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On 7/13/2024 at 7:41 PM, risotto said:

Yes, working up is how it's been the limit on ball-impact has generally been dealt with.  I find it kind of annoying that it is a limit for me, but it works the same way for me as for Jawz - too much takes me right out of the session and I just want it to end.  But it's no fun to make it totally off-limits.

As for the new hard limit: rape play.  It wasn't a limit before, because it never came up.  But a partner wanted to play that way, so I went along, as I don't have a conceptual problem when consent is 100% clear.  Never doing that again.

I find that broaching limits are best when done one-to-one. It's more intimate and connected for sensitive play like this, where she can gaze into your soul while testing the boundaries of your nether regions. Try a one-to-one session next time to see how far you can go- if you care to find out.

Oh- rape play is so edgy. I imagine it's harder to navigate from a male to female POV, no matter how well you know your partner, there will be societal issues that arise. Good on you for having explored!

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19 hours ago, Mistress Kang said:

I'm so curious- what happened with the "end results".

I honestly would love to be able to tell you a wild sexy crazy story......but in the interests of all honesty the Mistress in charge stopped us both midway

However, when I'm next in New York I'm more than eager to see how that might pan out in the Fortress 

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For me it is forced bi and sounding. Both used to be very hard limits but over time. Forced bi has become slightly more intriguing to me purely because of the power exchange dynamic. Sounding still terrifies me, but based on my experiences at the Fortress and the professionalism of everyone that works there I am absolutely willing to let any of ladies of the Fortress sound me in the future. 

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19 hours ago, Barb85 said:

I honestly would love to be able to tell you a wild sexy crazy story......but in the interests of all honesty the Mistress in charge stopped us both midway

However, when I'm next in New York I'm more than eager to see how that might pan out in the Fortress 

Did she make you eat it at least? 🙂

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5 hours ago, coldbrew92 said:

For me it is forced bi and sounding. Both used to be very hard limits but over time. Forced bi has become slightly more intriguing to me purely because of the power exchange dynamic. Sounding still terrifies me, but based on my experiences at the Fortress and the professionalism of everyone that works there I am absolutely willing to let any of ladies of the Fortress sound me in the future. 

I see what you did there with that work around...

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On 7/12/2024 at 7:58 PM, Mistress Kang said:

BDSM/Kink can be sexuality and an identity, to me it is both. I admire Mistress Damiana Chi and her sister, Mistress Jezebel Chi. I rented their dungeon in LA over 15 years ago and they were supreme hosts. Mistress Jezebel invited me to yum-cha and was a gracious big sister. 

So it sounds like you didn't know things belonged in your "like" column until you experienced them. 

Then keep needles off your list- there's plenty of other ways to achieve an adrenal rush 🙂

 

 

Jessy: My first hard limit was paying for a session. That didn't last very long but wouldn't that have been great and I could have tipped so much more, especially as a percentage of the "bill." LOL!  Still there is a hard limit, sounding, that has never softened in my mind.

Coincidentally, my very last session before my first session with you was with Damiana Chi. She was heavily involved with her Doctoral thesis at the time. I never met her sister.

Dannyboy

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On 7/12/2024 at 6:47 PM, Mistress Kang said:

I find my interpretation of BDSM to be ever evolving. I imagine that to be true for many, Dommes and subs alike. Special areas of interests change, expand, morph entirely. Limits range from soft to hard- hard never to be breached...until (if ever?) it moves over to the soft column. 

Have you ever moved a limit from the hard column to soft, but dreaded it ever being encroached? What was that limit? Did it happen? How did it feel? 

If it didn't happen, what are you hoping for?


 

When I first started in the scene 20+ years ago I couldn’t even take the tip of a strap on dildo in my mouth without gagging and almost throwing up…. In addition, even the thought of eating my own cum made me 🤢… Then I met "Boss" for the first time and she made me lie in my back and she straddled my face slowly forcing her strap on down my throat and spitting down on it will pushing it deep down my throat… before I knew it her strap on 🍆 was balls deep and she was telling me to jerk off till I came while she ☠️ fucked my throat. I came so hard that day, she told me to wipe all the cum on her cock and then she dangled the cock over my face and told me to open wide…. She drooled spit down the cock and then began to ☠️ fuck me again till the cock was clean of my cum and her spit….

 

another soft limit was 👊🏻- MVD broke that limit at the Sorority Slut Initiation with Mistress Koi and she hasn’t stopped putting her 👊🏻 in my 🍑 since that session… 

Now 👀 at me!!! I dream of being rotated by "Boss" and MVD 💀 fucked in every position imaginable 🪠 ☠️ too and would drink cups of spit and cum on command for them while they take turns 👊🏻 my 🍑 !!!

