blackstalian Posted October 15, 2012 Report Share Posted October 15, 2012 Subs, have you ever been dominated by a mistress in plain clothes, or been dominated while wearing them? Mistresses have you ever dominated a sub while in street wear? did it add to the experience in any way? I've been wondering about the connection between fetish play and fetish wear - if it offers a level of separation for "playtime" that otherwise might be harder for our brains to achieve if there was no context switch. For any of those who have done sessions in plain clothes, do you ever find situations in vanilla life where you accidentally switch to sub/dom mode? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Tran Posted October 15, 2012 Report Share Posted October 15, 2012 I enjoy wearing my gym clothes during a session especially a very physical session like kicking or wrestling. Im a big fan of role play as well so outfit choice is very important. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John082 Posted October 15, 2012 Report Share Posted October 15, 2012 I admit I'm curious about this too. The notion of being dominated by a Mistress in plain clothes is very exciting to me. I know I would have no issue with the missing "level of separation," but perhaps the Mistress might feel differently. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johnny000000 Posted October 15, 2012 Report Share Posted October 15, 2012 I always wondered that - if a Mistress would do a session in street clothes - like t-shirt, jeans & barefeet - Like I bet Mistress Jung looks totally hot in jeans & a t-shirt and barefoot with a riding crop or a ruler. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jeriko13 Posted October 15, 2012 Report Share Posted October 15, 2012 I requested a plain clothes domination scene with Mistress Kang, who wore jeans and a tank top. Mistress Tran was a latter addition to the session, and didn't wear them. I just assume that she hadn't been told, which was no big deal. In any case, it was hot. Word of warning though. Jeans smothering is more likely to leave bruises on the face. I've also done a bunch of sessions where the clothing was more business attire. Pencil Skirt, Blouse, and pumps. Probably my favorite outfit for sessions, really. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joey Posted October 15, 2012 Report Share Posted October 15, 2012 yes, i was dominated by an Asian domme wearing a blouse and blue jeans. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johnny000000 Posted October 16, 2012 Report Share Posted October 16, 2012 I requested a plain clothes domination scene with Mistress Kang, who wore jeans and a tank top. Mistress Tran was a latter addition to the session, and didn't wear them. I just assume that she hadn't been told, which was no big deal. In any case, it was hot. Word of warning though. Jeans smothering is more likely to leave bruises on the face. I've also done a bunch of sessions where the clothing was more business attire. Pencil Skirt, Blouse, and pumps. Probably my favorite outfit for sessions, really. They have smothering at the Fortress? Thanks for the tip about jeans smothering - that's good to know. An office/business style session sounds like fun - especially if They're wearing pumps. Thanks again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Faye Sunya Posted October 18, 2012 Report Share Posted October 18, 2012 I enjoy wearing my gym clothes during a session especially a very physical session like kicking or wrestling. Im a big fan of role play as well so outfit choice is very important. I feel the same way. I love being able to wear different outfits/costumes because i feel like I am becoming a different person. I have a passion for anything latex, leather, lace, etc. etc. but I do love costumes/looks that make me look harmless and innocent. I'm a big fan of looking like a Japanese schoolgirl or the shy girl next door. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Haru Posted October 19, 2012 Report Share Posted October 19, 2012 I love clothes and shoes of all kinds. I find myself gravitating to more dommy fashions in my everyday clothes. The pointy black shoes in my candids were a purchase originally for everyday but golly, do they work in the dungeon. Role play is super fun, although Japanese Catholic School Girl isn't much of a stretch since it's autobigraphical Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johnny000000 Posted October 19, 2012 Report Share Posted October 19, 2012 I love all designs of Women's shoes, but black pumps were always my favorite (maybe cause I'm a Bettie Page fan) - like a classic automonile or vintage guitar - to me, black pumps are timeless. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wild willie Posted October 19, 2012 Report Share Posted October 19, 2012 I enjoy wearing my gym clothes during a session especially a very physical session like kicking or wrestling. Im a big fan of role play as well so outfit choice is very important. And boy are you good at it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Zhao Posted October 19, 2012 Report Share Posted October 19, 2012 black, This is an interesting query, the borders of mental space defined by clothing or environment. I think that the ritual of a Mistress shedding her street clothes and donning a leather outfit and thigh high boots is necessary in transitioning into the head space of being the dominant sexual predator. Without that ritual, perhaps the transition is less defined. As with subs, the ritual of entering "the cage" upon arrival at the Fortress, being guided down our dark, mysterious hallways, and ordered to remove all your clothing also aids in the transition of daily life to meat puppet. But when all those rituals are forgone, is the mental space as clearly defined? I have to say that for some of us, ie. Mistress Tran, being dominant is constant and immutable. She can dominate her way into an impenetrable ostrich egg. And then for some others, like myself, who switch more often, the borders are subject to morph into interesting, less restricted areas. I've been wondering about the connection between fetish play and fetish wear - if it offers a level of separation for "playtime" that otherwise might be harder for our brains to achieve if there was no context switch. For any of those who have done sessions in plain clothes, do you ever find situations in vanilla life where you accidentally switch to sub/dom mode? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shane Posted October 19, 2012 Report Share Posted October 19, 2012 Role play is super fun, although Japanese Catholic School Girl isn't much of a stretch since it's autobigraphical How about a female in a Japenese WWII military uniform, or crazier yet in a Nazi uniform? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
akiravn1 Posted October 19, 2012 Report Share Posted October 19, 2012 I feel the same way. I love being able to wear different outfits/costumes because i feel like I am becoming a different person. I have a passion for anything latex, leather, lace, etc. etc. but I do love costumes/looks that make me look harmless and innocent. I'm a big fan of looking like a Japanese schoolgirl or the shy girl next door. I'm a BIG fan of the Japanese schoolgirl look. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jung's Jewboy Posted October 19, 2012 Report Share Posted October 19, 2012 I love clothes and shoes of all kinds. I find myself gravitating to more dommy fashions in my everyday clothes. The pointy black shoes in my candids were a purchase originally for everyday but golly, do they work in the dungeon. Role play is super fun, although Japanese Catholic School Girl isn't much of a stretch since it's autobigraphical Well, need I say how appealing the Catholic School Girl look is for a former Jewish school boy?!? A sexual icon if there ever was one. I also think a woman's business suit is a very hot look, particularly with black pumps. I have always thought 'trailer park' street clothes could be a hot look for the right kind of role-play...Candy's shoes, cut-off denim shorts or skinny jeans, a husband-beater t-shirt. A subtle scent of Newport Menthol cigs, Doritos and sweat would certainly round out this other piece of sexual iconography ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
akiravn1 Posted October 20, 2012 Report Share Posted October 20, 2012 black, This is an interesting query, the borders of mental space defined by clothing or environment. I think that the ritual of a Mistress shedding her street clothes and donning a leather outfit and thigh high boots is necessary in transitioning into the head space of being the dominant sexual predator. Without that ritual, perhaps the transition is less defined. As with subs, the ritual of entering "the cage" upon arrival at the Fortress, being guided down our dark, mysterious hallways, and ordered to remove all your clothing also aids in the transition of daily life to meat puppet. But when all those rituals are forgone, is the mental space as clearly defined? I have to say that for some of us, ie. Mistress Tran, being dominant is constant and immutable. She can dominate her way into an impenetrable ostrich egg. And then for some others, like myself, who switch more often, the borders are subject to morph into interesting, less restricted areas. As always, I greatly appreciate getting your take on such interesting subject matter. For it is these rituals you describe that creates such a thrilling anticipation to transition into the much desired role of meat puppet. Should these rituals be forgone, I am sure my perception would be somewhat altered. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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