submissive nature

[Manpeach]

LW,

 

This is a very interesting question, but I know no better than anyone else can speculate.

My theory is that it's both. Some people are very submissive in nature, and that desire is only exacerbated by daily stressors such as breadwinning and being in charge of many endeavors. But there is also an exploratory, more fluid aspect to submission, which I find is amplified when someone with the right tendencies is able to find a partner which whom they're willing to let control them. This desire could be latent until domination is set forth, so the curiosity for that feeling of pleasing their partner to the point of submission grows with time as the relationship does. So everything you've reflected on in yourself is correct, but isn't always the case for everyone.

 

The client I mentioned, who shall remain nameless until further notice, has mentioned that his eyes are now open to his own submissive nature. In his case, I believe it's the former theory. But the latter also comes into play because I believe he only feels safe within certain company (is this redundant?). As for this particular client, I think that his facade of control through roleplay has melted away and he is more adept at owning his own submissive nature and perhaps exploring the boundaries and limitations of what that means for him.

 

I feel like I just repeated everything you wrote.

 

Personally, I'd love to read more of your thoughts about this client. What do you have planned for him/her going forward.