Manpeach Posted April 24, 2014 Report Share Posted April 24, 2014 One of my favorite parts of a session is the aftercare. That time at the end of a session when you’re calming down and talking with your mistress about the session or anything in general. In fact, my sessions with Mistress Zhao often include conversation throughout the session. We discuss intimate feelings and the stuff that affects our state of mind. I enjoy the openness and ease of the discussion. Oh yeah, and you both happen to be naked. This aspect of the event adds to the unique level of comfort of being with your mistress. The uninhibited nature of the situation enhances the openness and sharing of thoughts and feelings. I wish I could sit naked together with friends once in awhile. I’m sure the conversation would be much more interesting. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Howard Posted April 24, 2014 Report Share Posted April 24, 2014 One of my favorite parts of a session is the aftercare. That time at the end of a session when you’re calming down and talking with your mistress about the session or anything in general. In fact, my sessions with Mistress Zhao often include conversation throughout the session. We discuss intimate feelings and the stuff that affects our state of mind. I enjoy the openness and ease of the discussion. Oh yeah, and you both happen to be naked. This aspect of the event adds to the unique level of comfort of being with your mistress. The uninhibited nature of the situation enhances the openness and sharing of thoughts and feelings. I wish I could sit naked together with friends once in awhile. I’m sure the conversation would be much more interesting. Manpeach, This is a whole new side of you. But I agree, the aftercare and end of session BS'ing is great. I find in most of my sessions, I am chatting with the Mistresses throughout the session unless gagged. But sitting down at the end is generally not an option. A little too tender at that point. But to each his own. The naked aspect is indeed nice and refreshing. My favorite moment, the Mistress "Hug" as they escort you out the door. It is a nice touch that is real and meaningful. Of course a double domme session is a double "hug" event. Nice as well. This Mistress gesture is really important, at least to me. As to sitting naked and chatting with friends, hmmmmm. Might be more of a challenge, but go for it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dannyboy Posted April 25, 2014 Report Share Posted April 25, 2014 One of my favorite parts of a session is the aftercare. That time at the end of a session when you’re calming down and talking with your mistress about the session or anything in general. In fact, my sessions with Mistress Zhao often include conversation throughout the session. We discuss intimate feelings and the stuff that affects our state of mind. I enjoy the openness and ease of the discussion. Oh yeah, and you both happen to be naked. This aspect of the event adds to the unique level of comfort of being with your mistress. The uninhibited nature of the situation enhances the openness and sharing of thoughts and feelings. I wish I could sit naked together with friends once in awhile. I’m sure the conversation would be much more interesting. Manpeach: The aftercare or debriefing part of the session is very important and and strengthens ones connection with his Mistress. Sitting naked with friends is not on my list of things to do unless they are female and my wife is not present. Dannyboy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wayne Posted April 25, 2014 Report Share Posted April 25, 2014 One of my favorite parts of a session is the aftercare. That time at the end of a session when you’re calming down and talking with your mistress about the session or anything in general. In fact, my sessions with Mistress Zhao often include conversation throughout the session. We discuss intimate feelings and the stuff that affects our state of mind. I enjoy the openness and ease of the discussion. Oh yeah, and you both happen to be naked. This aspect of the event adds to the unique level of comfort of being with your mistress. The uninhibited nature of the situation enhances the openness and sharing of thoughts and feelings. I wish I could sit naked together with friends once in awhile. I’m sure the conversation would be much more interesting. I couldn't agree more. Also, I few times with Mistress Zhao and Mistress Kang, we would talk for while then suddenly realize a good amount of time has gone by and almost was unaware for I came for a session. This seems makes the session even more intense, by making more of a connection. Then at the end, as you describe, finishes it off perfectly. The talking and exchanges of ideas is just as exhilerating as the session itself! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Howard Posted April 25, 2014 Report Share Posted April 25, 2014 One of my favorite parts of a session is the aftercare. That time at the end of a session when you’re calming down and talking with your mistress about the session or anything in general. In fact, my sessions with Mistress Zhao often include conversation throughout the session. We discuss intimate feelings and the stuff that affects our state of mind. I enjoy the openness and ease of the discussion. Oh yeah, and you both happen to be naked. This aspect of the event adds to the unique level of comfort of being with your mistress. The uninhibited nature of the situation enhances the openness and sharing of thoughts and feelings. I wish I could sit naked together with friends once in awhile. I’m sure the conversation would be much more interesting. The "Hug" at the end of the session is almost better than the session. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Howard Posted April 26, 2014 Report Share Posted April 26, 2014 Manpeach: The aftercare or debriefing part of the session is very important and and strengthens ones connection with his Mistress. Sitting naked with friends is not on my list of things to do unless they are female and my wife is not present. Dannyboy Dannyboy, I could not agree more on your first statement, but as to the second, simply win the Mega Millions or Powerball and you will not need to qualify the statement. Just a thought. Howard Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Fei Posted April 26, 2014 Report Share Posted April 26, 2014 One of my favorite parts of a session is the aftercare. That time at the end of a session when you’re calming down and talking with your mistress about the session or anything in general. In fact, my sessions with Mistress Zhao often include conversation throughout the session. We discuss intimate feelings and the stuff that affects our state of mind. I enjoy the openness and ease of the discussion. Oh yeah, and you both happen to be naked. This aspect of the event adds to the unique level of comfort of being with your mistress. The uninhibited nature of the situation enhances the openness and sharing of thoughts and feelings. I wish I could sit naked together with friends once in awhile. I’m sure the conversation would be much more interesting. The physical tends to reflect the mental, doesn't it? When you're disarmed by being disrobed, it's a new level of intimacy and comfort. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Manpeach Posted April 28, 2014 Author Report Share Posted April 28, 2014 Manpeach: The aftercare or debriefing part of the session is very important and and strengthens ones connection with his Mistress. Sitting naked with friends is not on my list of things to do unless they are female and my wife is not present. Dannyboy LOL Dannyboy. It's obvious you have more than talk on your mind! The "Hug" at the end of the session is almost better than the session. Howard, I have been fortunate enough to receive a mid-session hug from Mistress Zhao. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Manpeach Posted April 28, 2014 Author Report Share Posted April 28, 2014 I couldn't agree more. Also, I few times with Mistress Zhao and Mistress Kang, we would talk for while then suddenly realize a good amount of time has gone by and almost was unaware for I came for a session. This seems makes the session even more intense, by making more of a connection. Then at the end, as you describe, finishes it off perfectly. The talking and exchanges of ideas is just as exhilerating as the session itself! I've done the same, Wayne. Mistress Zhao asked some questions about a situation she knew I was dealing with and we talked first, she beat me later. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Manpeach Posted April 28, 2014 Author Report Share Posted April 28, 2014 The physical tends to reflect the mental, doesn't it? When you're disarmed by being disrobed, it's a new level of intimacy and comfort. So true Mistress Fei. Having that outer level removed along with any shame or pride really gets past the pretense Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dannyboy Posted April 29, 2014 Report Share Posted April 29, 2014 LOL Dannyboy. It's obvious you have more than talk on your mind! Howard, I have been fortunate enough to receive a mid-session hug from Mistress Zhao. The hugs are always great whenever they take place plus the ones at the end are so precious. I have a fertile and devious mind to quote a great Mistress. Dannyboy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistress Zhao Posted May 1, 2014 Report Share Posted May 1, 2014 I enjoy the openness and ease of the discussion. Oh yeah, and you both happen to be naked. This aspect of the event adds to the unique level of comfort of being with your mistress. The uninhibited nature of the situation enhances the openness and sharing of thoughts and feelings. I wish I could sit naked together with friends once in awhile. I’m sure the conversation would be much more interesting. Well put, Manpeach! This is an interesting insight because I also believe that stripping away the masks and facades that clothing and artifice can provide would lead us to be more honest and sincere humans. We feel more natural in our naked states, more vulnerable, but also more open and feel less of a need to maintain the front we think we need to "get through life". If only we ALL walked around naked, the world would be a much much much more honest and perhaps peaceful place!! I guess I now know one of the many appeals of nudist colonies. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kneed2please Posted May 7, 2014 Report Share Posted May 7, 2014 It was January when I had my first session at FF, and it was with Mistress Tran. While the entire session runs like a film loop in my brain, the post-session chat is one of the more memorable moments. What a wonderful end to an unbelievable session! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JustAGuy Posted May 7, 2014 Report Share Posted May 7, 2014 I definitely love the "aftercare" sequence and always wish it lasted longer. I agree with Zhao, Fei and Manpeach that the naked aspect breaks down some of the barriers and pretense. I find myself rushing to get my shower and get my clothes back on...but as I think of it now I wish I could wash up and then have a long conversation in the nip. I think for a lot of subs, getting past embarrassment at out own desires, or a normal sense of pride that conflicts with submissive desires gets in the way of intimacy with a Dom. Also, with all your sexual desire fueling this idea of a divine Goddess whose boots you aren't fit to lick, it can be nice once you've...discharged some of that desire to actually speak like a person to the real-life, wonderful but ultimately mortal woman you've been dealing with. Now I wonder about the idea of a post-session cup of tea. It could part of a fantasy scene of course, with Asian trimmings in the tatami room, but I'm thinking more of just a man and a woman having a relaxing cup of tea (maybe with a "biscuit") in the UK/Irish style. Post-shower but pre-dressing, or maybe while wearing robes. I'd never want that to end...maybe that's the problem, they'd have to kick me out at the end... On a related note, based on one experience I would highly recommend doing a Dinner & Domination session to any subs who haven't tried it. I ended up having dinner before the session and I felt a deeper connection and trust as the session started, making it much easier to relax and enjoy the ride. I think it made it better for the Dom too (though my Mistress was such a sweetheart I doubt she'd have let me think anything else). A dinner post-session might be even more fun if you like post-session talk, but I doubt you could do it nude. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Howard Posted May 9, 2014 Report Share Posted May 9, 2014 If only we ALL walked around naked, the world would be a much much much more honest and perhaps peaceful place!! Well, they key question is were would you put your credit card? How would you shop till you drop without it? Just Saying. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dannyboy Posted May 10, 2014 Report Share Posted May 10, 2014 Well, they key question is were would you put your credit card? How would you shop till you drop without it? Just Saying. Oh well! I guess I'll have to use cash. Dannyboy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Howard Posted May 10, 2014 Report Share Posted May 10, 2014 Oh well! I guess I'll have to use cash. Dannyboy Same issue, no place to put the wallet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Manpeach Posted May 14, 2014 Author Report Share Posted May 14, 2014 Same issue, no place to put the wallet. I guess you've never been to prison Howard Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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