videos you'll find so those shouldn't be hard to find. Tease and denial is most often found (for me) in POV type humiliation videos - any of the girls on Iwantclips and those types of websites, Cruelgirlfriend and Humiliatrix and CumCountdown are other sites with that type of stuff. No idea why bondage is so rare in femdom videos. Hey fuck porn though man it's not good

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▲ Good point, porn sucks, but is easy to access, fast and discreet, a blessing for the family man.

    Looking at the sites you mention, the first thing that comes to mind is: I had never seen so many white chicks, except at a Céline Dion concert. The few asian girls in BDSM seem to take the role of victims most of the time. I thought the asian mistress was a much more common fantasy.

    I do not know if this happens to other subs here. What specifically turns me on feels so natural, obvious, normal to me that it is easy to imagine it turns on most guys around the world. There is no sexuality outside of my kink. Browsing porn sites illustrates how irrational that conception is. Most guys' kinks leave me indifferent, as mine surely leaves them. It feels a little lonely. Praise the Lord for this forum.

   Mistresses of other genomes, please forgive my confessed inclination for Asia. Be not offended. Your talent, beauty and superiority to men are not in question.

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4 hours ago, Zantafio said:

▲ Good point, porn sucks, but is easy to access, fast and discreet, a blessing for the family man.

    Looking at the sites you mention, the first thing that comes to mind is: I had never seen so many white chicks, except at a Céline Dion concert. The few asian girls in BDSM seem to take the role of victims most of the time. I thought the asian mistress was a much more common fantasy.

    I do not know if this happens to other subs here. What specifically turns me on feels so natural, obvious, normal to me that it is easy to imagine it turns on most guys around the world. There is no sexuality outside of my kink. Browsing porn sites illustrates how irrational that conception is. Most guys' kinks leave me indifferent, as mine surely leaves them. It feels a little lonely. Praise the Lord for this forum.

   Mistresses of other genomes, please forgive my confessed inclination for Asia. Be not offended. Your talent, beauty and superiority to men are not in question.

I mean there's nothing wrong with being attracted to who you find attractive and what you find attractive. You shouldn't feel under any obligation to find people or things that you don't find attractive... attractive. I'll never understand why anal and incest are the top fetishes you see on any major porn site. They're like more popular than regular porn. Don't appeal to me at all

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On 9/5/2019 at 10:59 PM, Zantafio said:

▲ Good point, porn sucks, but is easy to access, fast and discreet, a blessing for the family man.

    Looking at the sites you mention, the first thing that comes to mind is: I had never seen so many white chicks, except at a Céline Dion concert. The few asian girls in BDSM seem to take the role of victims most of the time. I thought the asian mistress was a much more common fantasy.

    I do not know if this happens to other subs here. What specifically turns me on feels so natural, obvious, normal to me that it is easy to imagine it turns on most guys around the world. There is no sexuality outside of my kink. Browsing porn sites illustrates how irrational that conception is. Most guys' kinks leave me indifferent, as mine surely leaves them. It feels a little lonely. Praise the Lord for this forum.

   Mistresses of other genomes, please forgive my confessed inclination for Asia. Be not offended. Your talent, beauty and superiority to men are not in question.

You just have to not worry about it. Watching porn is an intimate and strictly personal matter, just like your tastes in porn. They don't need to be justified or proven to anyone.

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21 hours ago, roshnikhanna said:

My thought Pornography is about looking good. "real sex" could be about feeling good.

Interesting thought. I've seen some porn that doesn't look good at all and had some real sex where the good feeling didn't last beyond the moment. Still your thought is interesting.

  Dannyboy

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