alex_cash Posted January 10, 2020 Report Share Posted January 10, 2020 Hi all, I am hoping to book my first scene. I've never done any sort of BDSM session before. I'm hoping to explore an interest in facesitting, humiliation, and maybe some light first-timer bondage. Is there a specific mistress who might be best for me to serve? Any tips for a first timer? Thanks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dannyboy Posted January 10, 2020 Report Share Posted January 10, 2020 22 minutes ago, alex_cash said: Hi all, I am hoping to book my first scene. I've never done any sort of BDSM session before. I'm hoping to explore an interest in facesitting, humiliation, and maybe some light first-timer bondage. Is there a specific mistress who might be best for me to serve? Any tips for a first timer? Thanks. alex: Every Fortress trained Mistress can work understandingly with a first-timer. Tips? Communication is key. Express yourself honestly. Understand that fantasy and reality are two different things. You may dislike what you thought you would like. You may discover new interests as you go along. Trust the Mistress; keep an open mind. Dannyboy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Alexia Zito Posted January 10, 2020 Report Share Posted January 10, 2020 If you’ve come this far in your curiosity my advice is to just dive in and try a session There’s plenty of topics on here that give first timer advice, as well as session reviews that can clue you in on each mistress’ play style. Browsing the forum, website, as well as talking to booking will answer all of your questions. hope to hear about your first time soon! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Megan Ang Posted January 10, 2020 Report Share Posted January 10, 2020 14 hours ago, alex_cash said: Hi all, I am hoping to book my first scene. I've never done any sort of BDSM session before. I'm hoping to explore an interest in facesitting, humiliation, and maybe some light first-timer bondage. Is there a specific mistress who might be best for me to serve? Any tips for a first timer? Thanks. Be obedient, open minded & don’t be afraid to speak up. After all, it is your first time & we pop cherries well at the fortress ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GDH94 Posted January 10, 2020 Report Share Posted January 10, 2020 Hi AC, Couldn't have picked a better place for your first time. If you aren’t already drawn to a particular mistress yet, I recommend relaying your interests to Emma from Booking and have her choose a mistress for you. They’re all great at what they do and you honestly can’t go wrong with whoever you end up session with. You can also skim through the forum and read what different mistresses write and see who appeals to you. Some tips I see echoed on these first timer advice posts are to come clean, be respectful, and communicate (be it verbally or reactive). Don’t be afraid to take a few minutes at the start to discuss with your mistress what you want out of the session, and really enjoy yourself! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
franknot Posted January 11, 2020 Report Share Posted January 11, 2020 alex, In addition to all of the above, make every effort to book a second hour, (with the nude option if possible.) Once the butterflies settle and your eyes are no longer glazed over, you'll be glad you did. You're welcome. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Zora Jin Posted January 11, 2020 Report Share Posted January 11, 2020 Communication is key! I know some people might be a little nervous in the beginning but letting your mistress know what activities you want to explore will help her plan a session that will be a fun kinky affair for both parties involved ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Trouble Baby Posted January 17, 2020 Report Share Posted January 17, 2020 On 1/11/2020 at 4:08 AM, Mistress Zora Jin said: Communication is key! I know some people might be a little nervous in the beginning but letting your mistress know what activities you want to explore will help her plan a session that will be a fun kinky affair for both parties involved ? You'd be a good choice for a novice. Your knack for keeping me at ease with Your sense of humor while beating the crap out of me is second to none. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Zora Jin Posted January 31, 2020 Report Share Posted January 31, 2020 On 1/17/2020 at 2:20 AM, Big Trouble Baby said: You'd be a good choice for a novice. Your knack for keeping me at ease with Your sense of humor while beating the crap out of me is second to none. Hahaha thanks BTB! I do love exploring with new subs and turning them into true slaves and sluts by the end of the session. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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