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On 8/26/2024 at 9:58 AM, FF Toy Slut said:

When I first started in the scene 20+ years ago I couldn’t even take the tip of a strap on dildo in my mouth without gagging and almost throwing up…. In addition, even the thought of eating my own cum made me 🤢… Then I met "Boss" for the first time and she made me lie in my back and she straddled my face slowly forcing her strap on down my throat and spitting down on it will pushing it deep down my throat… before I knew it her strap on 🍆 was balls deep and she was telling me to jerk off till I came while she ☠️ fucked my throat. I came so hard that day, she told me to wipe all the cum on her cock and then she dangled the cock over my face and told me to open wide…. She drooled spit down the cock and then began to ☠️ fuck me again till the cock was clean of my cum and her spit….

 

another soft limit was 👊🏻- MVD broke that limit at the Sorority Slut Initiation with Mistress Koi and she hasn’t stopped putting her 👊🏻 in my 🍑 since that session… 

Now 👀 at me!!! I dream of being rotated by "Boss" and MVD 💀 fucked in every position imaginable 🪠 ☠️ too and would drink cups of spit and cum on command for them while they take turns 👊🏻 my 🍑 !!!

So VIVID. I feel like I know this "Boss" person...

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On 7/12/2024 at 6:47 PM, Mistress Kang said:

I find my interpretation of BDSM to be ever evolving. I imagine that to be true for many, Dommes and subs alike. Special areas of interests change, expand, morph entirely. Limits range from soft to hard- hard never to be breached...until (if ever?) it moves over to the soft column. 

Have you ever moved a limit from the hard column to soft, but dreaded it ever being encroached? What was that limit? Did it happen? How did it feel? 

If it didn't happen, what are you hoping for?


 

Mistress Kang, i have had only 2 sessions at The Fortress, both with my Mistress Westwood. i am already learning so much from Her & my only desire now is to please Her in any way possible & expand my training. my hard limits were toilet training, but even that i am now thinking of moving into the soft column if it would please or amuse my Mistress....but only if it is something She would enjoy because Her amusement & preferences are now what i live for. i always found nipple torture hard to endure...but with Her it is now in my pleasure column & i endure it gladly to please Her. i still find ball busting extremely painful & distracting, and have unfortunately had to use my safe word once....which i want never to do.

i am hoping to do whatever it takes to please my Mistress Westwood...and hope to eventually report that all hard limits have been removed. 💓

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On 7/12/2024 at 8:19 PM, Mistress Kang said:

Mistress Koi is about as gentle as you can get with that activity.

 

In regards to ballbusting- that limit is completely understandable. It is what makes it or breaks it and there's no in between.

 

Yes Mistress Kang. i understand the problem jawz has with that and i also don't want to ever say no to my Mistress Westwood, as i posted in a recent reply. It is something i hope to learn slowly if my Mistress understands & allows for my slowness & problem with it.

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On 8/26/2024 at 9:58 AM, FF Toy Slut said:

When I first started in the scene 20+ years ago I couldn’t even take the tip of a strap on dildo in my mouth without gagging and almost throwing up…. In addition, even the thought of eating my own cum made me 🤢… Then I met "Boss" for the first time and she made me lie in my back and she straddled my face slowly forcing her strap on down my throat and spitting down on it will pushing it deep down my throat… before I knew it her strap on 🍆 was balls deep and she was telling me to jerk off till I came while she ☠️ fucked my throat. I came so hard that day, she told me to wipe all the cum on her cock and then she dangled the cock over my face and told me to open wide…. She drooled spit down the cock and then began to ☠️ fuck me again till the cock was clean of my cum and her spit….

 

another soft limit was 👊🏻- MVD broke that limit at the Sorority Slut Initiation with Mistress Koi and she hasn’t stopped putting her 👊🏻 in my 🍑 since that session… 

Now 👀 at me!!! I dream of being rotated by "Boss" and MVD 💀 fucked in every position imaginable 🪠 ☠️ too and would drink cups of spit and cum on command for them while they take turns 👊🏻 my 🍑 !!!

My 👊🏼 in that 🍑 was the hardest limit I’ve ever broken to this day with you, & I am still 😍 over it.
I wonder if there are any existing limits that Mistress Kang & I haven’t discovered? 
Maybe no snapping out next, till we decide to toss our broken 🧸🔨 SFT out into the ditch? 🥲

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