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How far in advance is it advisable to apply for a session? There's a good chance I'll be in New York later this year. Obviously it's too early now, but if I wait until I arrive to attempt to make a booking I might not be able to schedule a session.

 

You can book up to one month in advance. That's more than enough time to ensure your session can fit your schedule. I'd say a week or two is always a safe bet :)

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LTS- Based on your Forum profile and several posts, one absolute deduction I've made is that you love few things more than having your face firmly tucked beneath the warm plump buttock of your Mistress'. :) Secondly (and less absolutely), you may also favor a medieval-ish, warrior-princess look for your Domina, perhaps something similar to this:

 

Mistress Tran Chainmail Bikini.jpg

 

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LTS- Based on your Forum profile and several posts, one absolute deduction I've made is that you love few things more than having your face firmly tucked beneath the warm plump buttock of your Mistress'. :) Secondly (and less absolutely), you may also favor a medieval-ish, warrior-princess look for your Domina, perhaps something similar to this:

 

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Mistress Kang, given that I'd only made two posts prior to this thread, I'm going to have to say that your deductions are not so much insightful as outright psychic! I'm honestly amazed; if you can achieve that depth of understanding from only a hundred words or so, then I can only imagine what you might know if I actually tried to tell you about myself...

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LTS- Was I correct on both deductions? If not, which was correct? Games are a exciting for me, let's continue shall we? Give me more hints about yourself and I will tell you what I get from it! Ok? :)

Mistress Kang, you were irrefutably veracious regarding my appreciation of the transcendent feminine derrière, and of course Mistress Tran looks sensational in the chainmail bikini! Though I wonder if such material is really very comfortable against the perfect skin of a divine Domina?

 

I also love games Mistress Kang :D, however please forgive my impertinence, but might I be allowed to suggest your game might be more amusing if you were to choose a question to ask me, to which I respond with an oblique answer upon which basis you derive your conclusion, leaving me to then confirm or deny your inference at which point we could restart the cycle, assuming that I continued to hold your interest? Otherwise I risk not simply hinting, but outright disclosing the facts, thus denying you the delight of deducing my disposition!

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Mistress Kang, you were irrefutably veracious regarding my appreciation of the transcendent feminine derrière, and of course Mistress Tran looks sensational in the chainmail bikini! Though I wonder if such material is really very comfortable against the perfect skin of a divine Domina?

 

I also love games Mistress Kang :D, however please forgive my impertinence, but might I be allowed to suggest your game might be more amusing if you were to choose a question to ask me, to which I respond with an oblique answer upon which basis you derive your conclusion, leaving me to then confirm or deny your inference at which point we could restart the cycle, assuming that I continued to hold your interest? Otherwise I risk not simply hinting, but outright disclosing the facts, thus denying you the delight of deducing my disposition!

 

 

Hmm..sounds reasonable, let's do it.

 

Here are the questions you must answer honestly and completely, lying by omission is still lying and punishable by head scissors leg holds until unconsciousness takes over!

 

 

1- What is your ethnicity? & In what country do you currently reside?

 

2- In as much detail as possible, describe what you envisioned during the last time you held the sausage hostage :)

 

3- In as much detail as possible, describe your favorite, most "effective" scenario you envision when you want to have a special (TV/movie) night of "adjusting your antenna"?

 

4- Do you consider yourself one, several, or all of these?: fetishist, submissive, slave, servant, bottom

 

5- If you consider yourself a fetishist, what is your one main fetish?

 

6- If you consider yourself a submissive/slave/servant/bottom, what quality do you think your Mistress will appreciate most and why?

 

 

 

Go!

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Wow Mistress Kang, thank you for taking the time to so thoroughly interrogate me, before I've even booked a session!

 

Hmm..sounds reasonable, let's do it.

 

Here are the questions you must answer honestly and completely, lying by omission is still lying and punishable by head scissors leg holds until unconsciousness takes over!

That's not really a disincentive!
1- What is your ethnicity? & In what country do you currently reside?

I'm an English Caucasian currently residing in England. I must confess I'm quite curious as to why you chose this for your first question...

2- In as much detail as possible, describe what you envisioned during the last time you held the sausage hostage :)

My fantasies? Bearing in mind that fantasies don't have to meet the same safety standards as reality:

 

Fear. Helplessness. Objectification. Vulnerability. Merciless degradation and torture. Being totally restrained and used by a Domina for her amusement and entertainment, a Goddess who laughs and ignores my pleas for mercy when things get too painful or degrading, or even forcing me to beg for things she knows I absolutely don't want at all ("Please castrate me and force feed me your divine excrement!") A Domina who would consider complete bondage to mean no limits or safe word! A Mistress who wishes to sniff out my personality and extinguish my ego by breaking me down emotionally, mentally and physically, hollowing out my soul with the ultimate goal of transforming me in to a flesh automaton to exist only as an extension of her will, a living utility with neither name nor identity existing only to serve her needs and whims.

 

Despite, or perhaps because of this cruel and heartless treatment I would worship and adore her as a divine female, a perfect Goddess, and know that I'm just an inferior male, a piece of meat, an object to be used and abused, without mercy or compassion.

 

Oh, and of course near constant worshipping her derrière!

