Switchdance Posted September 6, 2022 Report Share Posted September 6, 2022 Hi all, I was wondering if the veterans at the fortress had any tips for me, an very timid and nervous sub. I’ve been to another dungeon in the city several times but each experience was sub par in my mind. I really want to give the fortress a try but having trouble getting over the hump so to speak. Any advice? Thanks! -Switchdance Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
drumrby123 Posted September 7, 2022 Report Share Posted September 7, 2022 I think it starts with clear communication of what you hope to get out of the experience. The better you can articulate that the more likely you are to have a session that meets your needs. While the ladies of the fortress are quite intuitive your communication up front will put them on the right path. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
philosophicalsub Posted September 7, 2022 Report Share Posted September 7, 2022 Good communication makes for good scenes. We subs have such a wide range of desires that a Mistress is not going to be able to figure out what you want from a scene without you telling her. Being open about what you’re looking for from a scene and what you think went wrong with your scenes in the past is probably your best bet. But sometimes when you’re timid, just being open can be hard. Something that helps me is asking permission before speaking (e.g. “would it be all right if I say what I think went wrong in the past…”). Helps me feel less like I’m being pushy and more like I’m being a good sub. Also, try and keep in mind that your Mistress, in addition to being sexy and skilled, is also just a person. Listening to what they have to say, asking them how they’re doing, what sort of stuff they like, etc, will help to relax you and also help to get that communication going. Treating her desires as at least as important as yours will help her to have a good time, which in turn will help you to have a better, more relaxed time. My favorite scenes are the ones that felt like collaborations, where we took the time before the scene to figure out stuff we were both excited about. Hope that helps. Best of luck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Willi65 Posted September 24, 2022 Report Share Posted September 24, 2022 @philosophicalsub, you gave a short and fabulous answer! It helped me a lot, too. Thanks! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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