bflosub Posted September 5, 2009 Report Share Posted September 5, 2009 Hello, In preparing for an upcoming session, my wife, who is also my Mistress, has decided a little chastity training would keep me focused on being prepared to serve Mistress Kang. One of the assignments during the training, no doubt meant to torment me more, was to find three websites that got me excited. I came across a site that had a video called "The training of Berlin". This female sub took the pain and torture so well, I got me thinking. All of my submission so far has basically included servitude and humiliation. I have never been a fan of pain, but after watching this video, I have a desire to take pain to prove my submission. My question is, do you feel pain is a necessary part of submission. Excitedly awaiting my session with Mistress Kang. B Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whiplash Posted September 5, 2009 Report Share Posted September 5, 2009 Everyone is different. Pain has been a part of my submission since the beginning of bdsm experience. Initially I didn't care for pain either but I discovered that it not only I could enjoy but that it symbolized and helped to realize my submission to dominant women and dominatrixes. So for me it has become a necessary part of submitting. Of course that is not true for many subs and players. Each of us has to find our own path. whip Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dannyboy Posted September 6, 2009 Report Share Posted September 6, 2009 Hello, In preparing for an upcoming session, my wife, who is also my Mistress, has decided a little chastity training would keep me focused on being prepared to serve Mistress Kang. One of the assignments during the training, no doubt meant to torment me more, was to find three websites that got me excited. I came across a site that had a video called "The training of Berlin". This female sub took the pain and torture so well, I got me thinking. All of my submission so far has basically included servitude and humiliation. I have never been a fan of pain, but after watching this video, I have a desire to take pain to prove my submission. My question is, do you feel pain is a necessary part of submission. Excitedly awaiting my session with Mistress Kang. B I would define submission in this context as the giving up of something, the doing of something or the tolerance of something that you believe you would not or should not consider in your ordinary vanilla life. Pain is not necessary. Dannyboy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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