Double00zero Posted January 17, 2013 Report Posted January 17, 2013 I really want to visit but im so nervous, lol. I feel like I am doing something wrong, or feel a bit a shamed...I don't know how to describe it...but every time I get ready to schedule a session I freak out. Does anyone feel like this? Quote
Big Trouble Baby Posted January 18, 2013 Report Posted January 18, 2013 I really want to visit but im so nervous, lol. I feel like I am doing something wrong, or feel a bit a shamed...I don't know how to describe it...but every time I get ready to schedule a session I freak out. Does anyone feel like this? I really want to visit but im so nervous, lol. I feel like I am doing something wrong, or feel a bit a shamed...I don't know how to describe it...but every time I get ready to schedule a session I freak out. Does anyone feel like this? OO, I think everybody is apprehensive in the beginning. I know I was. It took me 4 months of looking at the Fortress Gallery and reading the Forum before I got the courage to request a session. I would contact the Fortress and explain your interests and see who they think is a good match for you. Quote
Whostoy Posted January 18, 2013 Report Posted January 18, 2013 I felt like this for a long time. But now I booked my first session for this weekend with Mistress Koi. I'm more eager than excited and I can't wait. But it did take a couple of months build up the nerve. Quote
Big Trouble Baby Posted January 18, 2013 Report Posted January 18, 2013 I felt like this for a long time. But now I booked my first session for this weekend with Mistress Koi. I'm more eager than excited and I can't wait. But it did take a couple of months build up the nerve. Seeing Mistress Koi? Now there's a surprise. Quote
Oneiros Posted January 18, 2013 Report Posted January 18, 2013 Many of those feelings will go away as soon as you meet one of the mistresses for the first time. Afterwards, you'll regret you waited so long. I'm a total newbie at this too. Take a deep breath and do it. Quote
EdgarAH Posted January 18, 2013 Report Posted January 18, 2013 in the words of Nike, "Just do it" Quote
joh Posted January 18, 2013 Report Posted January 18, 2013 I've sessioned about 10 times and still get nervous. It's part of the whole experience and makes it all that much more fun Quote
spankbri Posted January 18, 2013 Report Posted January 18, 2013 As soon as you receive one of Mistress Rhee's smily faces in her emails, you'll know there's no reason for trepidation. They truly are sweet (Tran would protest, I think), and it's a totally genuine sweetness. Given what you are going there for, this counts for everything. Quote
chrisf975 Posted January 18, 2013 Report Posted January 18, 2013 It's taken me 2 years to build up the nerve to book a session. In have a session booked for next week and I'm very nervous but excited at the same time. Quote
Oneiros Posted January 18, 2013 Report Posted January 18, 2013 It's taken me 2 years to build up the nerve to book a session. In have a session booked for next week and I'm very nervous but excited at the same time. Congrats! Your only regret will be waiting so long. Quote
Avantis Posted January 18, 2013 Report Posted January 18, 2013 It's taken me 2 years to build up the nerve to book a session. In have a session booked for next week and I'm very nervous but excited at the same time. May I ask who you booked? Quote
Mistress Tran Posted January 18, 2013 Report Posted January 18, 2013 It will be ok. I guarantee you will have a great time......there is peace in total surrender. Quote
joey Posted January 18, 2013 Report Posted January 18, 2013 i've never been to the Fortress but i can speak of first session jitters. i booked a session with a major Asian domme and prior to the session i was a nervous wreck. when session day came and i was waiting outside her door i almost pissed myself. She really put me at ease so session jitters in the future were not so bad. i became her personal slave for 14 months before she relocated. i miss her very much. Quote
chrisf975 Posted January 19, 2013 Report Posted January 19, 2013 May I ask who you booked? Mistress Sunya. Quote
Mistress Haru Posted January 22, 2013 Report Posted January 22, 2013 We only want you nervous in the fun way. Quote
Jung's Jewboy Posted January 23, 2013 Report Posted January 23, 2013 I really want to visit but im so nervous, lol. I feel like I am doing something wrong, or feel a bit a shamed...I don't know how to describe it...but every time I get ready to schedule a session I freak out. Does anyone feel like this? Well, I can tell you that you have picked the ideal place for your first session. The mistresses here are all smart, interesting, funny, perverse and perceptive. Quote
whiplash Posted January 23, 2013 Report Posted January 23, 2013 I used to feel that way when I first had the yearning to see a Mistress. It took me about a year to overcome my fear and jump in the dark waters of bdsm. I haven 't regretted one moment since I took the plunge. I certianly understand your reluctance but if you really want to experience a session at the fortress I recommend that you discuss it with one of the ladies at the fortress and take a leap of faith and schedule one. You will not regret it. whip Quote
Double00zero Posted January 23, 2013 Author Report Posted January 23, 2013 Hi All, thank you very much for the feedback. I have decided that I will put my fears aside and book a session. I haven't booked yet as I would like to wait after the recent cold weather passes NYC...but right after I will Quote
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