 

 

Another fantasy would be playing "Mistress roulette" where I inform the Domina what I don't want, but my true limits depend on her mood that day! Which I don't find out until I'm tied down and it's much too late:

 

Perhaps I'm lucky and meet a kind-hearted Mistress who's feeling merciful today and having a good day and just wants some flirting and gentle sensual play, and would never dream of ignoring my limits.

 

Or maybe I'm unlucky and meet a genuine hardcore sadist who would relish the opportunity to victimise and violate a helpless, sobbing slave. Someone for whom the fact that I was completely unwilling and suffering terribly would only add spice to the act, rather than someone whose conscience would be tormented by such monstrous cruelty.

 

 

In reality I don't really have a very high pain threshold, in fact I'm not really masochistic, for me pain is about the power exchange; the fact that the Mistress is in control of what I feel and can choose to inflict pain on me while I have no say in the matter of what she does, which also adds to the fear and anticipation of what she might do. And I should clarify in reality my mouth has only been used as an ashtray and a spittoon at this point, never as a toilet.

 

Probably the best way to sum up is to say I don't precisely want to have horrible things done to me, more that I desire to spend time with a woman who wants to do horrible things to me, while I have no way of resisting, knowing that she's going to do what she wants and enjoys. Really, the most exciting thing in the dungeon is the Mistress's imagination and creativity, and the terror of what they might produce.

 

3- In as much detail as possible, describe your favorite, most "effective" scenario you envision when you want to have a special (TV/movie) night of "adjusting your antenna"?

I'm not quite sure how this question differs from question 2. Lots of ass worship/face-sitting/smothering. Restrictive bondage. Being reduced to a sub-human object (Ash-tray, spittoon etc..., maybe toilet, but I've never tried this in reality). Lots of ass worship/face-sitting/smothering. Verbal and physical humiliation and abuse . Ball-busting/CBT is probably the single act that makes me feel most vulnerable. Foot Worship/Trampling.

 

But most importantly the belief that the Mistress is actually enjoying what she is doing.

 

4- Do you consider yourself one, several, or all of these?: fetishist, submissive, slave, servant, bottom

Well, you've already uncovered one of my fetishes, so I have to say I'm undeniably a fetishist! Though I doubt I have anything unusual enough to surprise you.

 

Regarding being submissive/slave/servant/bottom, it would depend on what definitions you're using:

 

Slave seems to be most often defined as no escape, no limits, no safe word, total obedience; While I certainly have fantasies about this, I don't know if I could live up to the reality with a Mistress I'd only just met. And also I'd be afraid of disappointing her if I asked to enter into this kind of session.

 

Servant as defined as one who serves certainly appeals to me, but I'm not going to be in New York enough build up that kind of relationship; you wouldn't trust a stranger to clean your home, do your laundry, buy your groceries, pick up your dry cleaning or chauffeur you around, so really in what capacity could I serve? Clean up the dungeon afterwards maybe?

 

Realistically for your purposes I would have to say at this point I'm at most somewhere between bottom and submissive.

 

5- If you consider yourself a fetishist, what is your one main fetish?
A question to which you already know the answer... an appreciation of the female behind, and all the activities that go along with it.
6- If you consider yourself a submissive/slave/servant/bottom, what quality do you think your Mistress will appreciate most and why?

Every woman is unique as a snowflake and unpredictable as atomic decay, so anticipating which quality will be most appreciated would be nearly impossible without knowing the Mistress, though I'd imagine my strong desire to please and amuse would not be unwelcome.

 

I do hope reading this hasn't bored you Mistress Kang.

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LTS- Haven't forgotten about you. Give me a bit, I'll reply with more thoughts ;-) In the meantime, for questions #2 and #3- take the question LITERALLY- tell me the ACTUAL ONE fantasy/scenario you had during each of those times. For example, in regards to Q#2- tell me what you were thinking of (if anything), what you were imagining, was it an entire scenario? was it just bits and pieces of imagery popping up in your head? I want to know the thoughts during that one time (the most recent time). Make sense? Similarly for Q#3. Got it? :)

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LTS- Haven't forgotten about you. Give me a bit, I'll reply with more thoughts :wink: In the meantime, for questions #2 and #3- take the question LITERALLY- tell me the ACTUAL ONE fantasy/scenario you had during each of those times. For example, in regards to Q#2- tell me what you were thinking of (if anything), what you were imagining, was it an entire scenario? was it just bits and pieces of imagery popping up in your head? I want to know the thoughts during that one time (the most recent time). Make sense? Similarly for Q#3. Got it? :)

I do understand Mistress Kang, I imagine the administrative factors of running a dungeon alone must be quite time consuming (I was incredibly impressed with the degree of thought you've put into your business model, as described in your Pandemos interview), and it is of course a woman's prerogative to make a man wait:

 

"Being your slave, what should I do but tend

Upon the hours and times of your desire?"

 

I don't have a specific favourite scenario/script that I return to, only recurring and ever expanding list of themes and activities (Mostly covered above), I tend to fantasize about variety of different scenarios. I must confess the last time I neglected to make full use of my imagination, instead fulfilling my needs by viewing a few videos online. I could give example scenarios but I'm not actually sure how far I can go in describing the types of things I fantasize about without violating the Terms of Use, and really I don't wish to be given warning points, or even worse be banned! :o I'm honestly not trying to be evasive here, simply circumspect regarding the protocol of the forum.

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